All About China > Marrying A Lady In China
Unhappy Now !
China Shark:
Carl, it is thier rules and thier playing field, we're just renting space here. My first girl on Chnlove ended because of parents opinion of me. After three letters of getting slammed I ended it for both of our sakes. To be honest I don't think there is anyway of changing someone's mind once it is made. Also, I'm finding out Chinese can be pretty stubborn when they set thier mind to something. It happens, put it behind you and turn it into a positive for the next lucky lady you meet. Everything happens for a reason yet you might not appreciate that right at this moment. Believe me there is no shortage of incredible women over here.
China Shark Mike
MLM:
Carl, I'm sorry to hear this and I want to tell you that I also had gone through this, her father said he didn't want a nonChinese in his family and she was 39 years old, but it worked out for me, the old man did me a huge favor, I had met a very beautiful woman that I have married and now we are expecting a baby so everything has worked out for me as I am sure it will work out for you, just don't give up, take the time to heal, then try again brother. :D
Arnold:
What a Brotherhood , I think sometimes ... misfortune's of certain Member's , really bring us all closer together as a " Special Family " . One of a kind ! I myself , must thank you all , for all the support the not so lucky brother's here receive . It really makes me proud to be part of such wonderful Forum . I'm sure I can speak for all the Mod's here , including Martin and Ronan .
Carl:
Thanks Brothers... you guys are a great group. I'm still friends with Li, so maybe I can find out a little more about what transpired when she met with her parents about us. I'd like to find out if there is any way to change their minds - especially considering they have never met me. For that matter, I've not even met Li yet, however I do think she is pretty special. I guess if we are not to have a closer relationship, I should be proud to have her as a friend.
Carl
MLM:
Last year at this time of year I was in Nanchong, Sichuan China and had been there for 3 days when a terrible thing happened, it woke me and the woman I was seeing at that time, it was the quakes that hit China on May 12, 2008, I spent the next 2 weeks trying to help where I could, I seen things that will haunt me for the rest of my life and some of the bravest acts I have ever seen one person do for another, I will never forget these people, my wife and I have an alter set up in rememberance of them along side of the one we have for her Mother and my Father, but this time of year I am finding out is very painful for me.
Sorry, I had to tell someone what I am feeling inside and the brotherhood seemed to be the place, I could not bring myself to go to work today, I can't keep my mind on what I need to do there, matbe tomorrow, again I am sorry and thank you.
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