Jim,
You got her, you love her, she loves you and she is yours and if a another day over the other makes her happy, so be it. Save yourself for better arguments like the toilet lid. Up or down? Early in my first marriage, not that I had more than one, yet, we argued over it all the time. Then about 3:00am one morning she went to the bathroom, didn't turn on the light but sat down. I was woke up by this horrific scream as she sat and went further than she intended. She cried, I realized it was my fault and I never left it up again in 27 years. She is gone and I still don't do it. The toilet lid was tongue in cheek but my refusal to work with her was an argument that didn't need to happen. I wound up upsetting her for no good reason.
This goes back to my negotiable and non-negotiable rules of life. It doesn't change me or who I am, it does satisfy her so be it. Negotible! Let me throw one other kink in. Biblically your wedding date was the first night you guys did what we all desire to do with that one special person we love. To me there are some battles not worth fighting about and again for me this would be one of those.
This concept changed my life in that I learned to become more flexible. She still thought I was a jerk so I guess in her eyes I was a flexible jerk. :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
I would let her do what she wants and move on. You got the ultimate prize anyway.
(Jim, I wrote this last night and re-read it this morning. I don't know what got in me last night but I guess I was way past being tired. I was out from 9am to about 10pm in that Georgia dog day heat and well... you know..... I hope you read it again if you did because the first writing was really kind of rude.)
Shaun
