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froseman:
I did the Chnlove Rating System for Agency Services for the agency. Then I got an email from the lady. The lady said that her parents do not like my skin color. I am an African American. My skin is a little lighter than the current US President (President Obama). The lady said that her father has cancer. The lady said that the agency requested money because the lady?s father is sick. I recommend that you go shopping with your Chinese lady and buy gifts for her parents, but you should not just give a large amount of money to the parents. The lady did not ask for the money. The agency asked for the money.
The Changsha Agency is:
Changsha Love Bridge Company
Agency ID: P216
I have terminated the relationship. I am talking to another lady.
cHi:
Sorry to hear about the experience :( It's horrible that the agency and the lady had no regard for the kind of money and planning that go into traveling across the globe to meet them. Would you mind posting the lady profile in the scam section as well? I'd think it best for us all to stay clear of that one >_
metooap:
It sounds like the agency you were dealing with is shaky.
I am African American. I went to meet my lady in April. I had the absolute time of my life. My lady met me at the airport in Beijing along with the translator. The translator is great. We are great friends to this day.
We traveled all over China went to some very fabulous places, and every where I went I was treated with respect and courtesy. In fact, my lady had to tell the women that would approach us that I was her husband!
I met my lady's mother and father, both are great. Both had some tough questions to ask me and rightfully so. They let me know that my lady was there only daughter so I must treat her with care. I assured her parents ? in fact I gave them my word I would do that.
After the first day, my lady and I decided that the services of the translator would no longer be required and we quietly moved on without our translator.
You name it, we did it from horseback riding to mountain climbing we did it. We did some fantastic personal things as well!
I use to be in the Air Force so I have traveled a lot and experienced many cultures. I have certainly fell in love with Chinese culture, and obviously I have the best looking lady on the planet ? don?t we all. But I am serious..my lady is fine?.beautiful inside and out!
Any way, if you have any problem at all, or need a hook up or two, let me know. My translator friend always ask me?is there another like me?.I tell her she must be joking ? like me no way. But I am sure someone out there is close.
So keep your head up? the China experience is for real?
The approach I took was I read everything on the boards at China love, face book and now here. I spent at least 3 to 4 months writing to my lady, sending her many emails, talking with her directly on Skype and getting original pictures of her, and I sent her many pictures as well. When I got off of the air plane, there was no question, who I was or who my lady was and exactly what I was doing there, and what she was doing there at the airport.
At the end of my visit my lady and I traveled from her home back to Beijing where she saw me off, with tears in both of our eyes, and after all the hugs and kisses that would make most of the guys here blush... I did the custom thing got on the plane...but I knew that I would be back soon and that I had really found the person I had hoped for and dreamed about.
Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. You have certainly come across the wrong agency, but there are some great ones there. I know, I have been back about three weeks, I am still smiling. I will be headed back in June with a ring!
A heart has only one color?and so does love?..
Hope this help. If you need any help in meeting someone sincere, email me.
metooap:
Vince G,
Hi....
I am from Alexandria Virginia.
No, the translator does not have a profile on Chnlove.
She is a great young lady though...her focus is on helping people meet their life partner.
Her approach alone tells me we will here a lot from her in the future.
She has a slew of really beautiful young ladies that she is trying to help.
So I am very impressed with her.
metooap:
Vince
Thanks,
I am off to a rip roaring start with my lady.
I spent a lot of time reading on the Chnlove forum, facebook, and sorted things out.
Really everything one needs to know is on the forums.
I was skeptical like most at first. Then I said the heck with it....worse things can happen is I lose a little money. Best thing that can happens is that I find - the one. Well I have found the one...
I really only put a small portion of what my lady and I did while there.
AFter visiting her family, we flew from Beijing to a mountain retreat that was fabulous; we stayed there for three days; even took in a local play there among other things!
My name is Anthony and my lady's name is Wei!
And no, the translator is not into scamming at all. She is the type that you have to insists that she take some sort of compensation. She wants to do things free. I tell her I understand - but you have to eat too!
I met the translator and her boss and still keep in contact with her often. While there she was even thoughful enough to bring me a gift. So I am talking about a first class person. Not because she brought a gift - but because the person is simply a good and thoughtful person.
The translator is a young lady and she is for real.
Obviously my lady is the real deal.....and she is as fine as home made apple pie! Seems like I should have put some dumplings in there some where! Any way, she is straight forward, gets to the heart of things....and made it her business to really take care of me....making sure we were treated properly and paid....what local folks pay...and she let prying eyes know in no uncertain terms that she was my lady and that I was spoken for.
I took the Arnold approach....slow and easy....We are well beyond the introductory phase; in June I will head back with a ring and my hat in my hand....I can see myself now...!
It is good to be here - thanks for the kind words!
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