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Irishman:
In my life I have truly loved one woman and that was 16 years ago.
Yes I've dated some girls, and done the whole relationship thing but can honestly say that only one girl in my life gave me 'that' feeling in my chest.

I have liked, i have cared for, i have had feelings for, but...not deep caring..warmth in my heart for anyone.

I realised this afternoon when shopping and thinking about Sunny as always that i felt that old familiar feeling starting to flutter. When I met her this evening it felt comfortable and just plain right when she was with me, the first thing she did was put her arm on my shoulder and lean in to me as she chatted to her friend..I wont say the L word, but i reckon its coming along express delivery on a train thundering through Guangzhou to the Panyu district.

Today, at exit D on the elevator about three quarters up from Tiyu Xilu metro station I realised I am probably going to fall in love with Sunny.

I'm curious what time and place other guys suddenly had the revelation that..wow, this time is special, its a genuine beating of my chest happening here, i'm falling for her for real?

Chet Sams:
Just becareful irish.

You might be having the mind over heart thing going. AKA mind says is she the one or not. Heart says she is the one again.

Just be your self and see where the ride goes. True love will find you and take you in time. You noticed that 16 years ago.

Just play the game of Tetris and let the pieces fall into place and try and win it.

For me i never had the chance for true love as of yet. Vegas women like to shove hands into backs and put the heart out that way. Either for there own needs or wants. Or just plain money. Hence my debit for a long time. What happens when you are too nice to people. Hope that can possibly change when i go on vacation there. Well see. Already found strike one over in China. Too early for strike two.

So i just throw some advice or opinion. Depends on what people assume it as.

But have fun and enjoy the time ole man. And make sure Martin saves the country dumpling supply till im there ok.

JimB:
Irish, I think you will know it.  It happened for me in Xi'an.  We were standing there looking at a shrine and lighted some incense.  i looked at her and she looked at me.  We put the incense in and both went to kneel before the Buddha, she knew and I knew what we were praying for.  it was for each other.  But yes, she put her arm around my shoulder and laid her head on my chest in the car.  That is what I miss the most, her putting her arm around my shoulder and leaning into me.

Willy The Londoner:
Jim
I know exactly what you mean.  The arm around your shoulder and leaning on you.  That happens every time we get into a taxi or a car.  

Am I in love with her - yes I am  - very much so.  From the day of my first trip back to the UK after meeting her and finding her waiting at the Ferry Port for me when the boat docked,  her having made a long bus ride from the city she lives just to meet me.  The feeling when I saw her waiting was so overpowering - that Yes - I can say that was when I realised how in love I was.

Willy

Arnold:
For me it happened pretty quick . We contacted each other in November '07 , by Christmas ... after sending each other Gift's and hand written Card's , it was all over for us . So , in about one month's time ... we knew already , we found what we came looking for .

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