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davidaquincy:
Sorry brothers but I have been on the go since I got here to meet my girl Mei in Chengdu. I haven't had a chance till this evening to even begin to process everything that has transpired. I have been here since May 3rd now.

I really don't know what to report right now with our situation. We just finished dinner and she went back home. We talked with the translator earlier today with our situation. I am getting mixed messages from him also. He is saying she doesn't know if I want her to be my lover or looking for marriage.

Let me first start off by saying this has been a wonderful first week of my trip. I have seen so much more than I ever imagined. I have experienced the trip of a lifetime if nothing transpires from here on. I have enjoyed the food. Although let me tell you if your not a fan of spicy food Chengdu is not a place for you to go. I have had my problems with the spicy food. Finally Mei got the picture. The China experience is something everyone should see. Well lets get started on what has been going on.

Day 1
Arrive at airport 10 minutes before schedule. Grab my bag and go thru the gate. Start looking around for my girl and the translator. I am only going from the studio pictures looking for her. Hmmmm....I don't see her. I figure I will sit for awhile. Maybe they are running late. I sit for about 30 minutes. Still no one there. I decide I better call my translator. He is shocked that I am at the airport. Says he will be there in 20 minutes. Mei and I discussed several times when I would arrive and that she would be there with the translator to greet me.

He picks me up and gets me to the hotel. Mei comes in when I am checking in. I didn't realize who she was at first. My god she is more beautiful than her studio pictures. She apologizes profusely. We all go up to my room and we will have lunch after I drop off my luggage.

During lunch with use of the translator we discuss if we need him at all. She plays with my Besta translator and says we don't need him. Her english is not that bad. Not great but we can hold a simple conversation. Her phone goes off several times during lunch. She leaves the table twice to answer. Apologizes everytime.  We go to my room after lunch. The translator starts talking money. I need to pay him 400 yuan for picking me up at airport and for the hour of translator work. Fine lets get rid of him. Payed and he is gone.

We sit in the room for about an hour talking and discussing what we will do while I am there. We head out and visit different places. The traffic is awful here and everyone that says the driving is unreal is correct!!!!! Early evening to let me rest and unpack for the upcoming days. Good cause I am tired!

Day 2:
Wow...she was out till 2am local time with her friends. She says her classmate visited and she hadn't seen him/her for 10 years. OK, maybe this was planned. My trip had only been planned for 3 months. Seems like we are having a good time together. She greets me in the morning with a big hug in the lobby of the hotel. We have breakfast and we are off to see some sites. She grabs my arm a few times in public. Good day and good conversation. We do have to use the Besta translator a lot but getting good communication. Nice dinner and alll in all a good day.

Day 3
More touring. Panda reserve was very nice. She asks if I want to see these tourist sites. She seems excited for her to show me. Ok I agree. The person will meet us in the lobby for us to sign the contract. We will be gone for the next couple of days. More holding hands and touching each other.

Day 4-5
I think this is when things started going bad. The touring was great. Got some good pictures. We get to the hotel near Mt Emei. Shit, this place is a dump. I don't know if I can stay here. She tells me she goes with the environment. Ok, if she can do this so can I. We go to a show. She can't sit with me. I payed 300 rmb for just my seat I guess. Ok. She is using her national tour guide ID to get in for free on everything. Ok she is frugal. I tell her I came here to be with her. Not to get to be by myself. We go back to the hotel and the tour guide on this trip asks us to go have a meal around 11pm. Mei wants to go. She is excited when I say sure. Sorry but I am still full from eating 3 squares a day. I cannot stomach going to the place we went to. I wasn't hungry anyways. Back to hotel and she tells me we have to get up early. Shit another 4 hours sleep. Twin HARD beds.

Head to next tour area Mt Emei. Nice time. We get a lot of alone time. Not fantastic but good. Actually I was more interested in the surroundings cause it was so beautiful.

Day 6
Last full day here. We go shopping cause I want to get some gifts for my family. We are having the greatest time ever. I know we are both tired because of all the stairs at Mt Emei and the large Buddha. She gets angry at me a couple of times cause I can't understand what she is saying. But I tell her it was a lot worse a few days ago. Seems like everything is going great. She wants to see the pictures I took over the last couple of days. She likes most of them but starts deleting the pictures of her. I complain. We have dinner and she goes home. I will see if she sees me off in the morning.

My complaints with her. Jesus Christ is your phone that important. She was always checking it. Texting and talking on it. I complained today about it being rude.

She is hot and cold. I haven't kissed her at all. She will hold my hand and get close but when we get alone she backs off. I am sure it is the chinese culture but I just don't know.

She is getting frustrated with her english. She can read it just great. I am helping her and have the patience to help her along. She gets frustrated when I can't understand her.

I just don't know at this point. I leave in the morning for Shenzhen. I am there for 6 days. There is a girl there that we have been friends for awhile. I don't know what I am going to do. I trully have feelings for Mei but I just don't know. I am going to go to SHenzhen with an open mind. Let the chips fall where they may.

I know most of you won't agree with this but I was afraid of something like this happening. The girl in Shenzhen is fully aware of the situation and she just wants to have a good time with me. SHe is also from CHNLOVE. We can have dinner and she wants to show me her city.

Well thats enough for now. I am tired and need some sleep. Thanks for listening!

Good Luck to everyone during their upcoming trips!!

David A Quincy

Vince G:
David, you skipped over this a little quickly. "The person will meet us in the lobby for us to sign the contract." What contract? What did you have to sign? On the rest of it? This is why it's good to meet before getting to involved.

Hajo:
David, I wish you will have a better experience in Shenzhen. As Vince asks, the contract, I am curious too. What contract did you sign?

Vince G:
I was on the phone with my lady this morn trying to discuss the fee issue. Even though I asked her to email the info (sent her an email saying write back). But what I did understood they're going to have big trouble when I do get there.

Now I'm afraid for David. Was whatever it was in english? and so on

Arnold:
David , I think you should enjoy your day's in Shenzhen with that Lady and see if that will go better and make your Mind up aterward's about Mei .
I think , the Contract you signed was for your meeting Mei , the second stage of the contract ( meeting in Person ) , am I right on this ?
That would mean , she has had to pay them some money , and if she was not totally happy about the Relationship with you at that point , that could have been the reason for not paying more attention to you , instead of her Phone all the time .
You just go and have a great time in Shenzhen and don't let this bother you there or it will ruin your stay there .
Keep a Smile .

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