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Meeting mY girl Mei
Arnold:
I must give this one to Maxx , he so right . After re-thinking this over . We did mention that in many Post on the other Forums , it is not in the best interest of any Woman , for the Man to go see multiple Lady's on one Trip . I myself was alway's against the so called back-up plan . If you not sure the one Woman is the one , then why are you going to China in the first place . But this is part of our western way's , alway's have a back-up if one Lady say's she's busy or for any reason . That can never be Love , only to satisfiy sexual hunger . So acting like that , do we not look like the chinese Men , in their thinking ?
davidaquincy:
Yes, I understand every single one of you. I should not have had a "back up plan" It really wasn't a back up plan. The girl in Shenzhen knew I was going to devote my time and energy to Mei in Chengdu. I have done all that.
Now listen to me closely. Mei and I talked heart to heart this morning. She received only 2 letters out of the 50 plus that I have sent her!!!! We finally figured out what has been going on. i thought we had an understanding of our feelings. Was just going with the flow. We had been so busy sightseeing and enjoying dinners and such that we really didn't talk. She knows nothing of me and I know nothing of her. That is why she was running hot and cold. Yes we didn't go to regular email address. She {the agency} was writing all the mails!!! I am livid. Mei is livid.
I have already talked to the girl in Shenzhen. She is aware of what is going on. We will go to dinner tonight and I am trying to book a flight back to Chengdu. I have already called Mei and told her the plan. She is very happy!! I will stay one night in Shenzhen then hopefully I will be back in Chengdu tomorrow to settle a score.
What recourse do I have? I can't believe this happened.
Any advice?
Thanks for listening
David
Hajo:
It's unbelievable!! Are you going to talk with agency about it or filing a complain to chnlove.com? The question is, was the agency or the translator. Maybe you should let Chnlove.com find out.
My honest opinion is, spend you time with Mei to find out what you want. Follow your heart David. I wish it will work out for you.
RobertBfrom aust:
David,lodge a complaint directly with chnlove asap and if you can add what you posted in here, all so well and good , even when you meet back up if you both have your registration no's ring HongKong , even before seeing the local agency and speak to someone in charge as they won't appreciate both of you being misled .
Dig your heels in, it may work out for the 2 of you and I hope that it does , but make sure both they and the local agency know how much extra this is costing you ,and how much bad publicity can be generated , good luck , regards Robert .
davidaquincy:
I have complained to CHN directly. 92 EMF's to each other. I guess I will see what happens.
I can't get a flight for 2 days. In the meantime Mei is getting frustrated with her english with me on the phone. I am trying to explain very simply. We have called each other probably 20 times today. We are both in awe of what has transpired.
I will let you know what CHN has to say meanwhile I am trying to get back to Chengdu to recover the situation.
Again thanks for the input and not berating me!
David
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