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Josh Markley:
After six years full of many failed relationships I am seriously questioning everything in my life.  I look myself in the mirror every morning asking myself what I am doing wrong.  I know I have my flaws but who doesn't right?  I am hard working, caring, fun loving, patient and after six years of being beaten down my heart is still wide open.  I know there is a wonderful woman out there for me.  
     Can I continue on this path?  Is this the correct path for me?  Right now it is just to much to think about and I am tired.  But every night I get on chn and wonder if the girl I have been looking for all my life is there.  But I am afraid to pull the trigger, i can't bring myself to contact any of those ladies.  I still receive 5 admiration letters daily, but honestly are any of them sincere?  When I get letters that say to many nice things about me, or tell me they have many sexy photos for me to see.  I do not think those girls are sincere, but I do not know that for sure.  I used to be a risk taker, but you know once bitten twice shy.  Also I am not one of those guys who wants to meet two or three women.  I just feel you talk to, too many you never build a stable bond with just one girl.  It is weak bonds with many girls.

ttwjr32:
Josh,

i wouldnt give up. as far as the girls who say nice things or want to send sexy pics,well that is
the translator trying to sell the girl. i would back off the ones who want to send sexy pics, to
shallow and unsincere i think. have you tried CLL?? thats were i met my lady and a few good freinds
whom i still talk to. this translator thing to me is just pure garbage that leaves us open for failure.
even after you send emf's for 3,4,5, or six months and start to chat with the lady on web cam and qq
or messenger, the language issue is still there. she didnot learn to speak english during that time to be
able to chat with you. and is probably going to learn more after she gets with a man to marry. and writing several
i think your right that the bond isnt as strong with any of them. the turning point came for me when after
several requests for email and chatting with a lady, which was ignored i recieved a letter stating that the
lady would like to talk with you but her english is to poor/ so i wrote back stating that this issue will always
be there until i learn chinese and she learns english and i want to do this now as i have wasted time writing
this way and some of the letters dont even address the last one or what was said in the last one. i then kindly
recieved a letter wishing me the best which led me to believe it was a phantom lady. i then met and chatted with
several ladies on CLL until i found my lady and its amazing how willing they are to try and chat with you on web cam
even with their english only so so. and the kicker was i did talk to 1 lady who was on chnl and she didnt even know
who i was even though we sent 3 emf's back and forth. so i guess just try a different avenue but dont give up:icon_cheesygrin:

Vince G:
Josh, I can say allot on this subject. Been there done that more then once, twice? alright a dozen times or more. Be who you are. the right match will come along when the time is right. Don't settle until you find what you want. The women you are contacting are young and think that being sexual is the way go get someone. These are young women that haven't thought it through, immature. Finding that diamond isn't going to be easy and it takes patience. So don't throw this on yourself as a flaw. Enjoy the ride, when it's right you'll know it.

shaun:
Josh,

After having a few things go bad on chn I reevaluated.  I moved over to blossoms.com simply to get away from the translators.  You will find them on blossoms but are easy to figure out.  After searching for a few months and talking with several women I found the one I am looking for.  There are women there who are not involved with an agency.

If you choose to go this route PM me and I will give you several hints on how to cut through and find the gems.

Just a thought,

Shaun

Arnold:
Jo-Ma , Vince has it right . Don't throw all the blame on yourself there . This is not a good way to start things out and your next Lady will see this as a negative coming from you . You must have some kind of trust in these Women on CHN and the Translator , or it is never going to work to your adventage . What is very important for you to do , is get your Lady's address to send her a Card of some kind ( for whatever occation ) and have her do the same for you . Seeing something personal from her will show you she is real and is willing to move on and is trusting you , so all you do is continue this route and the rest will fall into place for you . Get the Webcam thing going , private or through the Agency . Now , to help you along easier ... find someone with some kind of English skill and/or a Computer . Do not take any excuses from anybody . Do this within the first ... say six weeks of writing and you should be on your way , to a hopefully great relationship .

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