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Danny:
I began writing to a woman in October 2008. I wrote to her every day and most days she would write back to me. During the time I was writing to her I wasn?t sure for a while if she was really there at all. Her letters seemed to me to be cold and formal. However I persisted with writing to her because she seemed so lovely to me. Honestly, I loved her almost straightaway.

I travelled to meet her in mid January 2009. I didn?t have any confidence about meeting her. I wasn?t even really sure what she looked like. The only pictures I had of her were some bad photos taken a long time ago. But then I met her. I remember seeing her face for the first time. It took my breath away. Such a beauty. Such an angel. And then she smiled, and inside, I just went to pieces.

For about a week we had such a lovely time together. Arm in arm, we went everywhere together. Such a good time. So romantic and wonderful. And then it happened. The next day, it was Chinese New Year and she told me that she wasn?t able to see me because this was a family day and it wouldn?t be appropriate for me to attend this, speaking so little Chinese.

I returned to Australia without hearing from her again. Her phone was switched off, she didn?t reply to my messages and emails. I didn?t understand at all what was going on. I even tried to get in touch with her through her chnlove agency, wondering whether she received my emf mails. I got a note from the translator saying, ?Thanks for your sincere letter. It has been delivered to the lady. She would try to get in touch with you directly. Hope you can understand and wait patiently.?

So over the next three months I waited patiently. I sent her an email or sms text message once a week. I hardly got any replies from her. I wrote to some other ladies, but I felt nothing for any of them.

Today I got an emf mail from her: ?Danny , I applying my vacation from my work this month. I want to tell you today , I want to plan a trip to visit you , how do you think ?? are you get nervous now ?? ~ smiles ~ Big hug for you , I really feel so happy to hear from you today.?

I sure wasn?t expecting that. I don?t know whether she?s serious or not, but who?s to know. All I know is that she seems like to me someone I could love until the end of time. There are other women in the world of course. But this one, I seem to belong her, and she to me. I wonder where it will all end . . . who?s to know, but wonders never cease.

If I died today, I would die with a big smile on my face *laughs*

Good luck to all my brothers here! May we all find love and happiness, and our dreams come true!

Arnold:
Wow , that would have driven me up the Wall , that kind of waiting .
Danny , I like to know what reason she had , to put you through all this . I also remember your Post's very well , let's hope this time it's not going to happen again . May be your next reunion be as great as the first one was and of course with many more to follow , without all that Heart stopping nonsence .

Danny:

--- Quote from: "Vince G" ---Dan, How I remember those days when you came back. If your happy that's great. Was there ever a reason given for her absence?
--- End quote ---

I've sure had some ups and downs, to say the least.

No, I still don't know. Maybe one day she'll tell me. But I don't worry so much anymore. If I've learned anything along the way, it's to float along with the river. In time I'll know and then it won't seem such a big deal.

RobertBfrom aust:
:o  :o  :shock: Out of the woodwork so to speak , I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you , tread carefully , regards Robert .

China Shark:
Not to sound negative yet you were pretty torn up over her back on Facebook. I hope you are right and this miracle happens for you. All of the brotherhood is pulling for you in this thing. Life has so many twists and turns who knows what lies around the next corner. Maybe she was unsure of her feelings and only recently discovered what a nice guy you are after all. Just go into this thing with eyes open and try to protect your heart in the process.
China Shark Mike :mrgreen:

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