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letter i send to customer care
victor-hills:
Like vince sead nothing new,have to say it would be nice if thay did there own but prob easy for them to do a form letter.
Scottish_Rob:
Well mate that is what i was saying to Shane last night, that it is probably a letter they have already and just send it out......
cHi:
What I don't understand is why there is so much ado about a form letter in response to a form letter? If you are sending a cupid note to a lady, it's a non-customizable form letter to show your interest. You didn't spend any money on EMFs or anything like that. Often times the form letter response to a cupid note has a bit more information about a lady than what is in her profile - then it allows you to think a little bit about spending any money on a woman. Taking this to a real world application - you haven't even bought the girl a drink yet. What's wrong with the agency sending an automatic response while they contact the lady?
Shane:
the to do i think is you are spending credits on someone that could say NO.. and they dont even know you have written yet
so yes i think atleast before that letter go out the woman should make the inital selection that letter is very misleading
it shows she is already intrested
cHi:
Is that different from buying a woman a $9 drink at a bar? Is that different than paying for a movie ticket? The guy looks at the lady's profile, and also her form response. That's usually more information than given in a man's profile - at best it's equal. How would anyone know if they are interested in someone else without investing a little bit of time and money? The woman has already invested money just to be with the agency, while the man has invested nothing to become a member. I still fail to see the unfair value of a form letter response to a form letter... Marriage is a serious matter - being concerned about credits is one way to really think before initiating or following through with conversations with a lady.
There is always the potential for either party to say no - but if the relationship ends without credits being spent, where is the continuing revenue for the agency? All they would have are the fees from the ladies, and credit fees from successful relationships (and many people are trying to move to direct contact as quickly as possible it seems as well). If you are genuinely interested in someone from what you see, I highly suggest taking the time to write a well thought out EMF to initiate the communication. Until true EMFs have been written between both parties, how can either person *really* know if there is a spark? If the lady is expected to write a full response to each cupid note... can you imagine? What does the man do - sees the profile, clicks on send cupid note, and chooses one of the forms. Let's say a pretty lady receives even 3 or 4 cupid notes that she is interested in, from about 10. Is she expected to then write a full letter response to each of the form letters (cupid notes)? How long would you be willing to wait for this?
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