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David E:
I was so angry to read a post in another thread about the so-called attitude of Chinese Women towards finding a Western Husband.....and rather than hijack somebody elses thread, I thought I would start one of my own so I could have a rant about this mis-conception.

It was suggested that Chinese Women looking for a Western Husband are looking for a meal ticket for life and that we should not take any sh*t from these "princesses" who are out to rip us off.......

On behalf of my Ming...here is her reply....:

"I spend a lot of my time in a panic to learn good English in the hope that when I get to Australia to be with my beloved David I will be clever enough to get a job so that I can feel I make a financial contribution to our relationship"

And here are my comments on her views....:

I know that this woman would crawl over broken glass to make our life together easy and happy, I know that she will work heroically to make this happen. This is a humbling experience for me and I will support her to the absolute limits of my own ability.

Despite her misgivings, I can tell you all that she owns 2 apartments in Chengdu that she will sell before she leaves for Australia.

This should make her somewhere in the order of 800,000 RMB and together with her savings she will bring about 1,000,000 RMB to Australia !!!!...not bad from a "poverty stricken lady looking for a permanent meal-ticket" !!

It matters not to her that I have more money than we can spend in 2 lifetimes...she is dedicated to contribute all she can to our future.

Is this one of those "gold-diggers" referred to........I think not !!!

Such words as spoken in the other post are offensive and dangerous...and so far from the truth to be utterly misleading

David

Willy The Londoner:
I think that todays remarks will have caused much more offence than any other thoughtless comments made by this individual in the past.   And there have been plenty of them over the past months especially since someone apparently stood on his toy train!

I just hope the moderators do not remove the offending posting otherwise this thread will not have a great deal of meaning to anyone just coming to it later.

Let the comments flow for or against  (I doubt if he will get many of support) but at least with Teds thread and this one we are likely to have a lot more movement on the forum.

Willy

Scottish_Rob:
I agree wholeheartedly with David...Insulting and childish....

My lady is like Davids wife, she works her socks off everyday, knows my financlial position and does not want me to spend anything on her.  She is concerned that we will be financially stable once married, and has already talked about finding work once we do.

Gold diggers...I think not...

Neil:
Censorship is a slippery slope.  

But, on topic:  Nina and I had a failed relationship.  I just want to say that she offered to send me back all the gifts I had given her.  I of course refused.  She was in no way in it for the money or a meal ticket - her life is busy and difficult and tiring, yet she is very proud of her accomplishments and very proud of her lifestyle and culture.  

As a group, we encounter a wide range of ladies.  Sure, someone is bound to run across the odd scammer or gold digger.  There's a bad apple in every bunch.  One thing I have learned is that you can't blindly place labels on any demographic.  To do so is to teeter dangerously close to the edge of racism and bigotry.  

Other than to say: Chinese ladies are beautiful.  :icon_cheesygrin:

ssetho:
David - I agree with you 101%. Before we were married, my wife refuses to take money from me. She said I will only spend my husband's money, you are only my boyfriend (at the time). After we got married, she still refuses to take money from me!!!! I have to literally force her to take money from me.

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