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Noct:
Thank you for all the excellent advise, guys.  I am definitely not planning on going there anytime soon, so no worries there.  The chatting is nice, and better than the emfs, so that's a bonus.  I will try to let her know gently that things need to move at their own pace and not to rush anything.

wilsonlee71:
My take on this is it all depends on her age and situation. Try to understand what her rush is … if it is legitimate and you really like her, then maybe you should go a bit sooner. Just follow your heart, if it is telling you not to go yet, then you’re simply not ready. There is nothing wrong with that, except you might lose her in the process!
One more thing, at anytime if and when you feel she is not the one, then tell her and let her go ...
-W-

UK Mark:
I have to agree with Vince here , I was once in a relationship where if the girl didn't get her way she ''took things straight to the limit'' as in flew off the handle and wanted to end it on a regular basis!!!, trust me thats a strain after a while .. In the end i saw sense and let her !!!

Long distance relationships need a hell of a lot of patience and understanding .. I think its important you both can feel the other is very understanding of the situation straight from the start.

When it feels right for BOTH OF YOU.... get there as soon as you can :)

wilsonlee71:
Vince, I am just trying to offer a different angle on this. Maybe she does have good a reason. Those words were not meant as scare tactics, but simply the possible outcome. We are not talking about dominance here, just a little understanding …
-W-

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I am not saying that Noct has anything to do with/is doing anything like this example here, but … I have seen friends of mind being with a girl taking his time, while her clock is ticking away … at the end dump the girl for someone younger. Now, I think all of you would agree with me that that is not right, right?

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