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Martin:

--- Quote ---Ok guy's I have noticed a lot of you talking about QQ, I am going to show my ignorance here,but, what is it and what does it do?
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See the new thread in the newbie section called "QQ".

Londoner:
Thank you all for your valuable advice and contribution, I really appreciate it. Well, the lady in question wrote to me on the day I posted my request for your advice.

She sounded very reflective and has acknowledged that her letters were general and impersonal. She said the reason for this was mostly in an effort not to irritate me or annoy me. According to her, she felt it was safer not to ask too many questions or personal stuff! She sounded genuine and I can see things in a different prospective after your inputs. I think this just another classic example of the cultural difference.

Having read your valuable tips opinions, I am going to modify my strategy a bit.

As for the term "babe", it is something I use a lot for lady friends here in the UK and didn't give much of a thought its appropriateness in another culture. Having said this, it actually got unequivocal approval from another girl I had met on Chnlove.

Scottish_Rob:
Already done that mate,...........

When I mentioned 'chicken' to her I told her that I love chicken...
It really does sound ok when it is said Vince, like, hiya chicken, (shrug of the shoulder and smile).....
But anyway it is only now and again I use it....   But I did already explain the meaning of all the terms  of endearment to her....

Try it Vince.....Be a devil....lol;)

Arnold:

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A common sentence (each) in an EMF from my girl says something like" My dear how are you dear Vince" "Is my dear Vince doing good?" Funny? On the phone that word never comes up at all? It's more real as the question is "How are you" "Are you fine?" No Dears?

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Torano , as Vince pointed out , any Endearment's of any kind might not even reach your Lady . As long as using an Translator for your EMF's , those nice word's are most likely only between you two not your Lady . Untill both of you write direct ( E-mail ) to each ohter , will you know for sure it's actually coming from your Girl .
I called my Wife " Sweetheart " from the beginning , so if that would have stopped at our Translator and never reach my Wife in the early stages , I would forgive her for that now . Because she is a good friend of us now and really is a Sweetheart , but she is not our Babe , that would be going to far . Hehe , don't want my Wife to become jealous .

China Shark:
Well, I'm glad to hear things weren't as bad as I surmised. Good luck and hope everything works out.
China Shark Mike

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