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Nick L:
That's interesting.  I recently had a web cam chat with my lady.  Her microphone did not work so she was unable to chat.  We typed everything to each other with the translator there to help.  I don't know if the microphone was just broken or not.  If not, I just assumed she was a bit shy, especially about her English.  Oh well, I don't mind paying for EMFs, as long as she is the one writing to me.  :D

RobertBfrom aust:
As the ladies are directed by and large by the agencies within China and Chnlove is merely a conduit through which all emf's go both to the various agencies  and from the agencies to guys throughout the world , most agencies not only embellish the email wording but discuss with the women that emf is the way to go , those who are lucky enough to have received a direct contact point mostly will find that there is a lot lost in translation more often than not .
 After a number of emf mails both ways there is nothing wrong in asking for direct contact or applying via her posting for her contact address and sending her a card with your details within , this opens many a heart .

David:
Did you ever think that maybe the ladies confidence in her english skills were not that good at first?  Maybe she had the skill but lacked confidence to speak at first, and as she became more confortable she opened up more?  Listen to Vince... sure there might be some scams, but we all have good friends here who are now engaged or married to wonderful Chinese ladies that they met via Chnlove.  That is a fact we all know here for sure!

I know this because recently,  I have been lucky and have just started a wonderful correspondence with a very wonderful lady.  We clicked immediately and I got lucky because she is a teacher of English at the University level.  We dropped the EMF letters and switched to private email right after our first letter exchange.  She has sent me real non photoshopped pictures.  We sometimes write short notes via email three or four times a day while we are each waiting or working on a longer response letter.  So I know this lady is real.  Our letters now are so long they are like two weeks of letters with the first two women I wrote too.  I cannot believe how lucky I am.  Already she has told me that she is only writing to me, and she asked her agency to hide her profile.  I did the search and she really did have her profile hidden just like she said and just like I did.  So we are exclusive to each other and only wish to get to know one another better with each new letter.  Soon we will try phone calls and maybe the webcam.

We both know what we are working toward, hopefully marriage and forming a family together.  You can make this work!

So Vince I need to be updated on the ladies profile list as pre-engaged! :D   Hehehe...

Geordie if this can happen to me it can happen to you.  Third time was the charm!  I think you creating a fake profile and getting a response letter doesn't really mean anything... it was probably written by her agency.  I now know that at least the first week or two most of my letters contents were written by the ladies agency.  I could totally tell when the translator stopped writing and the lady herself took up most of the letter construction.  Most the of the agency stuff was the fake love and romance crap that would be impossible that quickly because you still don't know each other.  The translator and the agency do that to move the relationship along, not to scam you.  I don't like that part, but I understand it because most of the ladies really do have a hard time with English, or they doubt their skill level with English, or they are a little shy.

Don't give up hope... and just be sensible and not overly paranoid, and keep your eyes open and your wits about you.

Big Dave

Chong:
Big Dave ... Congrats on your progress with your lady !!!   :)

You're starting to sound like a ChnLove veteran.   8-)

David:
Thanks Chong!  I have learned a lot from you more experienced members!  And I am enjoying making friends here too! :D

So my plan is to keep learning and pass the love and knowledge along when I can! ;)

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