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Re: The ladies are in on the scam.
Jadams79:
I just wonder, how many of the agencies drag the women on in the same manor? Maybe for further fees and so forth where they are actually just speaking to a translator as well? I would be curious as to see if this is practiced as well. I think we are all on the recieving end of a crooked scheme.
Ed W:
--- Quote from: "geordie" ---My theory is that the ladies get a kickback for all the emfs that are sent by the agency in their name. This ensures their cooperation if ChnLove comes calling on behalf of a certain guy, wondering if everythign is on the up and up. If the ladies say it is, how can anybody prove differently? The scam is impenetrable.
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Can't say I agree with this and here's why. My lady, now my wife as of the 15th, seems to dislike misunderstandings so much that she insisted on translated emails. She did make a deal with one of the translators at the agency so it cost much less. in fact cost me nothing since she decided to pay for it herself but in this case, there was no deception but rather an importance to her that misunderstanding wasn't going to be a problem. Her english is poor at best and work has kept her very busy lately so has missed many of her english classes. You'd think this would be a problem but with a pocket translator and much hand gestures and body language we actually have the most fun. She seems to understand far more than she can speak but sometimes it seems as she picks up on the tone and can sense it.
Other than paying the agency the enormous fees for this service, she's had almost nothing to do with them and when I inquired to go visit the agency, she suggested we don't. I think she just views them as blood suckers.... it's a business after all but she feels no loyalty for them.
Although I'm sure it's possible there could develop a scam in all this, in my case there wasn't. It was just her avoiding at all costs any misunderstanding.
Nick L:
My lady gives me excuses to avoid direct contact. She tells me her English is bad (listed as fair on her profile now) and she has no access to the internet. The last one she no longer tells me. She has admitted that she has access to the internet, has an e-mail address and uses QQ often. Now she only tells me her English is bad. We both know that we could just use translation software to get around that. Sure it might be tough to understand at times, but we can figure that out.
The reason I believe she tells me all this is due to the agency's regulations. I believe she is not allowed to contact me directly until she is paid in full. This is not really her fault. We have no choice but to follow the regulations unless I could somehow track her down.
Haha, it would be nice if they gave her kickbacks for writing to me, then she can pay off her membership and start talking to me directly.
The point is, the fake difficulty with English may be due to an agency with similar rules. That may be why the lady pretended to have trouble with English for a while, then she decided that she was sick of pretending
I'm not sure if that is true in all situations, but I bet it is true in some.
Bruce:
is there just a posibilty that the EMF emails are paying for the ladies profile for being put up there and that the email takes a little bit off each time i know this sounds what might be going on but is it possible this is why most do not want to go away until agency is paid or close enough to be paid never mind lady's getting kick back,maybe the kickback is agency being paid and they get nothing which is another form of ripoff just an idea
Nick L:
I notice that every time I even vaguely mention direct contact with my lady, she explains to me that we should keep using the EMFs. I mentioned to her in my last letter that I loved chatting with her using the web cam this past weekend. I mentioned that I would like to do that again down the road before I head out to visit. Her response was that she does not know enough English now and she says it is better to communicate with the EMFs. I mention doing something non-EMF at some unknown point in the future then I get the whole "I don't know enough English speech" each time. I believe she simply has to use the EMFs until she is paid in full. I don't mind doing the EMFs. I just want to mention that she is very strongly resistant to any other means of communicating. :o
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