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Re: The ladies are in on the scam.

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David:
Georgie you have to sift through the coal to find the diamond...  

You are going to have to put some effort into this if you want it to work.  Your future wife isn't going to just fall into your lap.
And at some point you have to have some faith that there are real Chinese woman at Chnlove that really want to find a good husband!

Big Dave

Nick L:

--- Quote from: "Vince G" ---Nick, Why isn't it possible that the mic didn't work? No reason why they would fake it? They were there and typed out what they wanted to talk about? The mic would have been easier for them (translator). My lady had told me that the translators webcam is broken but will be fixed by the time we're ready to webcam.

What bothers me is all these conspiracy theories. It boarders on sycophantic?
--- End quote ---

I don't think they were faking it.  I was just mentioning that if they were faking the microphone being broken, there is probably a good reason.  The web cam worked.  I saw her.  I even saw her speak to the translator then I received her response.  If she felt a little nervous about her English I would understand.  They did attempt a few times to get the microphone to work, and I did see her trying to use it.  I was just happy to have a live chat with her.  It was a great deal for me too.  A two hour long live chat for free, with the agency's help.  She chatted the same way and about the same things as we have discussed in letters.  A conspiracy is a more complicated explanation that it being her writing to me.  I have no doubts now.

I do think the agency wants to enjoy a monopoly with our communications by not letting or discouraging live communication.  I do not care as long as I know I am speaking to her each time.  I feel confident of this now so I am happy with the arrangement.  A few hundred dollars on EMFs is a good deal if it works out.  I will be planning a trip to China soon, hopefully.  We are both excited about it.  :D

Chong:
Geordie wrote : But I guess most guys here don't really care.

No, we do care !!!  That's why we have this forum to help each other. Hey Brother, most of us have being scam just like you.  You just have to apply all the lessons to avoid the scammers.

If there was a solution to avoid the initial agency doctored EMFs, no one has it yet. If the agency provided you with a real picture early on, will you think the lady's part of the scam ?

Geordie ...If you owned an agency, how would you assure the male members that your  lady's legit ??????

cHi:
As with essentially any business model, there will always be flaws.  Usually, as is the case here, the flaws are human in nature - we have free will.  Geordie, I wish I could tell you why your lady behaved the way she did, but only one person knows why, and it's her.  If she won't answer questions about it, then nobody will know.

I think that I can see where you are coming from in saying the ladies get a kick back from EMFs, but I am confident the ladies I write to are not.  On top of that, there are several instances of ladies being required to pay fees for meeting people in person, marrying, moving to direct contact, etc.  Would the agency give kickbacks to ladies, and then make the ladies pay them large sums of money to use the service?  It doesn't make full logical sense to me, so I'm trying to understand the hows and whys like Vince.  I have a very logical frame of thought, so things need to line up for me a bit.

Another theory (even though it's far-fetched) sheds a more positive light on the lady.  What if, during her broken-english phase, she was being monitored by the agency?  What if they would only "allow" direct communication on a limited basis for her until she paid them a fee?  Perhaps there was a different fee amoutn based on poor english ability vs. good english ability, as a "poor" amount of english knowledge would almost be insurance that the lady would require more EMF services?  I don't know the lady you were speaking to, you would know her better than any of us, and she would be the only one to truly know why she behaved in that manner.  You may also wish to check the brotherhood thread to see if she was talking to anyone else.

Arnold:
Geordie , don't even bother to post anymore here , your day's are numbered here and they reached " 0 " , so do us the favor and get the Hell lost . Your not welcome here and so are any other's like you .

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