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Fiancee's 7 yr old not coming yet

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Willy The Londoner:
I cannot blame the girls friend either.  Too many men prey on women to get to grips with their children.  He does not know you and you have not yet proven yourself to be the man he who he would trust to bring up his daughetr in safety.  This can take many months sometimes years.

In my other life I came across many examples where children were not trated as they should be so you will have to play a waiting game.  It maybe when he has had custody of his daughter for a long time he may well not want to give her up.  That is a risk that you and others have to take when there are young children involved.

I hope it will work out ok for you but be prepared if in time it does not go in the favour of your wife.

Willy

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