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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #120 on: October 21, 2017, 03:55:09 am »
I am talking to her online right now. I am so sorry I ever trusted him enough to introduce them. He has a lawyer.  He has sent letters to immigration claim the marriage was fake and trying to get her deported.  I may have to dispute his claim if it comes to that.  What an asshole.
The only advice I can give her is get a damned good lawyer.  I know the marriage was not fake. I knew her for a long time when I was living in Guangzhou. there is not a bad thought ever crossed her mind. And some where I have the conversations between him and me. For heavens sake I flew to New York and met with them in their house. There was nothing fake about the marriage except his promise of fidelity.

They married at a time when I still had legs that work and we was considering flying to the US for their marriage.

Has she and her daughter settled in the US and wants to stay there?

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #121 on: October 21, 2017, 10:53:19 am »
Willy, yes they want to stay in America.  She has become a elementary school teacher in the US and her daughter is going to college here. There is nothing left for them in China. She has sold all her property in Guangdong. She has no retirement in China as that is forfeited when you leave to immigrate to another country.

He wants to get her deported so she will not be unable to fight the divorce settlement. He reported her to the INS as faking the marriage and reported her to the IRS as hiding income.

He has already taken her money and now he wants everything else, and he will get it unless she gets angry enough to fight back. She promised me to get an Attorney on Monday. I hope it is not too late.

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #122 on: October 21, 2017, 11:13:03 am »
Here he is with his new BFF.
So he  blew all the money on this little tart and had to resort to begging to get back home to the states.

A clear case of little head overtaking control of the big head.
Lisa is clearly a much superior class of lady. Better looking too.
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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #123 on: October 23, 2017, 08:09:32 am »
Surely even in the USA it takes two to fake a marriage so he must be guilty of complicity if he goes down that line?

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #124 on: October 23, 2017, 09:22:23 am »
This is all so unbeliveable to me that a so called man could do something like this to a lady.

I hope he doesnt get away with it and Lisa and her daughter can move on and be happy here in the states.

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #126 on: November 19, 2017, 09:51:41 am »
He guys, Patrick has worn Lisa down. She is tired, depressed and has lost a lot of work. She wants to give him everything and walk away from a house that she paid for.

She needs to finish this fight but I am unable to convince her. The court date is soon she just need to hold out and  fight one last battle but she wont listen to me. If there are any old timer that wish to prop her up with words of encouragement, PM me and I will give you her FB account. And contact information.
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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #127 on: November 19, 2017, 07:52:00 pm »

I suppose the logical approach would be to coordinate with the
Chinese Embassy or consulate. They would have resources available
for Lisa. Lisa is a Chinese national who is being swindled by
this asshole.

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #128 on: November 21, 2017, 09:19:04 pm »
Well the first round is over. She gave him the house just to get  away from the stress.
Next round petition the INS.

I feel so bad about this because it was me that introduced them to each other.
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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #129 on: November 25, 2017, 08:12:11 pm »
I have been offline for a week and this is bad news to come back to.

Is there anyway to stop to him repeating this or to make him regret his actions?

John B - I doubt if the Chinese Authorities will do anything as they tend to wash their hands of those who marry foreigners and move out of China.

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #130 on: December 11, 2017, 11:56:27 pm »
Willy, I dont think there is anything that can be done now. There is a bit of good that has come to light. Lisa said that she got the house. I dont know how that happened but this is the only bit of luck she has had. He probably gave up on it when he realized he couldn't afford to keep it. I really dont know what caused it but I am glad that she is not homeless in a foreign country.
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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #131 on: December 12, 2017, 09:37:49 pm »
I will be keeping my sights on the rat in other locations.

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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #132 on: February 11, 2018, 09:41:14 pm »


What's the latest on Lisa?
I hope this sad story results in a positive.
One sweet day the sun will shine on her.


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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #133 on: February 15, 2018, 02:24:33 pm »
 I dont know of any other settlements of the divorce but Lisa got the house.
I am not sure of her immigration status. She said he sent another letter to immigration saying that he made up the bullshit in his first letter. Dont know what to think of him. Maybe he is feeling remorse or maybe his friends let him know what and asshole he is. Maybe he is reading the posts about him here and trying to save face.

 She is going to come visit us in March so I will get all caught up then.
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Re: Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.
« Reply #134 on: May 19, 2018, 04:56:26 pm »
 
...She is going to come visit us in March so I will get all caught up then.

 
Gerry,
did this thing ever play out?
Irish Guy has AOL messenger.. sort of like AWOL. 哈 哈哈
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