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Chinese Women and Money?

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David E:

--- Quote from: Clayton on December 02, 2011, 04:45:24 pm ---I might be a little gun shy perhaps but when i saw those videos and the comments that followed I just thought 'shit' what am i in for now
Cheers
Leeroy

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Leeroy

Just be aware that the reality of the Aus divorce and property settlement Laws have a provision for what is termed at Law as a "short marriage"...ie one that lasts for less than 2 years.

In this time frame, if any woman ups and leaves and then applies for the "50% " asset settlement, she has no chance. All she will be able to claim will be 50% of the assets jointly aquired during the term of the marriage. Please note that this provision does not apply if there are children from the marriage.

In this way, we have some protection from"gold-diggers" if unfortunately our partners turn out this way. And I think it would take a bloody good actress, or a bloody stupid bloke not to spot this fraud over a 2 year period.... ;D ;D

Naturally , nobody plans for this dreadful eventuality, but we do have some protection against being robbed by unscrupulous women

Cheers..David

Vince G:
Just wondering if the women (gold diggers) in China are like the women here in western or the US? I know more then a few that were making good money and had decent positions. Though there a potential to grow and bring in more money? They got left anyway.

Arnold:
This Woman with her $154 Millions and other's alike , will never know/find "Real" Love . Ask me and I'll spit on that Woman .. first for HOW she got the $$$ and second it will definitely ruin her character even more so . This is in a Class right there with Prostitute's , woundn't touch them with a Mile long Pole .

Vince G:
Well yeah, there are a few that get their money in crafty ways. When I was married right across the street in the apt on the 2nd fl of a house was a NYC cop (cop owned the house too). One day his wife left for like 3 days no reason? When she came back she told him she had a boyfriend and was divorcing him?

Electrician friend that I worked with. His father owned the business and after the son finished college would have the business. His wife left him too.

For the lighter side (not really).. Buddy and I (he was getting divorced, I was divorced already) We went to this little dive bar where about two dozen other guys were sitting at the bar. Over hearing us talking it went around the bar like role call, "my wife left me too". Realizing the whole place of guys were in the same boat. I don't know what they all had money wise but my buddy and I had our businesses at the time. He still has one just down here in Fl now.

Willy The Londoner:
What I have found here is that the woman are not gold diggers. They are careful!

The Western culture seems to be OK we have bread today but there will be jam (jelly) tomorrow.

Chinese women look to today, not for jam, but a regular supply of bread.   They look to be afraid of starting off on the road to nowhere.  That has been their experience for many generations and their lives have only started to improve in the past 20 years or so.

We can tell them what we have back home, nice house, nice car, a good job, pension in so many years time etc etc. But that is really intangible to them. We can show them pictures but who is to say that nice room your sitting is is not a friends place or the car your sitting in is not just on a sales site.   There is no sure sign that we are what we say we are. 

That is where the doubt comes into their minds.   As soon as they fully realise that you are telling the truth then there will never be a problem.  As they say a little goes a long way.

I was lucky in a way to have had no great assetts when I came here. I told my wife, right from the start when I first met her, that I had nothing left in the UK, no house, no car, small savings, so my she took me for what she could see. (But I dont think that she was fully 100% clear on that until we went to the UK 15 months ago and she saw for herself. )

We now have a nice home here and she looks after me as no other has ever done. I did tell her that it would take about four years to replace the money we spent on buying our apartment and having it refitted to our taste. You know what she did then. She went back to work with her niece so we could reduce that time scale to a little over 2 years.    I showed her that I was a genuine as I was.  But I was able to do that because I was here to stay.

Willy

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