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RobertBfrom aust:
Nez , as Martin has said load QQ onto your computer and then tell her your QQ number , it and its associated companies makes MSN pretty obsolete , she will know all about it and by using their translator and cam you can be in contact as often as you want , being a lazy Aussie we even use it upstairs to downstairs and between home and the shops , regards Sujuan and Robert .   http://www.chinaromance.net/index.php?topic=265.0   

Nez:
Thanks Robert, I will definately look into QQ - although fortunately we wont require any translation as her english is quite good  :)

Hajo:
Hello Nez,

Like the others say, QQ is the application of choice. The lady is used to it and it can be used for chatting and cam. My wife uses it all times to keep in touch with the family back in China.

Here is a link to the international download page. http://download.imqq.com/download.shtml

Nez:
Seriously, thanks to all of you for the advice, it's hugely appreciated.

Just thought I might give an update, I did download QQ and we are on each others QQ friends list a little while ago (btw I love how they say QQ in china, haha. Maybe it's just when this girl says it  :P). But actually we have been having regular webcam chats on skype for the last few weeks and it's been fantastic.

After I read all the advice on here I just started to relax about everything and let things happen (while still being a bit careful), but it's just getting better and better. She's such a lovely girl, we're swapping photo's of our lives. She sent me a photo last week of herself and I cant stop looking at it, haha (no it's not a rude one, it's just a natural shot and she just looks gorgeous). The fact she speaks a reasonable amount of english has been very helpful. She is teaching me some chinese, can't quite believe how difficult it is actually but I'm enjoying it.

At this point I'm feeling really good about everything. I've read some sad stories on this forum (also happy ones of course), but I'm wondering if I've been very lucky or something bad will happen eventually. I'm being optimisitic though and thinking I am very lucky so far. I hope that doesn't sound like I am being a show off or something  :-[ , but it seems to me everyone here is happy for everyones success, and feel care for anyone when things dont work out, so I guess it's ok.

Anyway, the truth is without the advice here I probably would have run after the first week thinking there was something wrong, but it's turned out (so far) to be a wonderful experience. So I cant thank you guys enough for your words of advice.

Nez

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