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David E:
Just one more bump in the road Neil.....hang in there, you will win through.

Arnold:
Neil (our Chocolate Man), I can imagine you must be beyond "Bittersweet" with this. Being here on this Forum as long as I have and Facebook, it is NOT a pleasent time to read any of our Member's being given this kind of treatment.. don't care who the F it is. I also know, getting mad and and throwing stones at these Gov. people is not going to make them give you any favours.
Appeal with a good if not great Lawyer that can get in Contact direct with these A-holes and make them take time to actually "LOOK" at the proof your providing... something they love to overlook due to their lazyness/heartless nature.
Do not melt and fight for your Wife as long as your breathing/longing for your Wife's love.

Willy The Londoner:
No jokes from me on this one Neil. I am gutted for you two.

Maybe she had has to learn a lot more English and is it a good idea to strengthen the interest to the authoraties in working and associating more with the Chinese Community?

Just a thought.

Willy

Sylvain D:
Outch  :o
well, that's quite a bad news, but as many others say here, it's not over.
I hope, I wish you can do everything to give any proof that you want to live with your wife, wherever you both can live.
However, I don't understand about that part "She mentioned proof of support was not enough to prove it was a real relationship.  She mentioned that we don't communicate enough...."
She = your wife?
If so, I would believe that she'd better do or say something that can be good for both of you, but not to say something like that?
I think too, depending some interviews, there may be something related to Politics and the way to go to other countries, such as Canada or some european countries?

Anyway, hang in there ;-)

Arnold:
I talked to my Lawyer yesterday, to see what he thinks of this and his thought what to do next. Of course it's not a quick fix, but either way.. time/money will be again a big factor.
He's given me two advice's; First if you go the Appeal route, you'll need a Lawyer and as we know already.. this can take one to two yrs. and all that can come out of it.. is the same result NO.
Second, forget the Appeal.. wait eight months (that's coming form him for US Immigr.) and start over. This looks pretty much the same time frame, but... you have a better chance for an approval that way. Also give you more time to Communicate ( that is of much importance he says ) without PC/Phone/ect. She needs to have at least some English in case of un-foreseen Emergencies when your not present or with her at the time ( we've talked about this on our Forum many times ).
Not a favourable outlook being married and missing being together, but what is one to do.. when you get shown the door with the wrong paper.
I feel for you Neil, hope this get's resolved without both of you loosing what you have worked so hard for.
Good Luck and remember, anyway we can help/comfort you.. we're here to do it.

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