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Prenuptial Agreements
shaun:
If I am reading things correctly then I think Willy read a survey that quoted the statistics and he compared them to what the men are going through on this site. Then he mixed in a healthy jab toward his American buddies for fun and we have a healthy topic going on.
I don't think we know enough about the men on this site to know if the statistics are equal. So many have left as others have said. It would be nice to hear from the others and see how their relationships are going, not solely for this thread but we all have a keen interest in seeing how well others are doing.
When it comes to matrimony it is a crap shoot for all of us. I was married for 27 years before it hit the fan. I could blame it all on her but I take part of the blame too. I had a female friend here locally who is a widow from Hong Kong. She is all of 33 and we talked weekly, as friends only, about China, Hong Kong, America, business, and the list goes on. She seemed to be a very nice woman and she worked in a store owned by a woman from the Philippines. Two weeks ago she ran off with another man and a little more than half of the stores inventory. He house had sold and she had been planning this for a long time. All of us that knew here were shocked. No one saw this coming. I shared this story to say that you never know what people will do. Did it happen because she is Asian? No. It happens all around the world all of the time.
Yes divorce in America is at 50% but I read somewhere that it is the same in China.
Face it. We all take a risk when we marry. The statistics show that second marriages ending in divorce is about 75%. Now add to that we are choosing to marry a woman from a different ethnic and culture group and the statistics are even greater. But we are all choosing to make that choice.
I like the following saying. "Insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different outcome."
In memory of the infamous play by the Fireside Theatre, I'll say, "I Think we are all Bozos on this Bus."
Another thought on this; http://youtu.be/4F-jeIdQwKY
Robertt S:
Sometimes I think people insist on pre-nups just to convince themselves and their relatives that their future wife does not care about his resources. If you are that worried to begin with then let me terrify you, a true gold-digger or a woman marrying just for a green card will wear you and your lawyers ass out with a well planned and executed VAWA case. If you are lucky, when all is said and done, you are not jailed and labeled a wife beater or sexual predator requiring you to register with authorities ( regardless of whether you did or did not ) and guess what that pre-nup will most likely be tossed aside by the judge. Anyway, on the lighter side here is a pre-nup for you red-necks out there( I am not going to mention any names in particular because you know who you are);
Bubba's Handy Dandy Prenuptial Agreement:
This here is a potential legal document that ought to be taken serious. It just might be binding in a court of law iffin' it is signed and dated by both parties and yer lawyer.
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For The Man o' The House:
What's mine is mine and that means a wife don't touch, don't snoop through, and by all means don't tell the locals what all we gots and ain't gots.
Property: All buildings, shacks, trailers, sheds, motorized transportation, land, huntin' tools, corn stills, and animals are to stay in the possession of the Man o' The House iffin' the woman goes a wandering off playing in another's pasture.
Child Support: Iffin' they don't look like me, I ain't supporting 'em in the event the wife partakes in wandering off the marital property.
Money: The Man o' The House earns it so he gets to keep it. 'Nough said!
Mother In Law Rules: Must abide by the 500 mile restraining order that will be taken out upon the day of the marriage. Postal mail will be permitted if weekly financial assistance is abided by.
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For The Little Woman:
Iffin' you came into this marriage with clothes on your back and kids from yer previous marriage you get to keep 'em.
Housework: You agree to keep a lookin' good, cook, clean, tend to the land, garden, livestock, keep repairs up on the homestead, and be aimin' to please yer man at the drop of a dime.
Man o' The House Signature:___________________________ Date: _____________
Little Woman's Signature: _____________________________ Date: _____________
Lawyer Signature: ____________________________________ Date: _____________
( for entertainment purpose only. Could result in a lump on yer head, black eye, tender groin, and endless lonely nights if yer crazy enough to hand it to yer woman to read... or worse, to sign it.
Martin:
Hmmm...what's wrong with that Pre-Nup?
Robertt S:
Check out this pre-nup. I can't believe she signed it myself! http://www.thesmokinggun.com/file/marital-agreement
john1964:
Rhonald, This person that i refer too is actually a long time member here but is a small time poster, He was duped by a gold digger but has not lost sight in looking for a Chinese wife,I actually met him in Handan back in December when he met up with one of my wife's friends, He is looking in to a prenuptial agreement if he does find another wife from China, John.
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