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Do we (married ones) compare.. or do we not?

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David E:
Dont overthink it Arnold....you rapidly get into "analysis paralysis" !!!!!!

Surely, us old guys have learned to live in the moment, to treasure the here and now, we have less of them remaining than the youngsters !!!

And lastly, have we not learned that whatever dont kill you makes you stronger........

As my LP says...."LG, it's Yuan Fen" we have no choice, so lets enjoy it together......"

Arnold:
David..."analysis paralysis"? Let me look that up.. sounds like something I don't want or get! ???

Do as Maxx says... get out of your Head! So, do I now get into someone else's instead?


Ahhh...The condition of being unable to make a decision due to the availability of too much information which must be processed in order for the decision to be made.

David.. good point, thanks!

Willy The Londoner:

--- Quote from: JohnB on July 13, 2012, 01:02:22 pm ---
(I think I would shit if Jing starts drinking “Bud”, follows Nascar, listens to “Country & Western”, watches FoxNews, or follows the right wing pols.)   
JohnB

--- End quote ---

I think my chances with you are well down the pan then. ;D ;D ;D ;D

Willy

lfputman3:
Like Willy, I'm a first-timer, unlike Willy, I'm a bit younger.  ;D

Have I made any comparisons, between my wife and previous gf's, yes, all mental, in my head. Obviously, in my head, everything came to a decision. I made it, and now I'm here.

As I'm her first husband, we both plan on each other being our last marriage partners, she in the early days of our relationship, mentioned one ex-bf. She thought they were going to marry, but he was an ass. She's told me plenty about her father. However, I've actually never seen the guy in the descriptions. I'm still trying to figure out, if her mama was married twice, or if her father was the guy that drove her mother out. It's a little beyond the simple in that one. Never-the-less, when her friends make comments about misery and suffering now, she laughs at them. After being together this summer, she tells me, she knows I will never chase after another woman and that I will always be there for her. Unless of course, I decide to die for some reason. Which wouldn't be a good idea, being she told me I am supposed to outlive her. I've told her, should I outlive her, I will most likely die shortly after her. Why? I don't want to think about the misery of life without her. That is exactly what it will be for me.

However, I'm younger than a vast majority of those on the site. So I've many years of updates and advice. As well, if any younger guys (I've been told under 40, preferably under 35 for most of them) pop in asking questions, or looking for ladies. I know a few eligible ones.

So while I know plenty of single women under the age of 40, (most under 30) for the 50+ crowd, well, most of you know how these girls feel about "older" men.

The single women over 40 that we know (mama included), they just want a dependable, reliable man, with some "security" for the long run.

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