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Mei:
Hello people,

 I was bored and looking for sites that have people that married through chnlove or sites like it. Anyways, I met my wife through chnlove and we've been happily married for close to three years.

 My wife lives with me in Southern California. She's from Hunan province, in China. Her visa process was simple and took twelve months. I spent several months with her in Hunan.

 We lead a simple life and get along very well.  Language is still a barrier but by keeping things simple it doesn't become a problem. We married in Hunan and keep our names and also each have names from our new homes and families.

Our families and friends have completely accepted our marriage and are completely happy for us. I guess we are lucky we found each other.

I sometimes read about people and their difficulties with communication, visas, and acceptance with such marriages. By keeping things simple people can avoid many pitfalls with these relationships. I thought I would share our experience and say hello!

Sincerly, Mei

joeswuhandream:
Mei welcome to the forum
after readiing  your spoken words i agree entirely
life is simple   well done   people in this forum take note
i dont have headaches do forum members ? :)

maxx:
Mei welcome to the forum.Me and my wife have ben married for 6 years.And have 3 boys.It took 11 months for the visa approval..I think you have a good point.Keep it simple.And try not to over think things to much.

Jason B:
Agree with all the above keep it simple but also be honest. Do not give the Immigration office any doubts.  And just to rub it in a little my wife's visa application took 2 weeks..

Willy The Londoner:
Hi Mei

I also married a lady from Hunan almost three years ago. She is from Hengyang,  And keeping conversation also simple suits me fine.  The only difference is that I intend to live here in China.  My wife would prefer to life here close to her wider family.  So far no serious rifts have evolved.

Willy

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