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Willy The Londoner:
--- Quote from: shaun on January 28, 2013, 04:22:53 am ---Smaug, you've received a lot of good advice here. Here is one more kink you should consider. By virtue of the fact that you were not divorced when you went to China and are still married and you are still living in the same house with your current wife your future wife will have a tremendous battle during the interview. If I were you I'd find another part-time job and move out. Deliver pizza if you must. You've already stepped in it as far as the interviewer is concerned. You need to do something about it.
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Not to worry Shaun.
He has decided it is going to be a walk in the park for get her and her son a visa to go and live with him and then return to China and then return to the USA and maybe marry sometime or not in the future.
I think if he had to experience the trials and tribulations of the USA Immigrations that you have been going through for a couple of years and still undergoing then he may change his mind.
Willy
Pineau:
Smaug. Maybe she gets a little special treatment because of her job with a USA company and can get a visitors VISA easily, But tourists and immigrants are a world apart.
No judgments here but just a fact the could cause you trouble later on. It is their job to look into all possibilities of why you are getting married and whether or not it is a sincere and bonafied marriage. They will dig into both of your backgrounds and look under every rock to find any reason to suspect this is a fraudulent marriage. Someone could easily label her as a home wrecking " other woman" and you as an adulterer. They could possibly deny her when she applies for immigration. The process is full of pitfalls and obstacles for the squeaky clean family based i-130. You have already gone too far for the by posting your relationship and marital status here on a public forum.
Get divorced and get out of the house now. If you don't your just helping them build a case for denial.
Martin:
Smug...figured I would chime in here. First off, you have been getting a lot of great advice here. Something to consider, is that all the guys replying to you all have personal experiences in this area. Also, many of these guys have seen many others come through this site before you, so our experiences are not just limited to our own stories.
Keep in mind the cultural and language differences. This can not be over stated. And Maxx's 24 hour rule is something you should practice.
I wish you all the best of luck in this adventure of yours. It sounds like you will have some stressful days ahead of you.
Smaug:
--- Quote from: Willy The Londoner on January 28, 2013, 08:40:34 am ---Not to worry Shaun.
He has decided it is going to be a walk in the park for get her and her son a visa to go and live with him and then return to China and then return to the USA and maybe marry sometime or not in the future.
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Why are you still riding me, Willy? Just because I don't agree with you on every little point doesn't mean I'm A Bad Person or that we're doomed to fail. How about showing some support and giving some constructive feedback, like the others are doing, instead of just criticizing everything I've done so far?
--- Quote ---I think if he had to experience the trials and tribulations of the USA Immigrations that you have been going through for a couple of years and still undergoing then he may change his mind.
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Do you remember that my ex wife is Polish?, we went through that immigration process before, and without a lawyer. This time, I will hire a lawyer, to help make it smooth. Will it take years, as you said? Maybe, but I sure hope not. We'll try to make it NOT take years.
Smaug:
The divorce was finalized two weeks ago; we settled.
I moved out Saturday. aaaand Sunday. Getting the rest of my stuff out by the 8th. Setting up the apartment now.
I negotiated a decent visitation schedule as part of the settlement: I will have my daughter overnight two nights per week; one week night, and one weekend night. Then, one evening for dinner.
I booked airfare to visit my lady in June; she booked airfare to come with her son to visit me in July. I may visit again in October, if she cannot come permanently this year.
My family is getting a little jealous of my vacation time. My sister and her family in California want me to come out, and my grandfather in Georgia wants to meet his grand granddaughter. I saved a few days for him, since he's 92, he won't be around forever. :(
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