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Smashinz:
    Today she invited me to meet her family: Her Father, her Mother, her sister, and her sister's son. This was a major event in our relationship, and it was wonderful. They were all so friendly and nice; I felt as if I was with my own family members. They were all so accepting and sweet to me. They all made me feel like I was part of their family. This is such a huge deal for me, as an American, because before meeting my Chinese girlfriend, I had NO IDEA that such an absolutely wonderful woman existed on this planet!  You know, a common American saying is this: "if it's too good to be true, then it's probably not true". But I am telling you this now, that if you find a wonderful Asian woman, then the previous statement "too good to be true" is false, because yes indeed, it's true!! And I am living it right now. And it's wonderful beyond explanation in words.

RobertBfrom aust:
That is great news , enjoy , regards Sujuan and Robert .

john1964:
I must admit that when i first met my wife's family it was a very daunting experience, I got the third degree off of all of them but things turned out for the best, Every time from then when i returned to China things were a little easier, Getting accepted by the family was difficult but now they all welcome me with happy faces, I have just returned from my 7th or 8th trip to China and this time was by far the best, The whole family communicate more to me including the Aunts Uncles nephews, My wife is from a small rural village where they do not see many westerners, So when i am at the family home there are many visits from the neighbours just to see me  ;D, My nephews school mates also come around at lunch time to talk and practice their English, To be welcomed by all of these people is a great experience, John.

Smashinz:
Chinabound, I completely agree with you on this topic. My girlfriend has been in the U.S. for the past two years, on a student visa, so we have had a lot of time together to get to know each other very well. Fortunately, her culture pretty much requires a lengthy courtship period, precisely to avoid the problems you mentioned (failed relationship).
    Neither myself, nor my Chinese girlfriend, have found the cultural differences to be a problem. In fact, quite the opposite, these differences have been a great point of interest, and learning, for us both. I am fascinated by her culture, as she is mine.
    But all of these things being considered, we are both people, and we both love each other, and we both have the same life goals. So, all is very, very well with us.
   

L.

Dallas, Tx.

Smashinz:
To: RobertBfrom Aust.......and John 1964;
       
      Thank you so much for replying. I am so excited about my girlfriend, and she is so excited also about me. We have been dating for a long time now, and we are planning to be married later this year. I had no idea such a woman could ever exist in this world. It is truly beyond words, how to express this type of thing? Our relationship has continued to grow as time has progressed, and we are both looking forward to a wonderful marriage and life together.
      It is so great to have found this community. . I plan to remain a member here and eventually post some photos (as yall have).

L.

Dallas, Tx.

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