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JustJim:
It has been a while since I have been to this site and even longer since I posted but I feel I would be remiss if I didn't say something.
I am in China again and this time Mei went for her interview and got the visa approval for her and for Xiao Hui!!!
If it took so long you can all blame me. It seemed like at every turn it took me so long to complete paperwork or come up with the funds to pay the fees. Either way I stretched the process out, at least in my mind, but now we are almost there. We are waiting now for the visas to be delivered.
Robert, as most of you know, was a great help and knows the ins and outs of this business. I am glad I had him help us. He was worth every penny.
As for my wife, I feel that I got so lucky. Earlier this month we were talking about how she wanted to go for the interview in time to be able to get Xiao Hui to the states before school started. I told her that I just didn't have the funds to purchase three plane tickets at the time.
Well, I have been sending her $500 a month now for over a year for her expenses. And what has she been doing with it? Well, saving every penny is what, so she told me not to worry about the tickets, we have the money.
I was flabbergasted, speechless, etc.etc. I already thought I had a good wife. That was just more proof.
So this is just a short note to let you all know our good news. This site has been very helpful to me in negotiating this process.
Thanks, everyone...!
Jim, Mei, and Xiao Hui (soon to be "Kelly" :) )
Arnold:
GREAT to hear Jim! I feel the harder it is to finally be together, the stronger the bond will be between the two/three of you. Anyways, Congrat's on getting it done to both of you and may the Future hold less obstacle in your way. Good Luck!
Jason B:
Congratulations and as everyone here who has their wives with them will tell you. Strap yourself in because you are heading for one hell of a ride! But worth every minute and I certainly wouldn't swap it for anything in this world.
Willy The Londoner:
Another great story to start my day with.
So to those who have gone or are going through the trials and tribulations of undertaking the process then I salute you.
It is not something that I have had to go through as my plans are to stay here. That is as long as the Chinese officials will put up with me. ::)
Willy
JustJim:
I am in quite the quandry....
A word of warning to everyone. Don't ever assume that you can get anything done over here.
I came here assuming that once we got our visa approval that we could easily book a flight back.
Well, I had sent money ahead and we were going to use that money to purchase return tickets.
The first problem is that I did not unlock my card for use in China. I have to do that in person at my bank. It's a fraud protection thing. No unauthorized overseas use. Not a bad idea in this day and age but now it's coming back to bite me in the ass.
The second problem is that Mei has only a debit card which can't be used online.
The third problem is she can't fly through Taiwan on Eva airlines without a permit to do so.
That wouldn't be so much of a problem if we could find a legitimate travel agent. They could hook us up with a permit, I am told.
Yesterday Mei took me to a very professional building and then up to the third floor and into a small office with two ladies with Iphones and one laptop. My hopes fell pretty quickly. We then attempted to use her sisters visa card but that was eventually denied for some unknown reason. It might be that we had just transferred money into her sister's account, but I don't know for sure.
The only other problem with using her sister's card (if it does get approved on the next attempt) is that there are restrictions on purchasing tickets if you are not going to be in the traveling party, and there is paperwork involved and who knows what else...? We might get to the check in and find that we can't fly. I don't know and I don't want to find out so late...
Now I am hoping to find a legitimate travel agency that will take cash and book us a flight out of here. At this point I am ready to give up the low fare and great scheduling ( and short flight) on Eva air for anything that will get us out of here and at any cost.
Maybe this is all a conspiracy to soften me up to pay the exorbitant fares they are charging this time of year, Caution, don't try to leave China in August. Fares are twice the norm.
If anyone knows of anyway they could help me with info or advice I would appreciate it.
If nothing else let this be a caution to everyone out there. It's already next to impossible to get anything done here. Don't make it worse by not being prepared and by assuming.
On a highlight we got our visas in 6 days!
Of course that won't do me any good when I am still stuck here in December... :(
Jim
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