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Neil:
Is there anything special I need to know?  I guess I'll just go talk to a lawyer in town. 

Pineau:
You cant just blurt that out and say nothing else. Whats going on?

Willy The Londoner:
Not nosiness on our part.  But maybe someone here will have an answer for you not just on your basic question but on other concerns.

I know that if both parties are in agreement and both are in China it is not difficult to get divorced.  My wife, after 14 years apart from her ex husband, went back to her home province. Her ex signed the papers and four days later she was back here with  her divorce papers.

I know that if one of the parties is outside of China and will not or cannot sign the papers then it is a longer process as others on here will know from their past experiences.

If your talking about your relationship Neil then we are here.  Even as a bunch of 'virtual buddies' we come together when one has a problem.

Willy

ChinaBound:
         Neil,

 Having gone thru it I would tell you my experience and what I had to do to obtain my divorce. But I will do it via personal message to message as I don't want to put it on the open forum!! Currently is behind me but I would help someone with what I did personally if it would help them.

   But I will say MAKE SURE it is what you want. As it is a very tough and hurtful, painful decision to all involved in the divorce.  Took me 3 months to decide
   When she came back from Beijing I tried to talk with her before I left. Just wasn't made to be. But everything has worked out
we have a good life and we are happy.

Sometimes you need to stumble and fall to get were your going!!  Best of luck and by the way I did mine outside of China in the USA. And all the paperwork was acceptable for this marriage.

 Ted

Neil:
I'm done.  I've thrown in the towel.  I don't have any more strength to do this.  I put my life on hold for 3 years.  My wife can't come home, and I can't move to China.  It's the most difficult and painful decision I've ever made, and I'm tired.  It's time to get on with my life. 

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