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boston:
HI GUYS; I AM MARRIED TO A WONDERFUL BEIJING LADY  FOR 5 YEARS AND OUR LOVE CONTINUES TO GROW.
IF THERE ARE ANY SERIOUS GIRLS LOOKING TO ENTER A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH A WESTERN MAN HERE IS SOME ADVICE:
#1 WESTERN MEN ( SERIOUS ONES) MARRY FOR LOVE: NOT BENEFIT THIS YOU NEED  TO UNDERSTAND TOTALLY
#2 ON THE FIRST FEW DATES IF YOUR FIRST QUESTIONS ARE    DO YOU OWN A HOME, OR HOW MUCH MONEY DO YOU MAKE  OR TRY TO SIZE HIM UP BY THE CLOTHES HE WEARS ( IE DESIGNER)
YOUR CHANCE OF FINDING A MAN WHO WILL STAY WITH YOU ARE  ALMOST 0% UNLESS YOUR JUST INTERESTED IN A PHYSICLA RELATIONSHIP.
 90%  WESTERN MEN DONT DRESS TO IMPRESS ANYONE   THEY DRESS TO THEIR OWN COMFORT AND TASTES, WE REALLY DONT GIVE A SWEET SHI_ WHAT YOU OR ANYONE ELSE THINGS OF US PERIOD. WE DRESSA FOR OUR SATISFACTION.   NOW I DONT MEAN COME TO A DATE DRESSED LIKE A BUMB WITH DIRTY OR TORN CLOTHES OR HORRIBLE SHOES, BUT DONT JUDGE US BY OUR CHOICE OF CLOTHES.
WE KNOW YOU WANT TO MARRY A MAN WHO WILL SUPPORT YOU AND TAKE CARE OF YOU BUT MOST DONT OWN A HOME OR Have  a 100k job.
but look for a woman to love and be loved and work together to make a life for each other.

next post i will detail what it is like in the marriage and things that need to be addressed .  dating is not even on the same planet as with a chinese guy. trust me you have a lot to learn
good luck

JustJim:
Hey Boston...

We can hear you...   You don't have to yell... :D

Willy The Londoner:
Well then Mr Boston I am sure that we will all be enlightened by your vast experience on the subject of Chinese Women.

Most on here have been through the the initial stages that you WARN us of!  Many have been married successfully for longer than either you or I.

A few have fell apart over the years but I noticed that many more are being successful in their relationships and in getting their ladies to their home towns with the assistance from within this forum.

If you have not noticed yet we do have our own expert on here, Robertt, who has been personally responsible for ensuring things go smoothly for people.

The things that you have stated here are already within these pages so maybe you will not get much response from others at this time other than to ask you to please stop shouting at us!

Willy

Pineau:
 Muzzle it... If you would look before you speak you would find every aspect of Chinese western relationships, problems and pit falls are all well documented here in the 39,000 post in 1,800 topics. But if you have a personal, interesting, unique experience then by all means please share it with us.

ChinaBound:
   I guess he just wanted to vent or advise???????????  But as I read it again the writing and how it is said reminds me of a former member. No I don't mean CSHARK. I don't know just read it again and the old time members might come up with the same idea.

He did reappear on the other forum recently.

 Just a thought.

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