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CypherDragon:
Well, I did get a response back, but it didn't say anything new. I've sent her the ultimatum of QQ or nothing, and blocked her on chnlove...to be honest at this point I don't expect to hear anything more.
Thanks again for acting as a sounding board to a complete stranger, and helping me to see things as they really are. I'm going to go blow up some virtual spaceships and be depressed for a bit...
Robertt S:
Don't let it get you too down, it has happened to many others and will happen to many more. Feel free to come here and share some fellowship with us, we have helped each other cope with situations such as this before. Problems and the lack of good answers/advice is one of the main reasons this forum was started originally. We are here to assist you anytime so don't be a stranger since you have officially been indoctrinated for membership here by ChnLove! ???
maxx:
CyberDragon You have gotten some good advice from Willy and Gerry and some of the other members here. If you are seriose about meeting the woman of your dreams. Get on a plane and just go stand on a street corner in China. If the woman of your dreams doesn't come along in a minute. Her friend will and she will introduce you to the woman of your dreams.
I like Zhuhai. Because it is warm year around and it isn't to difficult to get to from Hong Kong. Cheap hotels And plenty to do for a week. The other brothers will tell you that. They like other cities better. It doesn't matter what city you pick. You just need to get your feet on the ground in China.
I know this sounds crazy. but it has actually worked for me in Thailand, Japan, Taiwan, and China. And it has worked for other members in China. I know it sounds a little scary. The what if's will drive you nuts. But if you don't go you never know what could of ben. If this still doesn't sound like a solid idea.A Chinlove agency is above the McDonalds in Zhuhai. They will be happy to introduce you to a lady. Just walk through the front door of the agency. They will take care of you. Willy and I know ladies in and around Zhuhai. That would be a good match for you. And I'm sure the other brother's know a few ladies to.
Rhonald:
Cyberdragoon, are any of her pictures, does she mention any Calgary landmarks in the background? I live in Calgary so shouldn't be too hard to see if any location shots are from here. As for attending college/university, we would have only a few possible schools. Do you have any idea what her major area of studys are? But even with all this snooping, it feels like more a gathering of information to prove what you already feel deep in your gut.
Its a terrible sensation when doubt boils inside - best of luck.
CypherDragon:
Robert - Thanks, I'll probably stick around here for awhile. I've always been fascinated by Asian culture and history, and having some folks to talk about it with sounds fun. Do I get a badge or anything for surviving the indoctrination process? ;D
Maxx - Yeah, I need a vacation anyway. Been too long since I've gotten away and decompressed for a bit...just need to learn at least some of the basics for getting around in China, and I'll probably start plotting a trip over that way. It is scary to just jump in to something new and unknown, but there are a lot of places and things in quite a few countries over that way that are on my bucket list to see and visit. I've already crossed off a few big ones (Athens, Kusadasi/Ephesus, Rome) a couple years ago...it's beyond time to get a few more stamps in my passport.
Rhonald - Yes, she mentioned that the 2nd pic I posted (of her by the water) were taken in Banff, AB. I have a few others from a museum, but she didn't say which one. She said she was attending Calgary University with a major of children's education (or something similar...can't remember exactly). If you were thinking about checking if she's actually enrolled there, her full name is Juan Wang...
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