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mracn:
I'm from Montreal, Canada. We have been chatting for several months. She is 45 and lives with her parents. Divorced with a son who is 24 and does not live with her. We have become very attached in the past week after spending many hours on QQ every day. The question I have here and hopefully a Canadian who has gone through this can help me out. Just over 3 years ago, I was scammed by a woman from Thailand by one of the most elaborate setups I have ever seen and it cost me a bundle so I always have doubts in long distance relationships. Getting back to my sweetheart Rose, I will not be sending anything in advance to protect myself. Since I am now living on my government pensions, I want to know the process I have to go through and the simplest and most inexpensive way to get married as well as a honeymoon just after. I could use all the info for those whu gone through this before me,

Thanks,
George

Pineau:
I am not Canadian but I do know little bit about Chinese ladies and scams.  Consider going to China to see her before setting the marriage date. Give yourself a escape route if you decide  you're not compatible. She certain is lovely and looks to be worth the trip.  But you cant be absolutely sure until you have spent time with her. Do you have a back up plan? 

mracn:
My only plan tos to get all the information first before I decide to make this trip.I have medical issues which she already knows about. She is going to tell her parents about me this weekend so I'll see how that goes. I also plan many more months of spending time with her on QQ to get to know her much better. it will also allow me time ton start putting away the money I'll need to cover all my expenses back and forth including the wedding if that will be the end result. I have to know all the steps to take so that I don't screw up the whole process. I know if and when all is done, ot will take time for her to receive the Canadian Visa to come and join me permanently. Thanks for the information, I look forward to getting as much information as possible in the coming months.
-George-

kenny:
Have you thought about her coming here with a finance visa? This is what we did and it went fairly smoothly. I am not sure about Canada either but Neil had allot of problems after he was married and trying to bring his wife to over.

RobertBfrom aust:
George , correct me if I am wrong , but it would seem like you have been working on this idea for over 4 years now , very few of the ladies would wait for even 6-8 months for you to visit as it would seem that you have not visited the Middle Kingdom in all that time .
The women will very quickly see you as someone who wants to chat , but not commit to a visit also you could also look at the Philippines as they have a ridiculous number of 40 to 50 age group eligible ladies due to their Catholic upbringing and most have very passable English , regards Sujuan and Robert .
   

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