I am here... I check every day. I am married and trying to wade thru the US Form I-130 and form I-130A to get Li Hong over here. China was incredible, beautiful, exciting. Still looking for advice on languages, and how to blend two wonderful cultures, traditions, and languages as one. Ahhhh you guys are helpful and I appreciate being a member of the group. Do any of the wives have a similar group, or chat program?