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Chong:
Sarge ... I don't mind. This thread is a good enough spot. I agree with your points above. All the other mods are married ... so since they're off limits ... I don't think they mind about this idea, hehehe  :lol:

However, IMHO ... I think that interested guys should send their photo and profile info to the contact person (you) to forward to the lady ... and she can choose ... instead of 2-4 Brothas completing over the lady.

Regarding details of your lady friends ... just a photo, age and general description of herself and what she looking for ... No Name, private info or City where she lives.

Irishman:
I could make a sub forum which is read only and grant write permissons on a person by person basis so that ladies posting wouldnt have silly comments posted after their profiles.
Not sure how much demand there would be for it though but happy to make it on a trial basis if the mods approve.

JimB:
I know there are at least 3 or 4 other Brothas who have ladies they would like to introduce.  I personally do not mind being the contact point for mine. We can start this way and refine it as we go along.  A sub forum seems like a good idea.  I do not know how many would like the idea as well, but i am willing to give it a try.  If it helps one Brotha to find his dream girl it would be worth it to me.   I have three, all read, write and speak english very well.  Ages range from 22 to 32.  All very attractive.  One coming into Miami to finish her masters degree in August.  The other two are in accounting. All known to me as real and very nice.  So why not.  I will get a photo, a profile and what they are looking for.  I will forward any e mail to them.  We will see how it goes.  This may give us an idea of how well Chongs idea will take off.  I know there is a lot of support for it.  Maybe this is the way to start it.

Danny:
I know that this is what everyone wants, but please make sure that it's done tastefully and respectfully. I think any of the ladies who are friends of wives and girlfriends, should be treated with the utmost respect. If there is anything written about them that is the least bit disparaging or rude, then the posts should just be deleted.

maxx:
Guys if you want to do this that is fine with me.I'm only speaking for myself I have not talked to the other mods.

My concern is the same as Danny's.There should be no trash talking.And it should be done with the utmost respect to the lady.While keeping in mind different customs different culture issues.

Different customs and different culture issues can become a huge part of this kind of relationship.I have ben married long enough to know this.And to know how to deal with them.

We all bitch about the translaters.And what a shitty job they do.But they do take alot of the culture shock out of the letters from the men.and from the women.The really shitty translater I had even saved me and my wifes relationship.She said something really bad to me one day.And got madd at me.Because I was madd at her.I was packing my bags headed to Thailand when the translater got us togeather.And explained to my wife what she had said that was wrong to me.

I have a friend in Zhuhai.I have fixed her up a couple of times with different men from around the world.But it never seams to work out.The man can never really decide what he wants to do.

somebody once said this kind of life and relationship is not for everybody.And I really beleave that.A cross culture relationship is  twice as much work as dating somebody from your own country.That is why alot of people start this but never finsh it.I'm sure there is somebody somewhere.Who has got the statistics written down somewhere.About how many of these relationships have failed before it even got started.

If all of the support and help for the lady and the man are in place.Then I don't see a problem with it.Translater service,different customes and culture help,You cannot just throw to people together from to totaly different countries together and expect it to work

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