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JohnJohn:
This is my first post. I finally have something to say and hopefully contribute to everyone who comes to read here.
I have been reading a whole lot on this forum and after much consideration and debate with myself I have decided to make the trip to China. I will arrive there on 16 July. I think I have read more bad than good about CHNL. I believe that if I read up more before I became a member there I probably wouldn't have. But there are some solid good stories to hear and I am hoping that I become one of them. I think right now my main paranoia is that I am going to get there and fall into one of these "The lady couldn't make it" or some other type scam. I guess will wait and see in the next few days. For the woman I am talking to she did tell me that they offered for free 15 min of webcam chat there in the office. Took opportunity for that. She was beautiful of course in the studio pictures she had posted of course and was surprised to see that in the webcam there she was the same. She has sent me about 6 other regular pictures of herself since we have been talking. So I have not had any of those problems there.
  There was some difficulty earlier though. I had stopped talking to her for a while. It has just been not too long ago that i have started back up communication with her again. It is from talking to her again that I decided to go and see her. The problem I experienced was A friend of mine who went to CHNL and sent a cupid note to her (Without knowing I was talking to her already).  The reply he received (which he showed to me after seeing who I was talking with) was the same exact reply which I received earlier. Of course this upset me and I was off thinking I got scammed or something. My friend did not write to her again but received another EMF to him bla bla. He showed that to me. Well after reading through this stie and FB I starting thinking maybe it was the translator or something. So I emailed her personal account and asked her in translated english through google translate. She wrote me back and we talked about it and she denies it. She then went to the CHNL office to inquire about this. Her old translator had quit and the members there could not give her any kind of answer about this. She did tell me before her old translator had quit and run off with her bf. Since we have been talking to each other again we have corresponded through email vice EMF. Much more comfortable to me. Its not the money its more a trust issue.  Well Im going down there to meet her. I really hope that this trip goes well. I do believe her when she says that she wasnt writing the same letter to another person. At least I am telling myself so.
  I guess right now I am also worried about the first meeting. I of course hope the flow goes well. Im taking alot of the advice I have read from here. Thanks for it. I will post how my trip went and anything I can contribute to the forum of course I will do so.

RobertBfrom aust:
Good luck on your trip John , may it turn out fine , I think China Shark Mike is living in that area so see if you can meet up , in between his 24 hour a day dating , regards Robert .

metooap:
Good luck John on your trip as well. I will be heading to China on the 17th. This is my second trip and I will have a ring with me this time. On my first trip I had all of those feelings that you mentioned as well. If you have made direct contact with your lady and you have seen her you should be okay. I am wishing you the best!

Sylvain D:
JohnJohn,

I wish you a nice trip over there.
For sure, whatever would happen, you'll come back with experience.
First, a new country where you're never gone before
Second, a lady who you seem to be very "well" with. May your story be the same as most of the guys here.

For sure, you will find here many advices and comments, i think that if that forum is born, it is really to help and to share many things... as the brotherhood ;)

You may have created a blog, if so, we could follow your story over there, too,

Just one thing : read carefully the thread about the 24H's rule, it is REALLY IMPORTANT ;)

China Shark:
John John, It sounds like it's going just fine. Don't let paranoia spook you because it will alter your perspective and ultimately could destroy something beautiful. Like Sylvain says 24 hr rule at all times when in country. He stuck by it through thick and thin even after his situation took a turn for the worst. I live in Shenzhen so why don't you look me up when you arrive. Like to meet you and your lady. Hey, maybe your girl has a friend for the Shark, lol. Really, here's my email seal03@gmail.com, I'll shoot you my cell number if you want to meet up while you're here. Pack plenty of light clothing and remember an umbrella {rainy season July, August}. The sun is brutal here on any given day, sort of like living down south in America, can't hide from the sun. The brotherhood is all routing for you, either way it could possibly go we got your back.
China Shark Mike

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