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Talking to a lady who knows very little english.

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Jay W:
Dave,

What sent my alarm bells was not the lack or increase of lovey dovey language, it was forgetting preferences (favorite foods, etc.) that I just had told her about a couple of letters past.  After I expressed my concerns to her, things were explained.

It was explained to me that my girl has been busy at work, and  the translator translates what is written to her by my girl.  If her letter is scatterbrained and absent-minded, the EMF will be too.  I've asked my girl to get plenty of rest and write me when she can spare a moment.  I've also put the translator on notice too.  If there was funny stuff going on, I doubt it will continue any more.  What was also reassuring is that she sent a real life photo of herself preparing dinner.

She has also agreed to my plan to cut the EMF strings in the very near future.  I think this will be good for both of us.  The ones on here that advocating me giving her the benefit of the doubt were correct.  Thank you.

Jay

Hajo:

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Ronan:

I tend to agree on the photos.  However, I do think there are a small fraction that do know what they are doing when posing.  As Brittney Spears once sang, they are "not that innocent".  :P

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Jay, I talked to a lady about the pictures once . We had more a friendship than a relationship. I got to know, that she has been told by the photographer's that western men like little more "naughty" pictures. I believe that the ladies are often very unsure what to do in such a photo session.

Ed W:
About the photo's. My wife and friends, and many others, enjoy getting all dolled up and having really nice pictures taken of them. There are many studios, often in the malls, and there's a flood of people in all day long. The photographer is the one telling them how to pose and trying to get that nice shot they're paying for.

I wouldn't be so terribly concerned with the outside since it's the inside that matters more. My wife wasn't the best looking of my admire mails but certainly seemed the most genuine. She takes amazing studio pics but her every day face is still beautiful but very much like the rest of China. It might be why they do this, so they do feel a bit different.

Anyways, I wouldnt dwell too much on the perfect photo's since they're paying for it. Would you accept any less if you were flippin the bill? hehe. Not me!

Scottish_Rob:
I got a letter the other day from Kathy, and it was quite short and not as the way she usually writes, and I replied asking why Yuki (Translator) never wrote it, you will be able to tell when they are not the usual translators mate. Translator was off for the day.:rolleyes:

jamesm_406:
I've learnt a lot today from reading various things in the forums and looking at different links.  looking at that Agencyscams website, it says about "being wary" of chnlove and how the translators reply to messages as part of a big money squandering act.  After reading these rather worrying facts, I am still not deterred and will continue to contact my lady. It can't be all bad seeing as we're now sharing over private email too?? have to wait and see I suppose!  I'm happy, so I don't mind. :)

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