China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => Newbies Corner => Topic started by: joss888 on July 08, 2012, 07:07:04 pm
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Hello ..I have been reading this forum for the last year . I met a woman on Chnluv ..She is an physician . I wrote her an EMF and she replied about herself as well as telling me she is a graduate of Yale . She explained she had moved back to China to help her father run a small hospital that he owns with a few other physicians. I am wondering why she uses the EMF's when obvious she has to be able to read and write English . It just doesn't add up for me ...any thoughts by the experienced guys that have experience with Chnluv ..writing as well as actually meeting the person they have found there on the web site ? Any thought how I could get her direct contact info ...she appears very bright ,funny ...and to be frank I am interested .
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If you have been reading this forum for a year then you know the mind games tricks and scams that the Chnlove agencies are capable of.
Get her on QQ ASAP and see if it is really her.
Get her private email ASAP.
Get some real photos ASAP
If your are really interested and can afford it then get on a plane and go see her.
If she refuses or makes excuses on any of the above i would bet she is fake or being hidden from you by the agency.
If she is a Yale graduate (which I doubt) the she can read, write and converse in English.
Wish your best of luck but don't run head long into a situation without being aware of what your really chasing after.
And if she is who she says she is, then I want her name and phone number. My son could use a good educated Chinese wife.
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Sounds fishy to me. I guess you can start with knowing something about Yale and asking her about it? like where is it? (New Haven, CT) what street is the admittance building on (it's not on campus, Orange St). If she passes this then the only thing you can do to get off of chnlove is pack your bags and take a trip. The translator is forbidden to pass along any email addr, telep #, or even QQ. If they do it's the agencies and that's who you will be chatting with. Good luck.
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Yes welcome Joss , the management at the other site have tightened up contact points and judging by the poor amount of forum material being posted now , it used to be many enquiries or posts every night a few years ago , I think they are just looking for other ways to fleece guys , that being said send a few emf's back and forth and keep putting your qq number in there .
If she is answering your questions well maybe try for a video call if they still exist or an alternative is to find out her location and look to see if she pops up on another site as there are a few where you can hone in on a locality , but don't forget to mention to the translator that the lady in question has paid big money to be introduced to someone so they had better get their act together or you will not be a happy chappy , regards Sujuan and Robert .
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There are several doctors on Chlove. As everyone says she would have a good knowledge of English. I agree with Robert. Send a letter to the agency via her email details. She will never receive the email she will only get that part that the agency want her to know.
Tell the agency that they will make more money from a successful match especially as you do not intend to send more EMFs as you have no way of telling if the woman is genuine or not.
Tell them the choice is theirs - no contact details means no chance of them getting a success fee.
You do not say which province the doctor is in.
Willy
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If you have been reading this forum for a year then you know the mind games tricks and scams that the Chnlove agencies are capable of.
Get her on QQ ASAP and see if it is really her.
Get her private email ASAP.
Get some real photos ASAP
If your are really interested and can afford it then get on a plane and go see her.
If she refuses or makes excuses on any of the above i would bet she is fake or being hidden from you by the agency.
If she is a Yale graduate (which I doubt) the she can read, write and converse in English.
Wish your best of luck but don't run head long into a situation without being aware of what your really chasing after.
And if she is who she says she is, then I want her name and phone number. My son could use a good educated Chinese wife.
He will have to find his own I am afraid...but thank you for some of your advice ! ;)
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He will have to find his own I am afraid...but thank you for some of your advice ! ;)
Was you asking for a third party then?
Willy
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Ha Willy , Joss was answering Gerrys last line , regards Robert .
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Ha Willy , Joss was answering Gerrys last line , regards Robert .
Thanks Robert. I should look closer in future but you know I try not to let anyone have the last word. ;D ;D
Willy
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yes I know that Willy ha ha .
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That's OK Willy, I was a little confused about the comment as well.
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That's OK Willy, I was a little confused about the comment as well.
Your in good company then ;D ;D
Willy
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I would enjoy so much having my son marry a Chinese woman. I think he would be very happy. He is 40 years old and never married. He has have American girlfriends and just never found the woman he cant live without. I took him to Beijing a couple of years ago and he liked what he saw. He says Chinese girls are shiny. But he has been so busy with his career that he does not have time to pursue a wife and family. If it is going to happen I will have to do it for him .
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Why rush him Gerry. I was more than 20 years older than him before I took the plunge. ::)
Willy
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Easy answer Willy. I want little grand kids to play with. I also want to see them grow up before I croak.
Honestly, do you think you could raise a brood at your age?
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No Gerry. I have never wanted to have the responsibilty of kids, definately not wanted grand kids. I decided long again that I wanted my line to die out with me. I did not want to be responsible for bringing anyone into the world as it now is. I still have rose tinted glasses as to how things were when I was a kid. Born during WW2, now that was real austerity. Could leave your homes unlocked, not until 1960's did you have to be sure to lock up. Could walk the streets of any city in the night without fear of being attacked or robbed,
One of the attractions to my wife was the fact that she was no longer capable of having more children. I now share with her her three adult children and that is as close I want to get with children.
Willy