China Romance
All About China => Share your love story => Topic started by: Arnold on June 12, 2009, 11:57:46 pm
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I like to start this Thread with my Wife's first ever letter through Chnlove EMF servive . After sending my Wife a letter ( not a Cubic Note ) this Reply took three day's to get back to me . Looking at it now , it does look pretty similar to a Translator's version of replying , but checking it over carefully , I could tell it was my Qing's writing and you should be able to see the difference also .
From: Cher Chu (Profile ID: GZB272874 )
To: arnold dusch
Date: Nov 27, 2007 GMT Mail ID: GZBBBAHAGJ
Hello Arnold ,
how are you today ?i am so sorry not to answer your letter ASAP .Because my phone has some problem and the translator who work for Chnlove couldn't get through .and i didn't open my email these days .
when i receive your letter and picture ,i feel very happy .you are very kind man i could find that from your eyes .:-)
i really like your profile too .so i wish that we could build a long and good relationship since now .
thanks for your kind words to me .i really like that andi think you are the man many women will like you easily and more ,right ?
yes ,i am from Shanghai and i manage two shops here .
i am very happy to know that you will come to Shanghai next year .it will be good for us to meet if we communicate each other well here .of course we could chat well here ,right ?
i like your age and your eyes .so let's begin our new and great talking here ,ok ?
:-)
take care
best wishes
sincerely
cher
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Very nice Arnold, you both make the brotherhood proud and it helps to reinforce to the newbies this thing is real.
China Shark Mike
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I like the part...
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Not to bad an idea Arnold. I post my first response from my lady and the picture she sent me too. The picture is pretty big difference to the real lady. But in my case it was a positive surprise!
Already from the beginning I got long nice letters, wich had a personnel touch! It was some kind of special feeling when I started to write with her!
From: Vicky Jin (Profile ID: P616121 )
To: Hajo Quint
Date: Apr 13, 2009 GMT Mail ID: P616JCJJBFC
Hello Hajo
I am very happy to get your nice letter . Hajo, you write me a really long letter. Hehe, and also you tell me a lot of thing about your life, your country and also you had a lot of questions for me. Hehe, Hajo, I know you do care me so much, I am happy to know this, also I am very happy to know you and communicate with you, so I will answer all your question graduatelly. Hehe. You are a nice person, happy to know you!
Hajo, I know your country from the fairy story. Hehe, a really beautiful country. I like that very much, also you ask me if I like the ocean, yes, of course I like that. Hehe. I do wish someday I could walk on the beach with my love, hehe. Will you be that man?
About travelling, I like travelling of course, hehe, and I like travelling all over the world, but of course I like the beautiful scene, hehe. But it is a pity that I didn't go abroad.
Hajo, yes, I had only one child. My son's name is Wu ruofan, he is 11 years old now. you can called him fanfan. Hehe. I think every parents will be proud of their kids, right? Hajo, I said that you give me a good impression, yes, I see you are sincere in your letters, I do wish we will have a very good relationship. Hehe.
For my job, I worked in a company, I designed clothes for them. For my major is clothes designing at school, I am happy that I can use what I learned from school for my work. I like my job very much. I worked five days a week and had two days rest on the weekends. Hehe. But actually I didn't design, I just as the customer's order to make clothes, sometimes search in the internet, hehe. So I wish you could know this.
I always lived in Urmuchi, hehe, Hajo, if you come here, of course I am pleased to be your guide. Hehe. I will show you my beautiful city. Hehe. that was nice! We speak Mandarin, also there is a nationality called Uyghur, they speak their language, Uyghur language.
Wow, I had write so much! Hehe, thank you for your beautiful flower Hajo. Hehe, I like writing to you, just like I am talking with an old good friend. Hehe. that is wonderful! Ok, now I will sign off, wish you have a nice week.
Best wishes and waiting for your reply.
Yours
Vicky
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My ladies first letter was all her. Gee I didn't get a photo though? :s
Dear Vince:
So nice to hear from you. You bring me a happy day. Yes, you are right, "a good beginning makes a good ending". this is the beginning of our fantastic journey, right? I'm so lucky and happy that you choose to have the chance of being your soulmate.
I want to start a honest and sincere relationship with someone that's really want to have a life-long parterner here. I'm sincere and honest about the future relationship.
Yes, I do tai chi and won many competitions. I'm very good at it. And it also gives me a peaceful mind, I think. But because my parents passed away, which gave me a tremendous shock, I was sad and gave tai chi up for a long time.
Now, everything is fine. I want to start a new life, and pick up my courage to do well and better. I have very positive attitude to life. So I start my business and want to find a man who really loves me and cares me. I want a life that I can walk hand in hand with my lover in the sunrise and sunset, and we can share with each other whenever we're happy or sorrow. What about you? would like to share something more about you? I believe you are an excellent man.:)
If you want to want to know more about me. Please not hesitate to ask, I will answer you honestly.
Hope my letter bring a big smile on your face
Best wishes
Sincerely,
Song
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Wonderful Guy's , doesn't that just start your Heart beat to raise ... seeing this first letter and see how far it has gone since . This is so special to all of us I'm sure .
Hope we will see many more from other's too . I find them all very special . Thanks for sharing .
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Well guys my wife just told me on Yahoo chat that Chnlove wishes to post our story to their website. I was posting her first letter here but I don't know how to upload the picture here. In the photos from China section it gives me a place to upload to but in the section I don't see the same spot. And the insert image icon gives me a line that I need to use a http// site. How do I use this?:huh:
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Rhonald, when you click "add reply" you will get the "add attachment" line further down, below the reply box. Use it for the picture.
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Here's mine:
Hi Neil
How are you today?That with all the millions and millions of people in the world,you and I should have met...
I am seeking my life partner like you here, so I am writing to you. And I think you are so special for me. Although I do not know whether we can fall in love without meeting each other in person, I am here and I think I need to try. I hope you also can give yourself such a chance. Do you think you can give a chance to such a sexy and lovely lady to know each other? I hope to obtain your affection and trust.
In my opinion, relationship must be based on honesty, trust, mutual respect. Communion and communication is the key of getting to the soul of each other. Furthermore, they must take good care of each other, to give as well as to receive. As an old saying goes, ?¡ãNo pains, no gains? The more you give, the more you will get back.
I hope there is a chance to lead me to your life.
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This is the first letter from my wife to be and we are getting married :icon_cheesygrin:
Hello , Peter
Thanks for your cupid note , I am so glad to read it . it is said that "the eyes are the window to the soul". Could you know something about me from my eyes , I like smiling , I always keep an optimistic attitude toward my life . I am here for more than half a year , but still did not meet my Mr.right , will you to be that person to join my life ?
I have read your profile carefully , you are a detective at the police ? wow , I am very interesting of you and your work , hehe !
I am looking for a man who I love and he also loves me , a very stable and secure relationship leading to a happy marriage , and then to be old hand in hand . can we cherish this chance to know each other better ? maybe we are suitable to each other .
As for me , I am a middle manager in a company , I am a simple and kind-hearted woman, optimistic and easy going, If i fall in love , I will fully devoted to him. However, i am very open-minded, positive. I love to take a happy conversation . I am romantic. I enjoy travel.and music . a good book and movie can make me happy.
If you want to know more about me, please drop a line to me . I am looking forward to your reply. I attach two photos of me and my daughter .
Sincerely,
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Dear Victor,
How are you today? I am glad to hear from you. Your letter brings a great day to me. when I read your profile and letter, I fell that you are a sincere man. i am sincerely talking to you. It is my honor to hear from you. I hope we can know more about each other. perhaps we are right for each other, perhaps we are not. but we need to know better each other before we find out the answer, right?
It is ok that you are not used to putting things down in writing. It is the same to me. thanks for telling me something about you and your children. I like the pictures you sent very much. your daughter Melissa is very gorgeous and your granddaughter Caitlin is lovely like her mom. I am sure she will be a beauty when she grows up. yes, I know your feelings when you held Melissa in your hands when she was young. The baby is so small. You are afraid of dropping or hurting her/him. When you hold Caitlin for the first time, do you still have the same feeling or fear?
Wayne is a handsome boy. I feel he is a sportive boy from his picture. Does he play football a lot? You have done a great job as father. What Wayne said to you has proved that. I think Wayne must be close to you. can you tell me more about your kids? They are great kids. I have a 19 years old daughter who is studying in the university in another city. We are close and we love each other.
You love fishing and you do a lot of fishing when you can. is there a river near your house? we do not have river near where we live but there is some beautiful beaches here. do you like beach? I love listening to music, especially classical and lyric music. Do you like music? What kind of music do you like? You are capable and versatile. You are good at building things with wood. What have you built with wood? Do you build anything in your house by your hands? Can you send me a picture of your creation? I would like to see a picture of it as I think you must do a great job on that.
I feel like I could go on and on forever writing to you. But I want to see more of your words about yourself. Getting to know each other will take some time and I am enjoying being in touch with you now. Please write me back and feel free to ask me any questions. if you have questions, I will answer them. I am also please to let you know me more.
I hope you have a great day. I look forward to your next letter.
Sincerely yours,
Fiona
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This is in reply to my cupid...
Dear Robert
Life is very wonderful, isn't it? You and I have such a long distance between us, but here, now, you found me on this magical website, thank you for your sweet cupid. I am so happy to get to know you today and I promise you will never regret reading my profile, because I believe we may be a good choice of life partners and a soul mates. I believe we have both came to this web because we want to find a kind of special person for our life long partners, so I hope we get the chance to discover everything about each other.
I know it might be hard for a person to find another with whom they have things in common, but I want to try to find out about you and let you know me so we can find the common. I have looked over your profile several times and I really like you so much. I had a warm feeling inside when I was reading about you and I believe in trusting my feelings, so now I am opening up to you.
If we can work out, I will use all my heart, mind, body and soul to love you. I will spend the rest of my life to give you a nice home. I will cook for you everyday and take care of your needs. I believe this is a woman's duty in marriage and it will make me so happy to do for and take very good care of my man. If you like me and the kind of life I am describing, please let's build some good and loving communication here on this web site. Let's build a strong, loving, honest and sincere relationship together, so we will have a nice future.
About me, you can find something about me through my profile, my Chinese name is Wang Ke Ren, Ke Ren means a lovely cute girl. But you can call me Kathy. Kathy is my English name and I hope you like it. And also you can ask me anything you want to know about me and my life. I will open my life to you and answer any question you ask of me. My life is so simple now. I hope I will have a sweet husband in my life soon, maybe he is you.
If you think we can build a loving marriage together, and then let's get to know each other really well and find if we can be husband and wife.
If we fall in love and begin to build a life together, I hope you can come to my home town and visit me. Please do not feel like I am trying to pressure you about coming here. I hope you can come when you feel like the time is right.
If you do visit me, I will take you around my beautiful city. I think you will love it here, because it's a nice coastal city called Qingdao. It is pronounced more like Chingdou. Qingdao sits on the southern part of the Shandong peninsula and is surrounded by the Yellow Sea on three sides. Her climate is good and there are so many wonderful things to see and do here. I will show you what my life is like. Beautiful Qingdao has a beautiful me; we are both waiting here for you. (Smile)
I will send you some pictures of me and I will send you some pictures of Qingdao in the future if you like..
I hope you always take care of yourself and I hope you are happy and well.
Sincerely yours,
Kathy
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Receiving this letter was one of the most exciting mails of my entire life. I have lived most of my life as a cynical bastard, but even now I find it hard to read this letter without my eyes filling with tears. It is funny how it "is" similar to all the other emails my brothers have posted, but having spent a lot of time talking to her over the past while, I know how she talks and I can hear her voice through this letter.
Date: Oct 13, 2008 GMT
Dear Danny
Ni hao ma? = how are you ? I feel nice to know you here . I am sorry I delay replying you , yesterday was weekend , The Chnlove had a day off work . so I could not come to the agence to answer you in time . thanks your letter very much .today I feel so honor and happy to know so talent man like you , I feel happy to read your letter , thanks you told so much information about yourself , I feel more input about yourself . I wish our relationship we start here could really blossom into something special and beautiful some day .
I work as children doctor in the famous hospital in zhuhai city , zhuhai is a beautiful coastl southern city in China .
I am also seriously looking for a man that I can spend the rest of my life with. I am looking for a man who is kind, considerate, and understanding. Someone who will be faithful to me and who enjoys the simpler things in life. someone who willing to share life's ups and downs with me .
I have a younger brother and a younger sister . they all dealing with their company in GuangZhou city . My parents worked as civil servant for HuNan government , my father pass away for several years . my mother now retire and live with me . my son is a naughty child at home sometimes but he is good at his classes . when I go to work , my mother take care of him . I feel so nice to know your daughter .Is Emma a naughty girl at home sometimes ?
Danny , thanks you told so much about your family , your wife and your daughter . and I feel sad to hear about your ex-wife, I hope I am the special wife run to your heart some day after we have a better understanding .
so here may I ask your a question , what 's your plan for your future family ? do you think what will your family think of me when you find a Chinese woman ?
happy day ,
I hope to hear from you soon
Lily
I think one of the good things I have just learned from all the letters here, are that they are not very long. I sometimes used to think my darling woman wrote short letters because she didn't care less about me. But I think that maybe the length of letters she sends is quite normal.
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They are Gems to each of us. How'd we get so lucky?
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I'm meeting her on July 3rd...could be the start of a wonderful life together.
Scott , less than three weeks away . Counting the day's then the hour's .. excited , nervous , pressure's from the " IF's " , what to pack ,
the Gift's to take and on and on . Been through it ... love it !!! Oh yeah , looking at the Calendar every 10 min.
Hope Ida is in Person what she is in your Mind . Most of them are even more than that .
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Well , let's continue a little farther down the Journey and look at the fifth letter from my Wife . It marks the beginning of our Love to come together , about 10 day's after the first . When I said , move slowly , I ment to go visit , not to fall in Love .
From: Cher Chu (Profile ID: GZB272874 )
To: arnold dusch
Date: Dec 6, 2007 GMT Mail ID: GZBDBAJEAG
Dear Arnold ,
Wow , 11 roses . thanks very much ! I feel very happy to receive that .also my mother is very happy to get that flower .she said that she would love to cook the most delicious chinese dishes to you when you come to Shanghai .
i think my father envy you .i guess he will buy flowers to my mother next time .haha ¡you are a good teacher !:-)
I heard that 11 means that one dedicated heart to another in his life and one will treat another well in all his life .
I believe that it¡¯s destiny sign something for you .it also signs that you will meet that right woman from this journey .i am very joyness to hear that .there is a strong intuition tell me that we will come true our wishes when you come here .:-)
It¡¯s really a perfect sign !
Wow ,it¡¯s so coincident that your wife and i love the same flower---Lily .It shakes me a lot ,Arnold .i really wish that I could as good as your wife .
I am very happy that you could have the neighbors like brothers .it¡¯s a good enviroment .and I like it very much .:-)
Arnold ,I go to bed later than you at 22:30 .many people in Shanghai sleep late every night ..
You really treat your wife very well .and your future wife will be very happy .:-)
I think Tian will be the gentleman with the help of your teaching .:-)
So I think many girls will be around him and love him !
Tian will be happy to receive the father like you !:-)
Arnold ,I would love to be the good wife and please tell me how to arrive that .i think I should learn many things from you .
I really love your handwriting and the blue shirt very much .¡±ÎÒ°®Äã¡°I think that I am a happy woman to begin to devote the love journey now .
I have attached two photos from my phone .i took them in my aquarium .they are very colorful and beatuiful ,right ?
See you soon ,my Arnold .
Love
***Cher***
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Nice letter Arnold. I have been debating on posting my first letter here, but from the knowledge I have gathered here, I figure the first response to my cupid note (sorry guys is was not a emf for my 1st contact) was just a basic response. But taking your new direction to this thread Arnold, I think I will search the 140 or so letters from her and post my favorite one. Yes - I truly enjoy reading the beginings of others journeys, and I should thank you guys for your vicarious gifts by eventually posting my own. But also, to be honest, I enjoy the pictures the most. Beauty might be in the eye of the beholder - but I like to behold another gem :blush:
But I will at least share my profile I had posted to Chnlove:
Personal Description
Who am I looking for?
A girl who isn't afraid of getting her jeans dirty while camping, a girl who can have fun floating down the river knowing she'll get splashed. A lady that likes to dress up in a beautiful gown, or a tomboy that likes to wrestle on the ground. Especially a girl who laughs at my silly puns. She likes to share adventures together, maybe at a campfire trading stories, or a mountain top being awed. A woman when falling down and being bruised, jumps back up and carries on. But still allows me the chance to kiss it better. She believes in family but still needs her own time to be alone.
Beauty might be in the eye of the beholder - but I like to behold another gem :blush:
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Two weeks down the line.
Dearest Vic,
Thank you for your beautiful letter. It is most definitely wonderful to communicate with each other, and although we are thousands of miles apart I feel so very close to you. When I read your letter, it is like we are in the same room, and you are whispering your words to me.
I am glad that we have found each other at this points of our life. our appearance means something to each other. it is not easy to find someone who seems to understand us. I am also happy that we seem to have the same way of thinking and we can understand each other. when I am thinking of you, my heart beats fast. I am glad that you also feel something not right when you can not receive my letter on Sunday.
I love the sweet words your write me. Vic, do you write these wonderful words about the rose? I think it will be delighted to spend time with you as I do not know when you will surprise me again with these loving poems. Vic, do you write anything in your spare time?
Yes, life is not always full of passionate. The marriage or a relationship must be a care or fed every day like a rose, we must have completely take care, give water, to protect of the sun, to protect of the wind and never drop in the routine. The routine of day by day, it destroys a relationship, than we need to be attentive not to drop in a routine a relationship. we need to be creative in marriage or relationship. what do you think?
I take a stroll on the beach yesterday. it is a little cooler here now. when I looked at the sea, I was thinking of you. what would be if we hold hands walking on the beach? I miss you more and more. How is your work now? my work is not busy today. I sneak out to buy some ice cream. Do you love ice cream? What flavor do you like?
i miss you! I hope you have a great day, take care and be safe. How are your kids? I hope they are fine.
with love
Yunhua
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Very nice Mike , what a lovely and heartwarming letter . I bet you have read this over and over , like I do most of them from Qing .
What a happy moment it will be ... face to face for the first time . After all that waiting , I'm sure there will be no Shyness from either of you .
These Letter's , will help the Newbee's ... tell the difference between the Lady's and the Translator's writing . The ones that can't , I can't help with that , I just know / knew .
Victor , a great beginning and I see you write Poem's too . If you like to share your Poem , we can start a new Thread all about Poem's written . Yunhua loved your Poem , most Women do . There are from deep inside you and more Romantic , then Flower's and Candy .
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Lol i have my moments arnold,i sent yun a few she really started to open up to me after that it was really nice as you can see from her letter just telling me she sneeked out to get some ice cream was really nice knowing she was feeling more her self with me shame i hade to let it all go after looseing my job still with a bit of luck she found someone becase i see she removed her profile well lets hope so.
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How sad , so close to the True Love and yet so far . Sorry to hear about your Job loss , hope it will not be too long before your back working . Remember , just because her Profile is gone , you still have her under your Favorite's .. Right ? Or are you not a member of Chnlove anymore ? How know's , you might give her a " call " ( EMF ) some day and she might still be open , or just to say HI and see how's she's doing .
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Yes Arnold im still a member and i have her saved to fav,s.
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My first reply I received to my very first introduction letter (in those days you could write a 22000 character letter) on the site to my very first lady was , "Thank you for sharing so much information with me. I do not speak English. Have a nice weekend, Take care, XXX. He He. I never wrote to her again:huh:
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My first reply I received to my very first introduction letter (in those days you could write a 22000 character letter) on the site to my very first lady was , "Thank you for sharing so much information with me. I do not speak English. Have a nice weekend, Take care, XXX. He He. I never wrote to her again:huh:
Wow .. I guess that left everybody speachless . Ernest , I know how you felt after that one , believe me . The first Woman that I wrote to , was just like that . Very little coming back , after you spend two hour's writing about .. just everything that came to mind . But as it turned out , this is one of my two Sister's now . A wonderful Lady from Baoding ( Min ) .She's still looking .
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I know this is now in the past considering Ping(Elver) and I have broken up, but I'd still like to share her admiration letter and picture with everyone. Here they are;
dear Joshua:
NICE TO SEE YUO ! ^_^
i hope my letter today find you well ,also i hope my letter is the begining of our relationship
because i am very interested in you after i read your profile
i am a girl who love travelling very much . i have always been looking forward to travel to canada . i like learn different new places and ,people . if i get everything ready here ,possibly i will go to canada for travelling .
Just for one reason, I am interested in you so much ! i will never forget today ,that is i meet you here . You make me feel so happy . If I hadn't met you. I know I'd still be searching... searching for you!
i read your profile for many times , I want to say, " I wanna establish our relationship here . i am drawn to you deeply !!!
could you give me a chance to learn you more ?????? i hope so !
as for me , i was born on Aug 20th,1986. i am an easy going , lovable ,and generous
girl . as for my hobbies , such as : swimming , playing basketball , listening to music ,and watching movies .
could you tell me about your thoughts about me ?? i hope this letter will touch your heart .
thanks for reading my letter ! hope i can receive from you !
May you happy every day
sicerely
Elver
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This was a letter I got from Kathy 2 weeks after my initial contact.
My qin ai de Rob
There is another wonderful letter came from you, my sweetheart, When I read your letters, I am utterly captivated and lost in your love. As a new day dawns, the sun kisses the mountains. Every nanosecond of every new day, I am drawn intimately into you. I read your letters with my heart and I am so moved by every singal word. I am filled with such joy and delight.
Wo Xiang he ni zai yi qi, Yin wei, Wo ai ni ( I want to be with you because I love you) ! : )
Sweetheart, the city I am living is called Qingdao, It is a coastal city in China, with pleasant climate, a lot of people said Qingdao is the sister of San francisco, it wold be foggy sometimes, but very clean ! The people here is very nice, why did you think of the word of ¡° Violence ¡° ? : ) This city was appraised as the top ten best city for living , here is a famous mountian called Lao mountain, and a wonderful yellow ocean, I look forward to show everything in real for you, my sweetheart, you must will enjoy your time here !
I have a lot of hobbies, sweetheart, I'm surprised of you know Kareokies, hehe, have you gone there before ? Can you sing well sweetheart, will you sing for me ? I can sing a good song, I don't think my voice is beautiful but I can sing a good song ! : ) I should begin to learn some English songs for you, sweetheart, wait for the day we will be with each other, your kathy is a good singer and dancer!
I have opened your profile and see your picture again, you have a big nose sweetheart ! : ) I really love your handsome face, and can't wait to kiss your soft lips, I believe if we meet each other in real, we will found we are more beautiful and handsome than the photoes ! : ) At the first sight I saw you in the picture, sweetheart, I have been stuck by you, I could not forget the way you looked, rob, you seemed like the one appeared in my dream before, were you ? : )
You are right honey, we are a perfect match, I do think we will have more in common, that that needs us to take time to find , just because of everyday I would find more in you, rob, my love for you is stronger each day, that is amazing, and beyong my expectation in the beginning when I was on this site !
I live with my sister, after divorced, the house was sold , and the money was divide into two part, my ex took on part, and I took anther part , a single woman with a child is not easy to live a life, my sister have a company, and she has a large house, that she can offer me a room with live with peter, that will help me save rent for every month ! My parents live in their own house !
I'm a good cook in beef, because peter likes to eat It, so I have learned many recipes about cooking beef, sweetheart, I am so excited to know you love beef, I love all kinds of meat , hehe, I love sausage a lot, honey, what's your breakfast like each day, do you cook by yourself ? Rob, you can leave this job to me in our home, you need to prepare to lose weight when we will be together ! : )
My friends came to me yesterday, we had a lot of laugh and talks, I showed your pictures to them, they all said you are handsome , I told them your height, they just have the same thoughts with me , sweetheart, love don't needs to packing in appearances ! Only if two hearts is connected, nothing is more important than this ! I just love you so so much robert ! My friends' name are hong xia and xiao ling, they are the friends I know for more than five years, we always get together and have dinner and talks, they are like my sisters !
How will you spend this weekend ? I will back here on Monday to check your letters, rob, have a nice weekend and keep your kathy in your mind ! I will always keep you in my heart and mind !
With all of my sweet hot kissess
Yours kathy
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Realy nice rob.
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Boy , after only two weeks ? Looks like we both moved fast , but tell everyone here to move SLOW . :icon_cheesygrin:
Wow ... big Nose and need to loose some weight . How did that go over after only two weeks ?
Very nice and warmhearted letter , now if I wasn't Married .... wait a minute .... I guess Kathy is taken , right ?:angel:
There are sure some wonderful Lady's over there , for our picking .
PS: Glad your Computer is working again , it's not the same without you .:s
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Thanks for the comment guy's Yes I must say I do feel very VERY lucky to have found Kathy on this site. After I got a reply from my cupid to her I never responded for 3 weeks, so now I feel really blessed about us being in contact and in love with each other.:icon_biggrin:
Mike she always tells me about Qingdao even if I don't ask, I did mention about some cities being violent, and she explained that it was very rare there.
arnold, arnold, arnold :huh: what did I say about 'big nose' well mate as you can probably imagine I was like WTF??? I made a joke about it on my reply to her, and she explained that us Westerners have this feature in the eyes of a Chinese lady, about 'losing weight', I wasn't quite sure what to make about that comment hehe Its not as though I'm a little plump thing I only weigh 8 stone wet through:huh: Yes mate there are so many to choose from....:icon_biggrin:
Oh and it's great to be back ......
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I posted this one somewhere else, probably not the appropriate place but to make sure it goes in the right place this time, here's the admire letter from my wife. Any wonder why I chose her?
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Hello, dear Ed
First, I want to say hello and send my smile to you. It's nice to read your profile and got to know you. I am very interested in you. I want to know you better, so here is my mail.
I am from China and looking for my Mr. Right here, not sure if you have met your dream girl or not. But if no, I hope we can get a chance to communicate and know more about each other, I believe in destiny and I think maybe my special one is here waiting for me, and who knows who he is, so let's keep in touch and see what happens in the future, maybe the man is you!
I have two children. They all live with their father after I get divorced. I am single now. I like music and movies very much. When I am free, I like traveling, doing some housework and shopping. I also like to share my time with my friends. What do you like to do when you are free?
I am easy going. I am very honest and loyal. I am looking for the right man in my life. I want to share my life with him. I am a romantic woman. I would like to share the most romantic moment in my life with the man I love. Are you the right man?
After I divorced, I am being single. I feel lonely especially when I'm free, so after so many years, I really want to find a friend, a lover and a soul mate. I do hope that he can take care of me, protect me and love me, and I would like to do the same for him, we can share the happiness and sadness in our lives together. Maybe you are the lucky man!
I am really very interested in what you have written. I think we share some same interests. I am serious. I am looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage. I am not playing games here. I don't want to waste time too. I would like to be your friend first. What about you?
I just want to find the man I love, and get together with him. No matter where he is, no matter whether he is rich. I believe there's someone waiting for me, I'm a romantic woman, but I don't breach realism. I think people should have the nice desire of their own.
I attach a photo in this letter. Do you like it? I am very sincere, and if you want to know me, please write to me.
Look forward to your reply. Thanks.
Sincerely, Anne
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Ed thats a great letter, the words practically leap of the page saying genuine lady to me. I'm not surprised you didn't let her get away!
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Ed now you inspired me to put the first reply. I posted the first EMF and after realized I didn't have the first reply in my computer? So....
From: Song
Dear Vince:?Thanks for your lovely cupid message. I'm so happy. You give me a feeling of flying, like a butterfly. Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.?
Butterfly signifies eternal love in China. I want to fly with my lover in our own beautiful world, take good care of each other, concern with each other, and love each other in our true heart.
I long for a happy family with my beloved. I long for a man who can hear my piano and my song, I long for a time that is walking with my lover hand in hand.?I'm an elegant Chinese lady with good taste. I'm quiet but not bored. My enthusiam to life is the gift I want to send to my lover. Positive attitude towards troubles is what I cherish most.
Latin Dance gives me a gracious heart and tai chi makes me a peaceful mind. You can discover the typical Chinese charms in me. I'm understanding and want to bring you a wonderful life!?
Vince, now all I want is one chance, to try to win your heart. Will we have a chance to start? I will show you it was meant to be preexistent, to be together is our destiny.?
Best wishes to you.
Sincerely. Song
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Very beautiful letter Vince , but I see no Translator here ? Did he/her have the day off ?
I see some of us here are luckier than other , with the wide range of the most lovely to the most outrageous ones . This will certainly help to choose , between the good and the bad ones ( Lady's that is ) .
Thank you for sharing ... everybody .
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Just thought i would show you a letter a few months down the road.
My loving Vic,
I miss you very much. my love for you is growing more and more every passing day. you have completely captured me. dear, I love you!! I wish I can hear your voice every day too. I also wish when I open the door, I can sit you there waiting for me and giving me a deep kiss and warm hug. I can not wait to hug you tight, to feel your heart beat, to smell you.
I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I assure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side. You are what I am looking for and I have found you right now. God blesses us!! I love you, Vic. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him. dear, you are my fountain of happiness. What I want to do now is to build a happy family with you, to be your caring and loving wife. I know you will take good care of me after we are married, as I will do the same for you.
In winter, we sit near the fireplace and cuddle with one blanket and look out of the window to enjoy the beautiful snow outside. the snow flakes. I have you warm me. in autumn we go out to have fun, the trees are changing their color, the leaves fall down, in summer, we go to the beach, walking on the beach to feel the soft sand, splash ocean water, watch sunrise and sunset. In spring, we plant some flowers in our garden. dear, we will have fun in every season.
Dear, it is getting cold again. how is the weather there? my work is ok. how is your work today? do you have a busy day? dear, I love you. I miss you very much. I want you to be a part of my life in my future. . I need you on the rest of my life. I appreciate that you are being a part of my life. you have helped make me the person I am today!
Dear, I have to go now. it is time for my work. I love you, May the full moon send my love and miss to you.
With love
Yunhua
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It was actually an Admire letter
Dear Jim
I am libo
Reading your words I do have so good feeling to you, right now while I am writing this letter to you, I am in the hope of knowing more about you and develop further relationship with you. I hope my simple words will arose your interests, and I also hope you would like to open your heart to your admirer.
I am a very simple lady, I divorced and I didn't work in top job, but the more I know more life, the more I eager to a simple life. In such commercial society, I don't think big house and expensive houses is happiness, our happiness is our choice, I think. How do you think about life and which kind of life are you pursuing? If you also just want to find someone who is kind, thoughtful and honest to enjoy the happy and simple life, then please consider me since I do think that I will be a great wife.
To be frank my dear, right now while I am writing this letter to you, I am trying to think some graceful words to make you interest in me just like I interested in you, but I know if you can feel my sincere heart, you will make good choice.
I await for you my dear
Yours truly
Libo
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And that last little paragraph she wrote was her hook that caught me. I wrote her back the same day and things are great again. She always answers questions sometimes I have to ask more than once but thats ok. She appreciates everything, She loves children and askes about mine in every letter. She is not very good about sending pictures only 3 so far. I suggested maybe that I would move to china and we could live there. Her reply was so long as we are together she will go wherever I am. I thought I had lost her at one point but turned out my own impatient s got the best of me. For you that know what Im talkin about I posted on the reg forums about it you should see it in a day or 2. But anyway my brothers I have been hooked and happy about it
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I like the letters like that "Clearlake Jim". It's choppy but honest and upfront. Gotta love it.
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I posted this one somewhere else, probably not the appropriate place but to make sure it goes in the right place this time, here's the admire letter from my wife. Any wonder why I chose her?
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Hello, dear Ed
First, I want to say hello and send my smile to you. It's nice to read your profile and got to know you. I am very interested in you. I want to know you better, so here is my mail.
I am from China and looking for my Mr. Right here, not sure if you have met your dream girl or not. But if no, I hope we can get a chance to communicate and know more about each other, I believe in destiny and I think maybe my special one is here waiting for me, and who knows who he is, so let's keep in touch and see what happens in the future, maybe the man is you!
I have two children. They all live with their father after I get divorced. I am single now. I like music and movies very much. When I am free, I like traveling, doing some housework and shopping. I also like to share my time with my friends. What do you like to do when you are free?
I am easy going. I am very honest and loyal. I am looking for the right man in my life. I want to share my life with him. I am a romantic woman. I would like to share the most romantic moment in my life with the man I love. Are you the right man?
After I divorced, I am being single. I feel lonely especially when I'm free, so after so many years, I really want to find a friend, a lover and a soul mate. I do hope that he can take care of me, protect me and love me, and I would like to do the same for him, we can share the happiness and sadness in our lives together. Maybe you are the lucky man!
I am really very interested in what you have written. I think we share some same interests. I am serious. I am looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage. I am not playing games here. I don't want to waste time too. I would like to be your friend first. What about you?
I just want to find the man I love, and get together with him. No matter where he is, no matter whether he is rich. I believe there's someone waiting for me, I'm a romantic woman, but I don't breach realism. I think people should have the nice desire of their own.
I attach a photo in this letter. Do you like it? I am very sincere, and if you want to know me, please write to me.
Look forward to your reply. Thanks.
Sincerely, Anne
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Way to go Ed! You couldn't have asked for anything better than that!
If I get something back like that I will be hopeful.
We shall see.
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First reply, in response to my emf wishing her a happy birthday. It's nice, short & to the point :P
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Hi dear Alastair
Ni hao , thanks for your birthday regards , I really feel so happy to hear from you , especially on my special , if possible , I would like to invite to have dinner with me together for my birthday .
Hey … could you like to tell me more about yourself ?? I hope we have the chance to know each other much better in the following steps .
Happy day as me and hope to hear from you soon ,
Sincerely ,
Helen
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Nice Ahkiwi , would of loved some of those home cooked Dumpling's :P ala Helen and Family .
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I'm glad I did decide to drop her an emf, she is extremely funny and had me laughing out loud with some of the things she's written :icon_cheesygrin:
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Danny apart from your opening paragraph mate...You already posted this letter....lol
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Danny apart from your opening paragraph mate...You already posted this letter....lol
I am an idiot. I will delete it then.
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I like to see this Topic get some new Life . We do have Member's that have started their Journey with some success and we like ( if willing ) to also see their Stating Out Letter from their Lady too . Pictures are also welcomed any time .
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don't have an opening letter from my girl, she im'd me on qq to tell me to get over the other...
told me in English, "she not worth, you no worry"
the rest is history.
Sorry Arnold, I'm not sharing any pictures of her just yet...
-Lloyd
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Well here i am in Handan with my wonderful wife, I have just translated her first letter to me and she confirms that they are her words to me and not from the translator trying to get emf credits for the agency.........................
Hello dear John
I am so happy to read your letter now. You know, this morning I came to the agency with a good mood as for the great sunshine. Your profile really make my day and now your letter again make my heart filled with joy. I hope the happiness can accompany me forever. I came here also seriously to find lover and share my rest life with my lover together. From your words, I can feel your sincerity to find love just like me, dear John, I am really happy that we can will start a loving and lasting relationship.
Thanks for telling me more about your family and your work. It's nice that you enjoy your job. Here is more about my family.
My father is 59years old, my mother is 58years old, they all healthy now, I have a brother, he is get married and live a happy life now. my family love me very much, sometimes I like stay with them, but they all have their things to do, so I feel alone and want to find a man accompany with me forever. I have 2sons, 11years old and 9years old, now they live with their father, I divorce in the early year of 2009.
Dear John, this is your first letter to me and I hope it's a good start for us. I hope we can talk freely, so we can always feel comfortable to share our thoughts together, right?I love traveling, swimming, walking and listening music. All my friends said I am easy-going, so I like having fun from life as well. What do you do love to do in your spare time? Now I don't have an email address and my English is also limited, but I'd like to have your email address and hope to write to you directly someday.
hope to hear from you soon,
take care,
MinYing
We have written almost every day since the 23/04/2010 with either emf,s texts or QQ and even weekly phone calls, MinYing and John.
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good on ya!
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Thanks John , I (other's I'm sure too) enjoy with a smile as other's have or are on their way to and find with some luck the Woman of their dreams .
That Number 1 letter is and will always be the most important of them all . If it works out of course that is .
Like in my case to my Wife , I send a long letter instead of a Free Cupid Note . It is just more personal that way ... did it ever Work ! Who knows what would have happened if I send only the Freebee ? I'll never know and I don't want to know ;)