.... because we are all Nosy here .
Like the new photo Mike - Are you sure she is just teasing you?And here I thought that I was the only one whose woman told him he had a big nose. ??? Naaa... You don't need to know the rest. ;)
nope ..... my wife always calls me da bizi (big nose) .... but I know she is just having some fun and is teasing me.
:P
I had the same problem...was quite concerned what to do to charm the old Coot !!!
Half a bottle of Johnny Walker after we met seemed to do solve all the problems...we both got plastered together (much to the disgust of all the ladies)...hey ho !! whatever works...works ;D ;D ;D
I am sure he was just as concerned as me, but in the end he just knew that I only wanted to make his daughter happy and that I was a genuine Man, not a Western sleaze.
I am sure you will find the same....dont worry
David
Why does it hurt so much, Why do we choose to love and marry a lady from a non English speaking country?, Are we all mad?, Why do we put ourselves through the pain?
I'm half the man David is.
Why do we choose to love a woman from so far away and to want to adjust to their way of life????
"why did i not find myself some one here in Australia?,
What else can we do on this qq site????
My kids love the idea of someone from a different world to come in to our family
is gathering all the information needed for me to bring back here to lodge the visa, It is a long hard road to follow but we are both committed.
Hey guys and girls, Only 13 more sleeps now until i am back in China with my Qin ai de, I sound like a child waiting for Christmas, haha, She too is beside herself with excitement and is gathering all the information needed for me to bring back here to lodge the visa, It is a long hard road to follow but we are both committed.This guy is suffering from a heavy dose of endorphins. That’s fun to see someone else acting the same as you. I almost get high reading your posts. Endorphins are stronger and sweeter than any other drug and you don’t get arrested for abuse. Ha ha. Have a good time , Gerry
It seems the days are getting longer and i can not wait to cross each day off on the calender as they pass, I can just imagine her smiles when we meet each-other at Beijing airport on the 21st of May and i am waiting for that first hug and kiss, She is warming up to the way a western man shows his affection and tells me that she is not so shy any more but i will still try to control myself when i put my arms around her.
It is now 9.24pm and i am waiting for her to finish work and give me the nightly message to say she is safe, I sent her a message on QQ tonight and she was happy that her phone is now working properly to send me back a message, As i was very happy too,,,
...........Never before have i enjoyed shopping for clothes with a lady but i do with my MinYing, She is a gorgeous and,,,Sexy,,(hope i can say that), woman, and has a great fashion sense, She is also very cautious with money too which i like,,(not like my ex), I do not mind spending (our) money on her, She has never asked for anything from me but just my love which i give freely, How can i not love her???.
She is the most adorable, caring, loveable woman i have ever met,,I will spoil her when ever i can and all i ask is for her love in return, She often writes(Will you love me forever?) What can i say to that??? ,
I checked my phone bill when it came through on Friday and i sent 238 text messages and called her 10 times over the last month,,obsessive??? I don't think so, I am lucky to have a company phone and have free international calls and texts too.
Here i am tonight with a smile on my face and the love of a beautiful woman in my heart,,,,,,So much Chinese food to enjoy,,Three weeks of it,,,Who is jealous???? haha,, Good night guys and girls,,,,MinYing and John.
PS: you’re gone now. Anyone that has crossed over and actually enjoys shopping for women’s clothes is too far gone to save.
But i drew the line at the testicals,,,,, Bye guys.
Next time ask for Rocky Mountain Oysters.
I am looking at going back to china in september, I hope. I miss my lady very much.
Dave C
Tonight i am the happiest man alive, MinYing and myself went on QQinternational and saw each-other on web cam for the first time ;D , Even though it took many attempts and a few changes of e,mail addresses we was successful, It was so good to see the happiness in her face again , The family computer has no microphone so it was just typing in Chinglish, Can anyone tell me if there is any translation on QQ?, if so then how do i make it work?, If not that is ok as it is good for her to practice her English and me to improve my pin yin, cheers guys and girls,,MinYing and John.
at the bottom of page while typing to people, there is a translate button...I think thats the ojne to use..and congrats...hehe She can do same with messages to you john.
One step closer to our happiness,
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Can you tell me how I can record and keep the QQ conversations.
One child laws ,??? my wife has a brother,, he has three children,,,, my wife has two children..
You have to put it all behind you John.wise words
........I would never hurt her and by doing something in anger then both she and I would lose what we have found together.
On a lighter note, MinYing and myself have an interview in Shanghai on the 13th of September, (no its not a Friday), Have any of you ever sat in on an interview with your wife's or girlfriends before?, The reason that i ask is because i want to know if i will be asked any questions about my wife or her family, Of course i know all the info on my wife and her past but should i learn more about the birth-dates of the family and any relevant history ?,
It is only lately that she has opened up to me about her past with the abuse , What else do i need to know ?, Any input is always greatly appreciated from all of you here, John.
Good luck and bst wishes John.......
Aussie, Aussie, Aussie...Oi, Oi, Oi ... ;D ;D ;D
I just got home from hospital after a serious injury to my hand...masses of damage, tendons severed and nerves cut....hours and hours of micro-surgery.
How I could have coped without Ming here to look after me, I dont know !!!
Chinese women are just the best.......we who have discovered this fact are very lucky Men indeed
Cheers
David
We woke late the following day as for the late night previous, ;) ;) .
I felt need to sleep again, About 4 hours later i woke and went down to the family room and was again welcomed by the whole family,
Two words... Flash Cards.Thats what I used when I first came to China. I had a friend here write me list of where I may want to travel to or what I may want to buy etc on small cards and I kept them in my pack to show to taxi drivers and others. Made travelling easy in those early days. I could even talk to women with them. 8)
Dear John ...
Dear John ...
DJAMES YOU DID NOT JUST SEND A 'DEAR JOHN' TO JOHN DID YOU? :o :o :o ;D ;D ;D
Sorry to hear of MinYing broken wrist. I hope the hospital she went to is better than the one my father in law attended when he fell in the shower earlier this year.
No plaster cast provided there, just four pieces of bamboo tied round with bandage. And another piece of bandage round his neck as a sling.
Willy
Sorry to hear of MinYing broken wrist. I hope the hospital she went to is better than the one my father in law attended when he fell in the shower earlier this year.
No plaster cast provided there, just four pieces of bamboo tied round with bandage. And another piece of bandage round his neck as a sling.
Willy
Please tell me you're just kidding Willy? Was this a rural area?
And another piece of bandage round his neck as a sling.
Willy
And another piece of bandage round his neck as a sling.
Willy
Sorry buddy couldn't resist... You did mean 'SLING' ;D ;D ;D
I had to pay the hotel compensation for the broken bowl 2000rmb :-\, Anyway, My fault so I paid the price.Thats the sort of breaking up we welcome to hear about.
I really can not imagine life without her now , just the smile she gives me and the way she looks at me is enough to keep me happy all day long, If this is what true love is then , Yeah guys, I'm gone, Totally head over heals, John.
Congrats on making progress !!! :D
She has been APPROVED !!!!! :)
, I wonder if it can get any better, John.
You little bloody ripper, :o :o :o What the heck does that mean???
update very soon
and a big welcome to Minying to the best country in the world
Well guys and girls, Nearly 1 week together and it has been great, MinYing loves Perth, She is still stunned at the big open spaces, Many parks and the beaches and the Swan river, She is like a child with some of the expressions on her face when I take her different places, Walking barefoot with Sand between her toes and feeling the ocean on her feet is sooo different for her.
We have travelled to Northbridge many times and she has already chosen her favourite groceries shops and feels good to be able to communicate with the Chinese shop keepers, Yes, She scrutinizes every product many times before making the decision to buy :P Something I will have to get used too :-\ .
I am not used to coming home and having someone greet me at the door with a big smile on their face but I am getting used to this very quickly ;D The home is spotless always , Nothing out of place and the wonderful smell of Chinese groceries when I open the cupboards or the fridge.
We got a temporary medicare card the morning she arrived and I showed her around the Morley Galleria shopping centre and again she was amazed at the cleanliness of the complex, She is also very surprised to see so many different cultures here.
Dumplings were on the menu last night and only about 250 were made :P :P :P Yes they were all consumed, My eldest daughter and her boyfriend consumed 2 big plates full and then my daughter claimed the rest to take to work for lunch the next morning.
Sunday we went to Hillarys boat harbour for breakfast where she put away 2 big plates compared to my 1 :P Next was to meet the family, MinYing was very nervous but was greeted warmly by the whole family, Not too often there is such a big gathering at the family home I was surprised to see so many there, The nieces were very happy to meet her and are excited to have a Chinese auntie, Mum gave her a big welcome and MinYing is overwhelmed with the kisses and cuddles she received from all the family members, She is not used to such affection.
When we laft Handan, There were tears from mother,auntie and sister in-law but no cuddles or touching in anyway, MinYing tells me it is not their way to show affection towards each-other :'(
She looks beautiful as always and is still like an octopus when she sleeps with arms and legs all over me ;) .
Well must close now as I have been told I spend too much time in front of the computer, By the way, She starts her new job Thursday, She cant sit at home as she wants to interact and improve her English, MinYing and John.
http://chineseinca.blogspot.com/2010/10/california-drivers-handbook-in-chinese.html (http://chineseinca.blogspot.com/2010/10/california-drivers-handbook-in-chinese.html) :)
For once I have to agree with Willy. ::)
so sick of this one-sided relationship, i cant have friends, my wife is to jealous, time to give-up, ive had enoughWhen you say I can't have friends John,is this women friends or men and women? Sammy is jealous too.She have this crazy idea a young woman will come and take me away from her.She said that in China some men leave their wife for a young woman.I tell her I will not do this too.It took me a long time to brake this thinking from her.It isn't one hundred % broken.But it much better now than when before.
John thanks for the compliment on my wife. Appreciate that. She is the one who doent want pictures posted all over the net. So I will abide by that. That's all
What a good answer that was. Congratulations. ::)
Willy
so sick of this one-sided relationship, i cant have friends, my wife is to jealous, time to give-up, ive had enough
A SOLUTION: A Chinese/American WOMAN counselor. Maybe then the issues on both sides will come to light?Why American. John is in Australia?
I cannot agree with those who say 'teach her a lesson' and 'you made her a favor to bring her out of China, you can easily find another one if you want to'.
Neither of these help fixing the problem and improving the relationship, on the contrary.
Unless you see your wife as equal, with both benefiting from the relationship, the above approach will just ruin the relationship sooner or later.
DavidE, all knowledge good but conflicted depending on who is selling what. I present you with a truism. The 'less needy' spouse is the stronger of the two.
so long between posting, this site and my wife have changed so mch, im asking for HELP,