China Romance
All About China => Chinese Culture And Festivals => Topic started by: Neil on January 01, 2010, 11:00:39 pm
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On my first trip I met a man and his girlfriend at KTV. He could speak English and was very rich and powerful. He had a beautiful girlfriend and he was very proud of her, but was also sure to point out that this was not his wife, it was indeed his girlfriend.
On my next trip, She was one of the ladies that came to pick me up. That night we had supper in a restaurant. At the dinner there was (counterclockwise from me) Nina, her sister (best friend), an older gentleman, a pretty young lady, the girlfriend (Jenny) and Jenny's daughter. The gentleman is Jenny's husband and I am only guessing, but I assume the young girl is the gentleman's girlfriend.
At our last dinner, it was just me, Nina, Jenny and her daughter. Jenny's boyfriend called and we talked on the phone for a while. He asked me to find his girlfriend a Canadian boyfriend. I assumed he was joking, but he sounded very serious and told me he would be honored to be replaced by a man like me.
Very creepy. Jenny seems to be around 30, her husband must be over 50, her boyfriend as well. Her husband's girlfriend seemed to be 25 or even younger.
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Perhaps Oiler should step in here. Right age, right nationality.
And Rob note that Jenny is around 30 and her husband over 50. What does that equal - a good match.
Willy
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She's married?
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Yes, I believe Jenny is married.
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Hahaha!!!, Welcome to just a brief insight into the lifes of the rich and famous in China!!
There's not much that these guys can't get away with, ...it's just accepted by both the wife and the mistresses. I know of many such men, and similar stories to which Neil has written of here. Some of these guys can be keeping half a dozen such girlfriends/mistresses in plush apartments, and charge cards, .....all will be young and all will be very beautiful....
Money is ''Everything'' in China, and i do mean Everything!!!
David
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ive seen that quite a few times here in china
more so in the big cities
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I should do real well in China... Well except for the money thing... Oh and the multiple women thing... :dodgy:
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One woman will wear shaun out :icon_cheesygrin: let alone a bevy of them. Willy, I believe shaun will be a good long lasting customer for you...haha No offence Shaun, but more than one would make your dig-a-ling fall off or give you a stroke. Although it is an idea, Willy can hook you up I am sure. Besides too much will make you go blind....:icon_cheesygrin:
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Don, far be it from me to blow your theories BUT... 1.) after 27 years of marriage I wore her out... 2.)Let me be perfectly clear (Nixon Voice) ... I do not, nor have I ever needed Viagra... (Well it is close to what he said.) 3.) If I get a choice it would not be the ding-a-ling falling off. I won't even comment on the rest. :icon_cheesygrin:
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Don, far be it from me to blow your theories BUT... 1.) after 27 years of marriage I wore her out... 2.)Let me be perfectly clear (Nixon Voice) ... I do not, nor have I ever needed Viagra... (Well it is close to what he said.) 3.) If I get a choice it would not be the ding-a-ling falling off. I won't even comment on the rest. :icon_cheesygrin:
Shaun - We have all noted that you did not quote Clintons phrase. 'I have not had sexual relations with that women'
Willy
Even Clinton was hedging his bets by not naming which one!!!!
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Ted,
That's because that's where all these very rich guys prefer to be. That's where everything (including the girlfriends) they want and /or need is available to them.
Most if not all, also have estates, in out of the way places, when they need to get away. ....or to hide!!! haha!!
David....
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sure i agree dont think its right but i agree
they give the men a hard time for it but
what about the woman???
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Women get semi-hard time...:icon_cheesygrin:
Shaun, didn't willy tell you that viagra grows hair on the palm of your hand...LOL :icon_cheesygrin:
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Ted,
There are some very, very wealthy women in China too, they play very similar games to the wealthy men. There are some real bitches among them believe me!! lol!!
David....
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It happens here in the states also. Just not so open about it. As a bodyguard, I saw it many many times.
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How about Cher and her bagel boy lover? :icon_cheesygrin:
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its a little different here as the kept woman isnt looked upon
like they would be in the usa
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I asked Nina to confirm my suspicions. Yes, it's true. She also was adamant about the fact that this was not her lifestyle, but she doesn't judge her friends. So, while the lifestyle is not for everyone, it is not something that is necessarily looked down upon. The situation seems to work for them.
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I ever know this kind of girl with married man (Normally this kind of girl is poor), But I just couldn't be friend with them, the value oriented is totally different .
Why this kind of rich man can have wife and girl friends at the same time, Because he knows no one can leave him because different seasons.
Now the society become more and more tolerent. I feel sad.
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chen yan
Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?
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Ah, but it is a path that will end in heartbreak or worse for at least one of them, if not all. To each their own...
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It is ridicuous two woman can agree to share one man, But somtimes it did happen.I ever talked with the man and his first wife about their feeling.It is just too complicated to fix it and the battle between these two women will never end,even they live in two cities, the family is malformed.
One woman will wear shaun out :icon_cheesygrin: let alone a bevy of them. Willy, I believe shaun will be a good long lasting customer for you...haha No offence Shaun, but more than one would make your dig-a-ling fall off or give you a stroke. Although it is an idea, Willy can hook you up I am sure. Besides too much will make you go blind....:icon_cheesygrin:
haha, That's true, That's why None of Chinese Emperor live a long life.
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chen yan
Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?
This ethical question is something that has been discussed by philosophers for many hundreds of years.
Like many things it depends on the definition of the terms you are using.
I would say that it is right and proper for people to live as they wish.
However I would not wish for anyone that I cared about to live in this way - whether as the man, the wife or the girlfriend.
However many worse things happen, and all of the time.
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Watch Raise the Red Lantern, a Chinese film by Zhang Yimou. It is a historical story of a wealthy man and the four wives who compete with each other for his favour. Women's roles may be different now, but I can't see things ending happily for the women.
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chen yan
Just a thought: If both parties are OK with the arrangement, is it really bad? That's what I ask. I understand you may not agree with it and I do not agree with it. But if the man and woman both go into it knowing how it works and are OK with it, then is it really bad?
Reg,
The simples answer is yes. Someone always ends up getting hurt. The human emotion cannot always be trusted because situations change. People change their minds. Then what do you do?
I will not say that there are not relationships like this that remain successful but I have never seen one.
Everyone I have ever seen has led to tragedy.
Shaun
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Wasnt there a story within the last year, that a man with many wifes that one of them ended up tweaking out and trying to kill the 5 of them in a car accident?
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i just think if your in a relationship then you are
in a relationship. for me just one lady is enough
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Jadams 79 Yes I read the same story.If I remeber correctly the wife flipped out and tried to kill all of them at the same time.In a car
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Okay definately not for me then, I want to live. Then again I know always it was one and only one for me :)
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If i recall, this is the story you guys are talking about. It took a bit of searching, but I found it. I don't know who originally posted it for us.
http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/02/17/china.mistress.contest/index.html
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How about the mormons who had many wifes and still to today they practice this around northern Arizona, southern Utah, and texas,
also other places I have not heard of. Now granted most of the places get busted, mostly for marrying children, but there are a lot
of places that are still going, I saw a story on one family (8 wifes 1 husband) that is going strong in southern Utah. It seemed to be
working for them, but that's their lifestyle, not mine. I like one woman and one woman only, although I am single right now, I like a
monogamis relationship.
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same here rockycoon, but it works for them so who am I to complain about them.
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Martin yes thats the story I was talking about.
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the wrath of a scorned woman can be deadly
they were lucky they lived
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So this is what my ex meant by wanting to be my mistress ...
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why would you want 2 or 3 wives to nag at you hahahah
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In the interview on tv I watched. The wifes had certian dates on the calendar and knew that it was there day for a visit from the husband. figure that out...:fi_lone_ranger:
They all took turns according to their place on the calendar.
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In the interview on tv I watched. The wifes had certian dates on the calendar and knew that it was there day for a visit from the husband. figure that out...:fi_lone_ranger:
They all took turns according to their place on the calendar.
Is that what Neil Sedaka was singing about? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qUlOyj9F5gM
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Oh god, now I'm really feeling old. I remember all those old cars when they were new and on the showroom floor, I owned a 1957 ford two door like the one there, I remember the merc's and cooked at a mel's drive in making hamburgers. I remember the hair styles, and sneaking out with the girls to drink a beer...so much water under the bridge since then....I can still smell the hair spray (shellac) they used in their hair...haha. Think I'll crawl off and cry now...haha
Hey, 1 star if you know who's at the radio station....
2 stars if you ever listened to him
5 stars if you can name the radio station he was on
another 5 stars if you drove a port holed ford thunderbird (I did) ad a star if it had a 4 speed trans...
:huh::huh::huh:
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Hey, 1 star if you know who's at the radio station....
2 stars if you ever listened to him
5 stars if you can name the radio station he was on
another 5 stars if you drove a port holed ford thunderbird (I did) ad a star if it had a 4 speed trans...
* Wolfman Jack
** Listened to him
The station I listened to him on was in NYC so the radio show was syndicated. It might not be the same as the one you know?
Went looking for a 55-57 T-bird in the 70's but couldn't find one that was worth buying. One the motor had to be rebuilt and another had front end damage with parts all over the place? So I gave up.
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Heard of Wolfman Jack...saw some cartoon references to him when I was younger (ScoobyDoo anyone?)
That was a long time ago...
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XERB 1090 on your AM dial, hollywood california --- Hello who dis, this is collette, sorry wolfman dont take no collect call....click haha.
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Wolfman Jack.... I have seen the movie.... Does it count ??
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i remember wolfman now i am giving away my age
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I don't even think they have a translation for American Grafitti....let alone understand it....:icon_cheesygrin: but we do....heh heh
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How about the mormons who had many wifes and still to today they practice this around northern Arizona, southern Utah, and texas,
also other places I have not heard of. Now granted most of the places get busted, mostly for marrying children, but there are a lot
of places that are still going, I saw a story on one family (8 wifes 1 husband) that is going strong in southern Utah. It seemed to be
working for them, but that's their lifestyle, not mine. I like one woman and one woman only, although I am single right now, I like a
monogamis relationship.
Don, two questions... maybe 3...
1. Can you give me more detail as to where these communities are?
2. Do these kind of communities exist in China?
3. Are you a member of any of them?
:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
No, I really do not want an answer. Just picking at you.
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1. Norther Arizona, Southern Utah, Texas, and god only knows where else...
2. Sure they exist in china, just ask the chairman....
3. No, I have enough problems takeing care of the horses...and dogs...chickens....cats....and all other critters that wander in....:icon_cheesygrin:
4. But that sheep in the meadow is pining away for you....haha lol :icon_cheesygrin:
Baaaaaa where is shaun...baaaaaaaaa here and I though all you did was sismic work...haha
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i just couldnt fathom 8 wives all at once.
and why want that many?