China Romance
All About China => Share your love story => Topic started by: Scottish_Robbie on March 05, 2011, 11:52:17 pm
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Well here goes...
Everyone of the members on here know my story with a certain lady called Zhang Ying, known to you all as Sophie.
Rightly or wrongly, it ended in distress (for both of us) and disaster, many parties were hurt. To put you in the loop so to speak, after weeks (since I got back) we have been inn contact for long periods of time. BUT we both had time to reflect and discuss those 7 magical weeks we spent together. Not including the nine months we spoke on computer and web-cam getting to know each other. As it transpires, what I done was wrong, I hurt this lady very bad, and I can assure everyone I am suffering because of it. believe me. She still feels 'hurt' and 'the lose of face' is getting to her. Anyway, we have decided to call it a day but that we will stay 'friend' --- only through Email. Nonetheless, I have told her, that if she wants to speak to me about anything I will always be there for her. she is NOT added to contact list, but I am still on hers, and we both have our telephone numbers. She has contacted me through Yahoo Msn so she can talk to me sometimes. but it will NEVER go back to the way we were. I lost her trust... :( I do know I will NEVER ever, FORGET HER, I really did love her, despite what some people may think. This happened once I got back here at the beginning of January, it has taken me, this time to get over it, and get back into the saddle so to speak. So we are no longer together.. >:( >:(
The next time, and I have spoken to Willy, David E and a couple of others about my intended return to china. I believed I was ready the last time, BUT I wasn't.....The next time I WILL BE, and that will include having enough money, so I never get into that begging position again. That episode although may seem closed, is NOT, I told you all after I asked, I 'lost' friend etc..This is true. I have many members on here who are in my 'Yahoo', 'Skype', 'QQ', 'Telephone Numbers', and 'Facebook' and now, they don't talk to me, all since that 'fateful' day. But, it is my own fault, so I suppose I deserve it.,,,one way or another :-X
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I don't know? Pic 1 she's getting dinner ready, and pic 2 she's to sloppy, look at that desk with that cup rolling around over there? Only Kidding. Her name is Swallow? (that's what the pic title says) Someone had a girl with the same name? Can't be two with that name, could it?
It's all up to you. There is a gap in the age difference?
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I'd have to mention the age difference too. You're what, at least 42, right Rob?
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I'd have to mention the age difference too. You're what, at least 42, right Rob?
Treble that Neil then take away the number you first thought of. LOL
Only kidding Rob
treble it and divide by half will be closer.
Ok Rob, you shown their daughters now lets see the Mums!!!!
Willy
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I'd have to mention the age difference too. You're what, at least 42, right Rob?
Haha don't listen t that pensioner Neil..
I am 54, 55 in October. In my eyes, Nan is the better looking, but with Yan (swallow) I am more drawn too...
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Yep, I found who it was writing Swallow, Jay W. Is her profile # P558467?
http://www.chinaromance.net/index.php?topic=85.210 (http://www.chinaromance.net/index.php?topic=85.210)
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Rob , I can't choose for you what Woman is best for you , but I can tell you .. I would keep it within 15 years and no more . As you have shown us on your last Adventures , that you must fight the Height problem .. so why add a large age gap as well .. when not necessary ?
So from the two , you know my answer . I certainly hope you learned enough from the last two and let the third attempt be what you are/were looking for .
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Yep, I found who it was writing Swallow, Jay W. Is her profile # P558467?
http://www.chinaromance.net/index.php?topic=85.210 (http://www.chinaromance.net/index.php?topic=85.210)
Just searched that number Vince, nothing found. don't know if she was on it, will ask her tonight...
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Rob , I can't choose for you what Woman is best for you , but I can tell you .. I would keep it within 15 years and no more . As you have shown us on your last Adventures , that you must fight the Height problem .. so why add a large age gap as well .. when not necessary ?
So from the two , you know my answer . I certainly hope you learned enough from the last two and let the third attempt be what you are/were looking for .
Yes Arnold, the age difference IS what I am concentrating on...And believe me buddy. When I decide to go back, I will be more prepared AND WILL HAVE LEARNED from past experiences. not ONLY THAT..I will be going back when I am (as near as damb possible) to finding the right one for me, after having all types of contact with right one...
At the moment I am just talking to them, will be a good while before returning...
I should have said, the real age group I am aiming to get involved with is between 45-50
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Well Robbie Age difference and Height difference are not a major problem. This week I meet a whole group of females here who were all shorter than you. Some will even be teenagers soon! LOL
But I am keeping my eye out for the right woman suitable for a man of you for when you arrive. However it will be difficult to find one that would be suitable for someone of your personality, good looks and worldly knowledge.
Willy
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Willy , all Robbie wants to know is can they ride a winner in the English Derby ha ha .
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Willy , all Robbie wants to know is can they ride a winner in the English Derby ha ha .
Hahahaha....Well you gotta know these things... :o ::)
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Good to know that you are still alive and kicking ;D ;D ;D
Peter
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Nice to hear you are back in the saddle again Rob. I do hope that you have success this time too, but do try to go about this search in a prepared way. I think we all want to see you succeed in your search. Best of luck to you!
Dave C
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Rob,
Glad to hear from you and wish you the best.
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Thanks guys, nice to feel wanted... ;D
I don't think there was ever any 'real' doubt that I would get back on the saddle again. I think it was just a case of 'when I was 'feeling ready'
At present I am 'still' taking the medications..(Vince hehe) ;D ;D, and I am in cahoots with Willy everyday. Have spoken to DavidE and Willy, about setting up a 'criteria' and ''forward plan' for the next time I go. With their intel and my already gained knowledge, I am 'more' hopeful.
This I know (this time) is going to be a more 'prepared' trip than before. What is the saying 3rd time 'lucky'. ::)
You know what guys, there is no way I would ever have 'imagined' that I would be going to China once, never mind for the '3rd time'. ??? Life sure is funny
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Rob
You know the old saying......
If at first you dont succeed....GIVE UP (haha...only joking)
3rd time makes you a Veteran !!!
David
ps,,,the World is NOT round...it is an oblate spheroid !!!!!!
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God luck Rob, nice to see that you are back.