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Title: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 04, 2010, 01:47:01 pm
My question is...

Why...Why do the women make you you fall in love with them, and when they know you are hooked - BIG TIME..they end up finishing with you?

First it was Kathy (keren)..:@....And Now it's Sophie (Ying)...:@...:huh::@:huh:

Okey, I understand the abrupt way it ended with Kathy...Family first !!!...

Sophie, I sort of understand, because she 'read' about Anne and my 'Cohabitation', so I understood when we originally broke up......... but for the last 10 days we got back together and sorted it...
But not this time...

For the last 5 days she wanted us to write up a prenupt.......Not those words she used, she opted for the words 'Marriage Agreement'.  So in a sense it was not a normal prenuptial agreement concerning sharing of money etc.  I was about us as a couple, well I will attach it to read for yourselves, if you want to...

It is numbered, the only thing that was left to do, was sort them into their rightful places together, for example: (1).  We will love, be honest, sincere etc etc.

Yesterday morning (mine), her night-time, we were chatting, and she was telling me her mother getting onto her and also her friends about us...:huh:...After some words she decide to end it, sp I am now again going to be searching...I know there wll be those who will tell me, "You should not have finished with Anne", PLEASE DON'T..I know this...:huh:

What hurts,  thinking about it now.  is realising they, get you by the short and curlies, steal your heart and then BAM when you least expect it...

Going to now take my time and look for someone 'Real/Genuine'...NOT going back to China for at least a year...DECIDED...My heart will not take another beating like the last 2...

Here it is Could not attach

I, Robert O'Donnell agree to marry Zhang Ying, also known to me as Sophie.

These words I will NEVER go back on, I Pledge this to you Zhang Ying.

1)    I will always Love you.        
The same towards me.          
2)    I will never Hurt you.            
The same towards me.      
3)    I will never Hurt or Hit Peter.
The same towards me.
4)    I will always Respect You.      
The same towards me.  
5)    I will always love Peter, your Family, and your Culture.
6)    I will always be Truthful to you.
The same towards me.
7)    I will always be Honest to you.
The same towards me.  
8)    I will always be Sincere to you.  
The same towards me
9)    I will always treat you with Grace.
10)  I will always treat you and your family with dignity.
11)   I will always be the one you can rely on.
12)   I will always look after you when you are ill.
The same towards me.
13)   My home will be your home.
14)   My Family is your family.  
The same towards me.
15)   I will always make sure you are Happy.
The same towards me
16)   I will always make sure NO-ONE ever hurts you.
17)   I will never let my family hurt or bully you or Peter.
The same towards me
17)  I will protect you and Peter with my life.
18)   I will never quarrel with you.  If we quarrel we MUST have good communication to sort out right away.
The same towards me.
19)   I will always be there for you when you need me.
The same towards me
20)   I will always have integrity.
21)   No sex for 2 years, unless we are married.
22)   Kissing and hugging allowed for a minimum of 10 minutes before the wedding.
23)   Once I get there, we cannot search for another person.
After marriage each other is loyal,each other is responsible
24)   When the menstaution comes, you will rest for a week.
25)   I will not argue with you during this period. I will not make you angry
26)   We belong together for a lifetime, I hope we stay together forever.
27)   You can go back to Education or work. After the wedding we are always together, I'll be with you for all time.
The same towards me.
28)   We must teach each other our languages for 1 hour each night, for each person.
29)   If your mother is sick, you must accompany her.
30)   Our Children cannot affect our marriage.
The same towards me.
31)   We will prey daily, and go to church every week.
32)   I wil at least try all the food you cook for me.
The same towards me.
33)   We will go for a walk after dinner each night.
34)   You must watch at least 1 film with me per week.
35)   If there is something I think is NOT right for you, we will advise & consult, the final decion our own.
The same applies towards me when in China.
36)   When your mood is good, I can point out your shortcomings.
The same towards me.
37)    You will love my Children/grandchildren like your own.
The same towards me.
38)    If we have children, you will love it/them as much as you Love Peter.
The same towards me.
39)    After marriage sex allowed 2 or 3 times a week.
40)    We will learn Cooking, Neutrition, Gardening, Doing Business from each other.
41)    Computer for only 1 hour per day after marriage.
42)    I will provide your Study expense.
43)    If your Mother falls ill, we share expenses, for helping.
44)    We bear expense if mother wants to come and visit.
45)    If once married your not happy, we both go back to China together.
46)    The wife is always right.
47)    You must look for hidden love token everyday.
48)    We plant flowers together, grow vegetables, fruit trees, doing housework together.
49)     We go to park every Sunday after Church.
50)    We go together every Saturday or whatever day you wish, go shopping and browsing
51)    Once a month must take pictures of each other and as family.
52)    Every week write our blog together.
53)    I will not participate in the pornographic place.
54)    I will not use bad language or curse at people.
55)    Daily expense for each day registered.
56)    Each other is Loyal and Responsable.
57)    Once married, marriatal affairs are not allowed.
58)    Smile everyday & be Sweet Tempered
59)    Together, we study hard - A man of great Culture.

I agree to all of the above mentioned items...For the sake of a happy and harmonious marriage.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: RegnisTheGreat on April 04, 2010, 02:05:04 pm
Hi Rob,

I'm sorry. What happened? I been away for two weeks and i just read this. I thought everything was going good with Anne?
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: David5o on April 04, 2010, 02:41:55 pm
Rob,

Do you really call this a relationship?? seems to me more like a business contract or transaction.
If you can't trust each other to be the person they portray to be, then your just pissing in the wind. Love stands little chance without trust , ...and visa versa!!

Jeez,  ....i've never seen anything like what you've just posted!! Be thankfull your out of it Rob, she would have led you a dogs life of rules!!

David...
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: brett on April 04, 2010, 03:01:47 pm
Rob - I had much the same thing. I thought my lady and I were a good couple but when I did some digging I realised Miss Wu probably never loved me much at all.

I don't know what was going on in her head, and I suspect I never will. I guess that Miss Wu is very unlikely to meet another man who loved her as much as I did. She will most likely end up like one of my sister's many friends who have spent all their life searching for Mr 100%. Well ladies, I am sorry but he does not exist.

As to me, my gut instinct was right. I have to learn to trust my gut instinct. And I think I have to behave a bit more like a jerk. Women seem to love jerks :icon_cheesygrin:.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 04, 2010, 03:57:20 pm
Mike thats for that...

David I know mate...

But most importantly...I think (although I said) I would agree to this...
The thing that has to be looked at, is that THESE are all things that I (You) do in a marriage anyway??

So why she was wanting this I have no idea...:huh:   Except maybe because of the Anne thing, she was playing with my mind....AND, if she was then that is cruel...
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: David E on April 04, 2010, 06:46:37 pm
Rob

With "tongue-in-cheek" I can see why this relationship crashed....you forgot to include a couple of critically important points in "the list"

1) You forgot to define how long each day you get allowance to clean your teeth

2) You forgot to define how long each day you have to go to the Loo

3) You forgot to define exactly what you will have for each meal for the next 10 years.

Mate...this could never, never work under such contractual crap !! Yes, I know, these things on your list are what basically happens in a Marriage anyway......but you cant define it to this extent...humans dont work that way..and neither do emotions !!

If Mike is right...I suspect you are better off out of it, it seems a very dark place to be always to be seen as an "unclean unbeliever"

But I suspect Mike is not right, and this Lady (?) was in love with the IDEA of a Western Husband...but the reality (family, moving out of China , language etc, etc) got in the way of dreaming.

And you were the collateral damage !!

The short answer...DONT fall in love with any Woman you have not met...you know my view that you cant do that anyway !!! You have got to put the brakes on until you can get the chemistry right.

You have fallen in love with 3 women in about 6 months...step back and take a hard look Rob...thats not healthy. Maybe you think every contact you have is a potential wife. Maybe you should get to be friends first ??
Let the wife/love thing happen in due course...not let it be the prime driver.

Back on the horse Mate :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

David
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Vince G on April 04, 2010, 08:48:45 pm
???  

Rob, very nice of you to write what you will do for her love. Just, WHAT WAS SHE GOING TO DO FOR YOURS?

Sorry Rob, the only list I would have made? I can't even print it here. :@

Don't let a woman or anyone play a game like this. It makes you appear weak and they will play on that.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 04, 2010, 10:12:26 pm
21) No sex for 2 years, unless we are married.
22) Kissing and hugging allowed for a minimum of 10 minutes before the wedding.
39) After marriage sex allowed 2 or 3 times a week.
:s:s
Well, there goes the farm.....:@

Time to wait a little, then get back on the horse.  Keep in mind that
you are a professional and have never thrown a race.  Don't start
here. keep going my friend.:icon_cheesygrin:


by the way, ask her how much time are you allowed to fix the
plumbing...:icon_cool:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 04, 2010, 10:38:04 pm
Rob,  The avatar is returned just for you.  

What have I been telling you on the phone.   She would have been pulling your strings to the end of your life.  And well before then you would have been screaming WHY?

Why did I not listen to my friends.  Why was I so wrapped up with a women I had never met. Why have I spend so much time talking with her, no not talking more like begging her, to keep me when everyone was telling me that is was really over.  Why Why Why.

You could not even get this word into the title of the thread.  

But I guess everyone is saying WHY - when you came on here four months ago with all the great stories about Anne - who you met.  Then suddenly all your great stories concern kathy, Sophie or whatever you want to call her.

For goodness sake make this the last entry on this woman and move on.   I do not think that there is anyone of the brothers who want to hear in a few days you saying  'Ok fellars we have managed to sort it once again.'   Because each time you split you are putting yourself through such turmoil.   There was no way you would have found the resourses to get back here in June.

Take a week at least away from here.  Plan what you CAN do in your life and if that still includes getting back to China all the better.

But it will need work from you to achieve it.  Set yourself a reasonable target and go for it.

You know you have always had the backing of the brothers even when they have been thinking 'WHAT A PRATT'.

That will never change -  I dont mean being a pratt!!!  I mean the backing from the brothers.

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 04, 2010, 10:42:47 pm
Rob,

Please be glad you are out of it. It sounds like she has a couple issues to deal with herself. Just look at #46 The wife is always right.  
I was wondering when this one was going to be there on the list. I am just presuming that she drew up the list and wanted you to agree to it. I can understand how you feel buddy. Get up, dust yourself off, take a step back and take a deep breath before plunging back into the waters again.

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: odysseus007 on April 04, 2010, 10:47:05 pm
Momma used to say, "Naughty boy, no supper for ya tonite!"
Now Sophie says "Naughty Rob, no sex for 2 years!"
In case of any dispute, refer to clause 46....

Ever watched the movie Sophie's Choice? I'd pick Momma anytime, lol
I think your lawyer would have a good time with her. :icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 05, 2010, 12:21:20 am
Rob old buddie.  I know your lonely and would love to get married, I'm the same way, but don't give up the ship yet.  Don't
wear that big heart of yours on your sleeve.  I say, wait a while, then go to china and let Willy or Ted introduce you around
to a good woman.  They are brothers and will help you find just the right one...no mail order here...direct contact.  And that
was the silliest pre-nup I have ever read.  That one has to go down in the books (it should be listed in "Just for a laugh")  I sure
hope you did not think of signing that one.  Whoever does sign it is really in for it.  I'm dumb as shit and even I can see that...:icon_cheesygrin:  Anyway, don't give up buddy, we are all here for you.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 05, 2010, 03:25:33 am
she also left out when to  shower shave and s***   this woman just needs to
GO AWAY and be done with. she is a control freak and the marriage would have
been hell.   MOVE ON to greener pastures  what were these people telling her to
move on for they havent even met you yet.  i would be happy if i were you because
your now out of it and can move on.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: metooap on April 05, 2010, 04:07:44 am
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36098' dateline='1270403221'

My question is...

I agree to all of the above mentioned items...For the sake of a happy and harmonious marriage.


Scottish_Rob

Once you complete this list - where is the happiness?

Some of the items on your list are shall we say "noble.' And you should be lauded for your efforts. However, love and marriage should be a two way street - not a express way - where you are completely run over.

The bottom-line - and it seems unanimous here - is maybe, just maybe you have been saved - if not from yourself - from someone whose values, wants, and needs are different from yours. So stand-up - and move on.

Alton
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: RobertBfrom aust on April 05, 2010, 04:12:52 am
I have seen this list before , it is a how to get rid of your boyfriend list , from another forum , regards Robert .Maybe one can alter it to also be signed by Western women ha ha
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: David5o on April 05, 2010, 10:51:08 am
.

OK, I think Rob's got the picture now. Can't see any point of rubbing it in any further!!!.

Rob's problem is, he wears his heart and soul on his sleeve, and is sometimes too honest for his own good. The truth be known, any one of the 3 ladies he's been involved with would have had to go a long way to find themselves a better man, so they are also the losers.

Don't knock him about Anne, she WAS really too young for him, and he knew it!! Just took him a little longer to realise and admit it to himself, so he WOULDN'T have been happy with her in the long run!!!

David....
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 05, 2010, 11:22:07 am
yes he does wear his heart on his sleeve and they are the losers
and i hope that the one who is a control freak reads this as she
really doesnt deserve a good man. she needs one just like the one
she was married to in china. usually dont wish ill feelings on people
but i just hope she gets a basket full of people who play her like she
wants to play people
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 05, 2010, 10:13:30 pm
I was waiting for her to bend him over her knee and spank him (he might have liked this) haha  
Willy does, because he's been such a bad boy....hahaha  lol:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 05, 2010, 10:33:25 pm
Rocky,

new avatar??  self portrait hahaha  couldnt resist

hope all is well with you and your lady in GZ

Ted
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: brett on April 06, 2010, 05:49:40 am
Wow, I think Rob has stolen my medal for finding Worst Chinese Lady Ever :icon_cheesygrin:.

I guess all we can do is regroup and carry on. I did not think this would be such a stressful thing to do. I really wish I could find my rebound lady as that would have made the last few weeks a lot easier.

I hope Rob is OK.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 06, 2010, 06:40:56 am
Brett,

just hang in there and it will get better. same for Rob.

as they say  ' one door closes and another opens'

Ted
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 06, 2010, 12:17:17 pm
Ok guy's thanks for the humour...:blush:  I am at this moment in time LAUGHING MY HEAD OFF....NOT:@

I will take on board your comments (HHHhhmmmmm:@) And look at them with an open mind...

David thanks for your thoughts, very much appreciated..:icon_biggrin:  You are right, I do wear my heart on my sleeve, I do fall in love quite easily, and yes too honest for my own good.  BUT, if YOU ALL look at the photos of the ones I did this with, SURELY you can see why???

After re-reading my post I think that  NOT one of you picked up on the fact, that THIS was not just for me to agree too (although I should have, said so).  this was just a copy of things that were going to be put in FOR BOTH TO AGREE TOO.

However, by publishing this agreement... I know I have hurt her very much, for which I am sorry about...:huh:  This was not my intention...  MY DECISION TO PUBLISH THIS WAS TO GET CONSTRUCTIVE FEEDBACK not to be pilloried...

Brett SHE is not a bad lady, she was just making sure that I was not going to do the same as what happened with Anne.  I think.
I never once had to send an emf to her, she gave me contact info right away, webcam, phone call, real pictures...So this lady cannot be put into 'THE WORST catagory'   she is NOT a SCAMMER like other F.....s that is online...
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 06, 2010, 06:27:53 pm
Rob,

try falling in love with the person and what is inside not the photos
that might change the outcome in the future. its a tough period for
you right now but another door will open and things will be better.
it has happened to all of us at one time or other.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 06, 2010, 07:27:19 pm
Quote from: 'ttwjr32' pid='36233' dateline='1270592873'
Rob,

try falling in love with the person and what is inside not the photos
that might change the outcome in the future. its a tough period for
you right now but another door will open and things will be better.
it has happened to all of us at one time or other.

Ted
it was the woman I feel for this time, we saw each other EVERYDAY DAY AND NIGHT on webcam....BUT, I know what you mean....:icon_biggrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 06, 2010, 10:44:27 pm
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36239' dateline='1270596439'

Quote from: 'ttwjr32' pid='36233' dateline='1270592873'

Rob,

try falling in love with the person and what is inside not the photos
that might change the outcome in the future. its a tough period for
you right now but another door will open and things will be better.
it has happened to all of us at one time or other.


Ted
it was the woman I feel for this time, we saw each other EVERYDAY DAY AND NIGHT on webcam....BUT, I know what you mean....:icon_biggrin:


Rob ,
IT WAS NOT THE WOMAN you fell for it was a picture - web cam or not it is still a picture.  Ted is right.  

You were in love with BEING IN LOVE.    I really credited you with more sense me old China.

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 06, 2010, 11:05:34 pm
Rob, just in case this makes you feel better, I still employ the "Rob" method of meeting women, face to face in China.  I think
this is probably the best way.  I am so tired of looking at "doctored pictures" on the internet, not that they are bad, but they are
phoney as a 3 dollar bill.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 07, 2010, 01:03:38 pm
Look out China....LOCK up your daughters....:angel:

ROB...back in circulation....:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 07, 2010, 05:59:10 pm
Hello...my name is Scott, I am Scotttish_ Robs son.

Tonight my dad was taken into hospital with a suspected heart attack.  He told me to write in this place to let you all know.  because he thinks the world of this place...It is like a family to him he said

I know with all the stress lately with his attempt at getting his stall started and, the stress he was having with this woman sophie, played a big part on this happening.

I willl let you now what happens
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: David5o on April 07, 2010, 06:56:44 pm
Scott,

Thanks for letting us all know here.  We all hope he speedily bounces back to health!!

Wish him well from me please....

David.....
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: RobertBfrom aust on April 07, 2010, 06:57:12 pm
I hope it was just his cooking and wish him all the best , regards Robert .
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Arnold on April 07, 2010, 07:04:40 pm
Scott , thanks for the this shocking news of our beloved member Rob . Our best wishes for a fast recovery and a prayer for all his Family .. as this must be an aweful period in anybody's Life of a Loved one . As you said .. this is like a one big Family here too and he is a big part of it and we all want it to stay this way .

Arnold and Qing
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: David E on April 07, 2010, 07:40:38 pm
Hang in there Buddy...get well quickly and put it all behind you....you have unfinished Business !!!

Best wishes

David
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: maxx on April 07, 2010, 07:43:17 pm
Best wishes for a speedy recovery Rob.Get well soon.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: mustfocus on April 07, 2010, 07:46:03 pm
Hang in there Rob!  You'll get through this and be back charming the ladies soon!
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 07, 2010, 08:25:52 pm
I was talking to him on the phone yesterday afternoon London time - (11pm China time) and he was just getting ready to go and visit the doctors because he was having the pains in his chest.

I as going to call him again today to see how he got on!

I will call him later today to see how he is getting on.  That is if he has his cellphone with him?  Maybe his son will answer it.

I will keep you posted.

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 07, 2010, 08:27:56 pm
Scott,

Hope that all is well with Rob. Please keep us informed on his condition. I am wishing him a speedy recovery.

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 07, 2010, 09:09:31 pm
i hope that everything will be alright with you and
have that speedy recovery. we need to see you here
shortly
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Vince G on April 07, 2010, 09:53:49 pm
:icon_sad:  Shocking. Make it back soon buddy.

Yes Willy keep us informed incase his son can't?
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Irishman on April 07, 2010, 10:04:49 pm
Rob, best of luck and a speedy recovery to you mate. All the brotherhood is wishing you the best I am 100% sure.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 08, 2010, 03:59:02 am
Rob old buddy, lets hope its just indigestion.  I am wishing you a fast recovery and pray your health returns my friend.

Willy, thanks for the updates, Rob is like family around here.

We will know if he's well, as the nurses will be afraid to go in his room....lol
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: victor-hills on April 08, 2010, 04:51:22 am
Get well soon rob.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 08, 2010, 06:44:44 am
Just reporting in.  Bad news Guys!

Rob is on his way home and will be sending up our blood pressures and spirits for many more years to come!!!!!!:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

Seriously though - The news is really good.  I have just spoken to him on the phone back in UK.  He has just been released from hospital and is on his way home.

 He had suffered a severe angina attack.   Probably after I told him yesterday he had to wear one of 'THOSE SHIRTS' next time he came here.

He has promised me he will take it easy for a while and will be back on here.  Knowing him it will be sooner rather than later.

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: kenny on April 08, 2010, 09:34:55 am
Just read this thread, was shocked. Great to here you are better Rob!

Take Care
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: shaun on April 08, 2010, 10:45:19 am
Good to hear you are better.  Hope you are past all issues.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Arnold on April 08, 2010, 11:03:20 am
Thanks Willy for the News .

It's strange , the thoughts that go through ones Mind when a Brotherhood member becomes Ill now ... including the old MM story . Made me think ... is good ole Rob trying to pull out of here that route ?

Good news for all his Family and us here :icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 08, 2010, 12:28:37 pm
Thanks for keeping us informed Willy. Glad to hear that all is ok with Rob. I just hope that he does as directed and takes it easy for the next little while.

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 08, 2010, 01:56:42 pm
Hi Guys...:icon_cheesygrin:

Ok here is the story....:huh:

All the pressure with getting things and funds together for starting the business, and the on/off affair with Sophie palyed a major part in my downfall.  I had an angina attack, the doc told me it was a 'Small' heart attack.  Have been given my orders...NO STRESS...But YOU KNOW ME, as if thats gonna happen..:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

He (DOC) wanted me to stay in hospital from Wednesday until Monday, there was no chance of me doing that...  When Willy told me this morning that my Scott posted here about me, the MLM story came into my mind, so thought I better come on and let you all know..I WOULD NEVER DO THAT....

Thanks for all your kind thoughts and prayers...I am here to stay for a while yet...
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Arnold on April 08, 2010, 02:09:26 pm
Rob , you don't know what a relieve this is seeing you on your Feet and at Home . Now do as the Doc say's and take it easy and slow down on all for a while . Thank your Son Scott for jumping in and letting us know what had happened .
PS: As I told Shaun , I know you would never repeat the MLM story .. your a Man of Honor and never forget that .
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 08, 2010, 07:56:35 pm
Rob,
Great to see you back here. Please take the advise you have been given and reduce the stress in your life. We want you around for some time to come. :icon_cheesygrin:

Guess I can't ask you about the MLM story now..... You're not going to tell. I don't think I want to know though.

Take care buddy. We can search the playing field together later on if you want. I have to start my search again too. I will do this casually though. I have to make a move to another city very soon and this is a little more of a priority right now.

Now, off for my morning coffee with my favorite Singaporean girl at Starbucks... If only I was about 25 years younger... :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Vince G on April 08, 2010, 11:01:22 pm
Glad to see you back, Rob
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 08, 2010, 11:11:50 pm
cheers guys....just gld to be here...:icon_biggrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 08, 2010, 11:16:55 pm
Rob, so glad to see you back, you follow the doctors orders and relax and take your time.  I had to do that and it's not so bad,
you get fat...:icon_cheesygrin:  
Just think of all the Tellie you can catch up on and all those soaps. haha lol  
I am sure glad your alright.  Now take those pills, kick off your shoes, find a favorite chair and kick back buddy.  No more lifting
weights for a while....:icon_cheesygrin:

By the way, a big thank you to Scott and Willy for keeping us updated !!!!
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 08, 2010, 11:35:44 pm
ok will do...when I get back from the gym and my 10k run....:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Irishman on April 09, 2010, 03:17:31 am
Great to have you back Rob, just lay off the haggis for a few days, that stuff is terrible for your health I hear!
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: dude on April 09, 2010, 05:53:54 am
wow...sorry to hear all the crap going on Rob! I'm glad your on the rebound! Hope everything goes good 4 ya in the future!:icon_biggrin::icon_biggrin:


Jim
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Sylvain D on April 09, 2010, 07:04:46 am
Nice to see you're back, Rob, even if I could not read everything those last days :(
but I will do tonight, when back home :icon_cool:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: shaun on April 09, 2010, 11:06:37 am
Rob glad you are home and doing better.  Now do what the doctor tells you, we want you around a while.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 10, 2010, 01:02:55 am
If these were get well cards, Rob you would have a wall full...:icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 10, 2010, 08:07:28 am
yes...it shows me I ave many friends...thank you alll:icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: victor-hills on April 10, 2010, 01:59:02 pm
Nice to see you doing better mate,hey i see your are quoteing william wallace let me finish it for you i loved the movie hehe;)


I am William Wallace, and before me, I see a whole ARMY of my countrymen here to battle the English. Ay, fight and you may die, run and you'll live. At least a while. And dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all the days from this day to that for one chance, just one chance to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives.... but they'll never take our FREEDOM!! sorry just hade to lol.
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 10, 2010, 04:19:58 pm
Quote from: 'victor-hills' pid='36570' dateline='1270922342'

Nice to see you doing better mate,hey i see your are quoteing william wallace let me finish it for you i loved the movie hehe;)


I am William Wallace, and before me, I see a whole ARMY of my countrymen here to battle the English. Ay, fight and you may die, run and you'll live. At least a while. And dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all the days from this day to that for one chance, just one chance to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives.... but they'll never take our FREEDOM!! sorry just hade to lol.



Hi mate

now If it was me Quoting the whole phrase I would do it like this...

I AM WILLIAM WALLACE.....I SEE a whole ARMY of MY countrymen here to Battle the English....AYE fight... and you may die,... Run..and you'll live - at least a while!!!  And dying in your beds - many years from now, WOULD you be willing to TRADE all the days from this day to that for one chance...JUST ONE CHANCE to come back here and TELL our ememies, THAT THEY MAY TAKE our lives....BUT...THEY'LL NEVER TAKE OUR FREEDOM....:icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: victor-hills on April 10, 2010, 05:00:38 pm
Lol ok rob you got me there im a brit i cant say it with a scottish accent ;)
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: JimB on April 10, 2010, 06:05:59 pm
Victor, Rob was in the movie. He should know the whole script. lol
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 10, 2010, 10:14:39 pm
William Wallace another Scot who went to pieces.  But over a country not a woman!   But would he have been such a hero if his name was something like Hamish McDuff.  Its names that go together like William Wallace that brings forth hero's.  Or William W--------- Oops thats mine:icon_cool:

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 11, 2010, 01:46:48 pm
Quote from: 'Willy The Londoner' pid='36590' dateline='1270952079'

William Wallace another Scot who went to pieces.  But over a country not a woman!   But would he have been such a hero if his name was something like Hamish McDuff.  Its names that go together like William Wallace that brings forth hero's.  Or William W--------- Oops thats mine:icon_cool:

Willy


You mean Ying and Kathy were NOTcountries????:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

so I'm in good company...hehehehe
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 12, 2010, 08:48:24 am
Are you sure William Wallce said it in that accent.  That sounds too Scottish.  I am sure he had more of an Aussie/Scottish Twang.

Or was that when Mel Gibson played him!:icon_cheesygrin:

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 13, 2010, 07:46:56 pm
Quote from: 'Willy The Londoner' pid='36590' dateline='1270952079'

William Wallace another Scot who went to pieces.  But over a country not a woman!   But would he have been such a hero if his name was something like Hamish McDuff.  Its names that go together like William Wallace that brings forth hero's.  Or William W--------- Oops thats mine:icon_cool:

Willy


In the movie William Wallace went to pieces over a country but it was started by the murder of his wife. :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: odysseus007 on April 13, 2010, 09:47:19 pm
Quote from: 'Bee964' pid='36831' dateline='1271202416'

Quote from: 'Willy The Londoner' pid='36590' dateline='1270952079'

William Wallace another Scot who went to pieces.  But over a country not a woman!   But would he have been such a hero if his name was something like Hamish McDuff.  Its names that go together like William Wallace that brings forth hero's.  Or William W--------- Oops thats mine:icon_cool:

Willy


In the movie William Wallace went to pieces over a country but it was started by the murder of his wife. :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C


I'm not sure that's historical fact.... According to the movie, He also ended up bedding the king's wife, so apparently the whole English royal family line have Scottish blood? lolz
Quote from: 'Willy The Londoner' pid='36590' dateline='1270952079'

William Wallace another Scot who went to pieces.  But over a country not a woman!   But would he have been such a hero if his name was something like Hamish McDuff.  Its names that go together like William Wallace that brings forth hero's.  Or William W--------- Oops thats mine:icon_cool:

Willy


Or Ronald McDonald, but I guess that's the most recognizable "Scottish" name today???
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 13, 2010, 11:23:19 pm
I would have said Scottish_Rob was the most recognised hahaha:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 14, 2010, 02:48:13 am
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36848' dateline='1271215399'

I would have said Scottish_Rob was the most recognised hahaha:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:


Stand up the person who said 'Scottish_who?':icon_cheesygrin:

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: odysseus007 on April 14, 2010, 03:49:30 am
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36848' dateline='1271215399'

I would have said Scottish_Rob was the most recognised hahaha:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:


Need we qualify that? Only in China, and only by the female of the species? :icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 14, 2010, 12:02:37 pm
?????????????????????????????????????????

no need to qualify that
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Bee964 on April 14, 2010, 12:24:33 pm
Quote from: 'odysseus007' pid='36844' dateline='1271209639'


In the movie William Wallace went to pieces over a country but it was started by the murder of his wife. :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C


I'm not sure that's historical fact.... According to the movie, He also ended up bedding the king's wife, so apparently the whole English royal family line have Scottish blood? lolz

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Thats why I said it was in the movie. I am not sure that it was historical fact either. And yes, we scottish have gotten around a bit. My great-grandmother was scottish. :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36848' dateline='1271215399'

I would have said Scottish_Rob was the most recognised hahaha:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:


I would have to agree! Scottish_Rob is the most recognised... in china... by the beautiful chinese ladies! Hahahaha! :icon_cheesygrin:
I think Willy may be second most recognised followed closely by Ted. :icon_cheesygrin:

Dave C
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 14, 2010, 12:46:35 pm
ok i disagree i think they follow me  hahahaha
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: maxx on April 14, 2010, 06:52:03 pm
What are we talking about here? is this even close to the threads subject matter.Probably need to get back on subject
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 15, 2010, 03:26:14 am
WHY DO WOMEN DO THIS ?????

i really think it is a small very small very very small percentage of ladies that
would do this to a man.

i believe that a lot of the problems that are encountered are because of direct
communication issues which leads to frustration and misunderstandings. i am
married and still have the occasional problem that ends up being one not understanding
the other. SO when imbarking on this journey keep this in mind someimes the 24 hr rule
needs to be extended or more questions and talking need to be done to find out the
correct meaning of what was meant to be said
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Scottish_Rob on April 15, 2010, 03:08:59 pm
why do woman do this???

I am making an assumption that this was by a woman...

Here is the start of an admirer mail I recieved this morning on Chnlove...

Dear robert,
I am very happy to find your individual material on the proxy organization in ShenZhen. I feel very happy to write to you,because I think that you are the person I have been waiting for many years after I saw your self introduction.

I also love United Kingdom very much,for people there are very kindness and warm hearted.So I look forward to make friends with you ..I think your characteristic attractive me most is that you are a tall ,strong vigorous and healthy man...

YEAH RIGHT....HAHHAAHHAA:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin: Do you think this lady might have really READ my self introduction....

Now Ted...this must come into the very very small percentage you mentioned...Oh and I have never spoken to this lady this is an AMDIRER letter...
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Martin on April 15, 2010, 05:34:18 pm
Quote from: 'Scottish_Rob' pid='36990' dateline='1271358539'

you are a tall ,strong vigorous and healthy man...

YEAH RIGHT....HAHHAAHHAA:icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin: Do you think this lady might have really READ my self introduction....


WOW Rob...I think you might have found her. haha
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: ttwjr32 on April 15, 2010, 09:30:29 pm
sounds to me the translator wrote it Rob but its good to
see that your back in the saddle searching. good luck in the
quest
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Willy The Londoner on April 15, 2010, 09:56:45 pm
Read this and the Shout box - all i can say is

'Seconds Out - Round Three'

Willy
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: rockycoon on April 16, 2010, 02:28:11 am
And the bell rings, out comes Rob, he's looking healthy, a few cuts and bruses, but he looks fresh and ready to go....:icon_cheesygrin:
Title: RE: Who do the woman do this????
Post by: Arnold on April 16, 2010, 02:43:32 am
Rob might be fresh and ready to go .. but I know he is not putting more than a Toe or two in the Water now .. before he is ready to jump into the Pool of beautiful Women . Before the next , I think he will have NO loose ends to overturn his Relationship again . This can / will be his silver lining of the dark cloud he's been riding on lately .
I and many want nothing but short of success for you coming soon Rob to a place near you .. called Home .