Sometime in the future, we will have to get together over there.

I'm just curious what dating sites people would recommend?  Or, maybe you don't recommend, ...

Met my wife on Chnlove, which is not around now .... seems it is now called Asiame.com

Chnlove.com was launched in 1998, I used it in 2009, but stopped using it as soon as I went to China and met my wife in person, then we switched to SKYPE (also gone now).

We worked on getting to know each other for over 25 months, before we married, then it took many more months to get her to the US. We are still learning and growing together.

The point is, a LONG, SLOW, and careful process was needed.

married 15 years now, so not looking into dating anymore

--Mike
 

I'm just curious what dating sites people would recommend?  Or, maybe you don't recommend, but have met your significant other somewhere else.  Are you wanting to meet a lady in the Philippines...tell us what site you have used, as well as the pros and cons of this site.

Myself personally, I was introduced to my wife by a member in this group, we "met" officially through Facebook, then moved over to Skype, and instant messaging.

I'm just confused for the sake of being confused.

Confused in Alberta.

Philip thanks, and everyone else too, for all the replies.  We own a house in Shaoguan, Guangdong.  There has been a lot of back and forth between my wife and myself.  She tells me she wants me to retire there and I want to be the good husband and at least consider it however as much as I like China it isn't my number 1 choice.  At 70 years of age I am beginning to see that retirement might be in the near future, however an more completely ready for it.  Almost a year ago we purchased a house in South Carolina after living in Georgia 30+ years.

Yesterday the shocker dropped.  My wife thinks she might not be able to live in China because of the freedom and opportunity here.  I'm not sure where we are headed.

Confused in SC!