I remember one time that Arnold gave an answer to sending roses to the ladies, and for the life of me I cant find his answer again its about sending a dozen roses and that she is supposed to keep 11 and give one to someone, her mother or whoever, but was wondering, if the mother has passed does she keep the whole dozen or does she pass that one on to say her older sister or to a best friend. I checked way back in the ChnLove Forum and also the FB and cant find what he wrote, so just had to ask again, so that this time I can remember. Hate to hear what Chong will make of this...LOL