Today is my wife and I's first wedding anniversary. Life still presents many difficulties and challenges. We are being pulled in many different directions. My job is in Hong Kong, but Hong Kong does not welcome my wife. My wife's children are in China, and I am not sure her ex-husband will let them leave. My family and friends are in England and some of my family, my house and all my belongings are in France. We do not know how we can bring all or some of these disparate elements together. What I do know is that tonight, I will go to a restaurant with my wife, in my local town, Sai Kung, and we will celebrate our first year of marriage. Ours is a love which adversity cannot dent. I wish all the best for everyone on their journey to happiness