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« Reply #75 on: September 18, 2009, 03:14:45 pm »
Wills...Sorry to hear that mate...:huh:

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« Reply #76 on: September 19, 2009, 08:39:51 am »
Cheers Rob.

Long story short was she said that she had now lost her job, and she lives at home with her mom, who is divorced from the dad. I get the feeling she brought most of the cash home to pay the bills, and she is worried as she can not find another job, so there is talk about moving to another city to look for work. I said i was patient and if she wanted to sort her job and other issues out first i would understand, but she said it was unfair to make me wait. Who knows, maybe thats the truth, she sounded pretty sincere, but maybe she has met someone in China, and did not want to hurt my feelings. I know she has not met anyone else through the dating agency as i had a pretty good relationship with our translator, and she said she is not in contact with anyone else there. But whatever, if i had been out to see her and liked her as much as i was hoping too, i would feel a bit more gutted about it. Still we had been in regular contact for three months now, so a little down about it. Oh well, s#*te happens eh? :huh:
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« Reply #77 on: September 19, 2009, 12:17:30 pm »
Anything worth having is worth fighting for.  Tell her you'll wait for her, encourage her to find a job and be supportive of her.  This is a door, not a wall.  She can't ask for your financial support so she feels unworthy of your moral support.  Is she?  If she is worthy of your moral support, this could be your opportunity to prove to her the type of relationship you want to have in the future.
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« Reply #78 on: September 19, 2009, 04:06:29 pm »
Niel, well said, bravo bro. :icon_biggrin:
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« Reply #79 on: September 21, 2009, 03:01:01 pm »
Hi Neil.

I know what your saying, and i agree with you. I did say to her that if something is good then it's worth fighting for, and i was fully prepared to wait until things were sorted out and i was prepared to support her and help if she needed it, but she still said no and this is the best thing to do. You can only take so many no's before you cut your losses right? It was these answers and other things that made me think that maybe something else is going on. Things like a week after we stopped using the emf system and was using direct emails and QQ she wants to stop the relationship, so no more emf revenue coming in, just makes me think a little. Like i say, she says she wants to remain in contact, but wants me as a brother. I guess i'll have to wait and see. If we do remain in contact, and in a couple of months things are sorted out. Maybe we will start things up again. If i never get a reply from her again, i guess maybe i was being scammed. Only time will tell.

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« Reply #80 on: October 10, 2009, 09:03:16 pm »
I think I post a few more of my LaoPo here .

1st: My Lady picking up her Hong Kong Passport .
2nd: The new Financial Tower and the Jinmao in background .
3rd: Us as a Family , at the new Happy Valley Park in Shanghai .
4th: No Qing on this Ride . Too wild for my LaoPo .
5th: The whole Family , at a Sichuan Restaurant in SH .
6th: After getting off an old Trolly Car in HK .
« Last Edit: October 10, 2009, 09:14:05 pm by Arnold »

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« Reply #81 on: October 10, 2009, 11:34:54 pm »
Thanks Arnold for the new pics - yes worth more than a thousand words.:icon_biggrin:
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« Reply #82 on: October 11, 2009, 02:12:35 am »
I so much enjoy seeing pictures.  Thank you Arnold.  You two look so good together.  Maybe I'll post a couple more of mine.  I hope others will contribute as well.
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« Reply #83 on: October 11, 2009, 02:57:52 am »
Neil another 1000 words of pleasure - thanks. And don't worry guys as I will try to post pics next week when I am back in Dumpling land.
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« Reply #84 on: October 12, 2009, 05:16:33 pm »
Thought I had better post a photo of the lady who has captured my attention.  Is she not something special?

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« Reply #85 on: October 12, 2009, 05:26:08 pm »
My kind of woman willy keeps you warm in the winter and cool in the summer
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« Reply #86 on: October 12, 2009, 07:16:38 pm »
Nice one Willy!  You lucky guy, you!!

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« Reply #87 on: October 12, 2009, 09:24:10 pm »
Here is me and Jian

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« Reply #88 on: October 12, 2009, 11:31:25 pm »
Willy I haven't laughed so hard in a long time. thanks.

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« Reply #89 on: October 12, 2009, 11:38:44 pm »
Quote from: 'Vince G' pid='19883' dateline='1255404685'

Willy I haven't laughed so hard in a long time. thanks.



Imagine waking up alongside her every day!

I am so glad she captured my attention and not my HEART!!

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