Cheers Rob.
Long story short was she said that she had now lost her job, and she lives at home with her mom, who is divorced from the dad. I get the feeling she brought most of the cash home to pay the bills, and she is worried as she can not find another job, so there is talk about moving to another city to look for work. I said i was patient and if she wanted to sort her job and other issues out first i would understand, but she said it was unfair to make me wait. Who knows, maybe thats the truth, she sounded pretty sincere, but maybe she has met someone in China, and did not want to hurt my feelings. I know she has not met anyone else through the dating agency as i had a pretty good relationship with our translator, and she said she is not in contact with anyone else there. But whatever, if i had been out to see her and liked her as much as i was hoping too, i would feel a bit more gutted about it. Still we had been in regular contact for three months now, so a little down about it. Oh well, s#*te happens eh? :huh: