I want to thank everyone who gave me their advice and insight, but more importantly I want to thank EVERYONE for their encouragement. The members of this group helped me when I needed it most. They helped me through my skepticism and doubts, and showed me these were merely cultural differences.
For those who do not know me, or merely forgot (who the heck is this guy) I'm the guy whose first trip to China, was to meet a married woman. Well I'm back and I'm happy to say -She's MARRIED again
I will soon post more details of the happiest time of my life,as soon as I figure out how to reduce the KB size of my photos