I have already gone through this with her many times. And it will probably be many more. She and I did joke about it a bit. I said, "How certain are you that you want to marry me and move to the USA?", She said, "91%!"... the next day, "92%... maybe."
We'll work it out, eventually. I did tell her I would drop everything and move to china so she can take care of her family, but I can't speak the language and have no way to earn money in China, so she won't let me do that. I have enough to last 6 months... a couple of years if I sell everything here. I should be able to speak enough to get by in 6 or 7 months with a good teacher. That should lead to being able to find work opportunities. She is definite in saying no to this, however. My key is going to be patience, patience, patience.
But, how can you be patient when you are home alone every day, after having the woman you love in your arms. It becomes a need to have her presence with you... it IS a need, and it is very hard for me not to have a plan in place for moving her and Amy here. Patience... is difficult when you don't want to lose one precious day. If I could afford it, I'd move there to be with her until she was ready to move here... alas, I'm just a working stiff, and can't pay the bills if I'm not here making money. If I had any business ingenuity, I would get something going that doesn't need my constant attention and can generate reasonable revenue.... but I'm analytical, not creative.
Ah well... I will become a preacher. I will preach to myself every day. My mantra: Patience, Grasshopper.