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Offline MLM

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A very helpful link
« on: March 30, 2009, 07:16:35 pm »
Hi, this has helped me with to understand my relationship much better and this in turn makes my Lao Po very happy, so please, if you want to improve or just understand your relationship better then go here and read all of this link and the attached hyperlinks, I know it's a lot to read but it is interesting and anything that keeps you out of the dog house has got to help right?
So here it is, first you must go to;    
                     WWW.Candleforlove.com
then click on;   Culture & Language Discussion
then click on;   Significant Differences of Chinese/western Marriages

Make sure you read the hyperlinks one of them is the sex report ( very important )
Good luck,
Bao Zhong
Mike
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Re: A very helpful link
« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2009, 12:45:35 pm »
Thats a very interesting read Michael, thanks for sharing with us.
I think I need to reread all that a few times to have it sink in,it certainly made a few points that stuck home to me when thing about Ling reacting a certain way to something I said or did and I couldn't figure out why.
Really useful, thanks again.
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Re: A very helpful link
« Reply #2 on: April 01, 2009, 10:49:44 pm »
Hmmm...shouldn't I be able to register? I just get a message "content is blocked" when trying to register.
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Re: A very helpful link
« Reply #3 on: April 01, 2009, 08:20:27 pm »
Michael, great info there.  I still have to finish the report but the thread had some great info.  We all have much to learn and this is going to be quite an experience.  Nobody said a cross cultural marriage would be easy and the info supports it.  It also reinforces some of what we knew when we all started down this road. Sharing info like this is what this forum is all about.

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Re: A very helpful link
« Reply #4 on: April 03, 2009, 12:21:53 am »
Thanks for the post, Michael. That was a very interesting read - even the survey on sex. I've bookmarked the forum there as I'd like to re-read it again some time. It seems to explain things very well about the relationship with a Chinese lady. Xie xie.
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Re: A very helpful link
« Reply #5 on: April 03, 2009, 12:44:30 am »
Vince, I get the following error:  Sorry, you are not permitted to use this board

Maybe US only. Could be some network filter.
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #6 on: July 21, 2009, 05:56:34 am »
just thought this should be brought back to the top, what with all the new guys coming on board.
good luck and best wishes brothers.
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #7 on: July 21, 2009, 10:58:33 am »
It truly is one of the best discussions I've read.  Lots of insight into marrying a Chinese lady from a western perspective.
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #8 on: July 21, 2009, 02:48:45 pm »
Michael, many thanks for this info which will be really useful :)
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #9 on: July 21, 2009, 03:10:02 pm »
So here it is, first you must go to;    
                     WWW.Candleforlove.com
then click on;   Culture & Language Discussion
then click on;   Significant Differences of Chinese/western Marriages

MM,

Are these links still good?  I get nowhere when Cutting and Pasting into my browser.  I can get on www.candleforlove.com.  When I search for Culture and Language Discussion, nothing.  Thanks
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2009, 07:11:33 pm »
Skip, go to www.Candleforlove.com , then go to the thread of " Culture & Language discussion ", then go to; "Significant differences of Chinese/Westeren marriages, what you are looking for is the first post, it will be by " Cerberus ".
This should help Skip sorry if some of the other links didn't work, read it all and especially the hyperlinks, it will take some time but well worth it.
« Last Edit: July 21, 2009, 07:12:09 pm by MLM »
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RE: A very helpful link
« Reply #11 on: July 22, 2009, 11:32:26 pm »
Hi Guys I just read thr thread so it still works  follow Michaels directions and you are good to go.

Regards

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