Here I will post the Reply I received from KeRen , like to have other's do the same ... so to make it easy for Rob .
From: Kathy Wang (Profile ID: P656032 )
To: arnold dusch
Date: Oct 15, 2009 GMT Mail ID: P656BEAABHE
Dear Arnold
First, Thank you for your concern about the affair between me and Rob,And congratulations to you have find your real love and got married. I believe you know the family is most important for Chinese people, I loved Rob very much, and I admit, I still love him because I know he is a nice guy and will be a wonderful husband, but I have to be responsible for being a daughter to my dad, I can't see him in bed because of angry and worried, I beleive you could understand how hard for a people to give up the loved one because of the unchangeable thing, I also hope you can understand this is a thing between me and Rob, I will be very appreciate if you can give Rob more support in this special period, and I beleive he can pass this hard time very quickly with so many good friends .
Thanks again
Kathy