My question is...
Why...Why do the women make you you fall in love with them, and when they know you are hooked - BIG TIME..they end up finishing with you?
First it was Kathy (keren)..:@....And Now it's Sophie (Ying)...:@...:huh::@:huh:
Okey, I understand the abrupt way it ended with Kathy...Family first !!!...
Sophie, I sort of understand, because she 'read' about Anne and my 'Cohabitation', so I understood when we originally broke up......... but for the last 10 days we got back together and sorted it...
But not this time...
For the last 5 days she wanted us to write up a prenupt.......Not those words she used, she opted for the words 'Marriage Agreement'. So in a sense it was not a normal prenuptial agreement concerning sharing of money etc. I was about us as a couple, well I will attach it to read for yourselves, if you want to...
It is numbered, the only thing that was left to do, was sort them into their rightful places together, for example: (1). We will love, be honest, sincere etc etc.
Yesterday morning (mine), her night-time, we were chatting, and she was telling me her mother getting onto her and also her friends about us...:huh:...After some words she decide to end it, sp I am now again going to be searching...I know there wll be those who will tell me, "You should not have finished with Anne", PLEASE DON'T..I know this...:huh:
What hurts, thinking about it now. is realising they, get you by the short and curlies, steal your heart and then
BAM when you least expect it...
Going to now take my time and look for someone 'Real/Genuine'...NOT going back to China for at least a year...DECIDED...My heart will not take another beating like the last 2...
Here it is Could not attach
I, Robert O'Donnell agree to marry Zhang Ying, also known to me as Sophie.
These words I will NEVER go back on, I Pledge this to you Zhang Ying.
1) I will always Love you.
The same towards me.
2) I will never Hurt you.
The same towards me.
3) I will never Hurt or Hit Peter.
The same towards me.
4) I will always Respect You.
The same towards me.
5) I will always love Peter, your Family, and your Culture.
6) I will always be Truthful to you.
The same towards me.
7) I will always be Honest to you.
The same towards me.
I will always be Sincere to you.
The same towards me
9) I will always treat you with Grace.
10) I will always treat you and your family with dignity.
11) I will always be the one you can rely on.
12) I will always look after you when you are ill.
The same towards me.
13) My home will be your home.
14) My Family is your family.
The same towards me.
15) I will always make sure you are Happy.
The same towards me
16) I will always make sure NO-ONE ever hurts you.
17) I will never let my family hurt or bully you or Peter.
The same towards me
17) I will protect you and Peter with my life.
18) I will never quarrel with you. If we quarrel we MUST have good communication to sort out right away.
The same towards me.
19) I will always be there for you when you need me.
The same towards me
20) I will always have integrity.
21) No sex for 2 years, unless we are married.
22) Kissing and hugging allowed for a minimum of 10 minutes before the wedding.
23) Once I get there, we cannot search for another person.
After marriage each other is loyal,each other is responsible
24) When the menstaution comes, you will rest for a week.
25) I will not argue with you during this period. I will not make you angry
26) We belong together for a lifetime, I hope we stay together forever.
27) You can go back to Education or work. After the wedding we are always together, I'll be with you for all time.
The same towards me.
28) We must teach each other our languages for 1 hour each night, for each person.
29) If your mother is sick, you must accompany her.
30) Our Children cannot affect our marriage.
The same towards me.
31) We will prey daily, and go to church every week.
32) I wil at least try all the food you cook for me.
The same towards me.
33) We will go for a walk after dinner each night.
34) You must watch at least 1 film with me per week.
35) If there is something I think is NOT right for you, we will advise & consult, the final decion our own.
The same applies towards me when in China.
36) When your mood is good, I can point out your shortcomings.
The same towards me.
37) You will love my Children/grandchildren like your own.
The same towards me.
38) If we have children, you will love it/them as much as you Love Peter.
The same towards me.
39) After marriage sex allowed 2 or 3 times a week.
40) We will learn Cooking, Neutrition, Gardening, Doing Business from each other.
41) Computer for only 1 hour per day after marriage.
42) I will provide your Study expense.
43) If your Mother falls ill, we share expenses, for helping.
44) We bear expense if mother wants to come and visit.
45) If once married your not happy, we both go back to China together.
46) The wife is always right.
47) You must look for hidden love token everyday.
48) We plant flowers together, grow vegetables, fruit trees, doing housework together.
49) We go to park every Sunday after Church.
50) We go together every Saturday or whatever day you wish, go shopping and browsing
51) Once a month must take pictures of each other and as family.
52) Every week write our blog together.
53) I will not participate in the pornographic place.
54) I will not use bad language or curse at people.
55) Daily expense for each day registered.
56) Each other is Loyal and Responsable.
57) Once married, marriatal affairs are not allowed.
58) Smile everyday & be Sweet Tempered
59) Together, we study hard - A man of great Culture.
I agree to all of the above mentioned items...For the sake of a happy and harmonious marriage.
