Well, I have heard of peeping Toms before, and this topic is about "Your PM" (Private Message)? or has it now turned to Peeping Member? As to Willy's observation - I would say a fair percentage of the bad voyeur would filter through any sites regarding dating women overseas. Especially when I think of single men, travelling to Thailand in particular, I assume the main objective is a specialised tourism trade. Who knows what assumptions these predators make for safari trips overseas, thinking the wildlife of different temperament because of miss guided western fantasies.
So Willy, I don't doubt that you being positioned as a way station located in China, would see your fair share of these types of PMs (Pervert Members). You are not the only one that stayed in China on a long term bases that has seen this behaviour. We will always get the fair share of those that are naive about a serious relationship, as well as those that are more predatory. Most, we hope are like those brave Voyeguers, but some will be Voyeurs, missing the letter G that is the crtical component of a MAN: G for guts, G for galantry, G for Gentlman.